Reddit reviews Change or Die: The Three Keys to Change at Work and in Life
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Like PoseidonsDick said, if he doesn't want to change, he won't. You should read the book Change or Die.
It's about how people who engage in unhealthy habits, even when faced with death, rarely change their habits. My mom, who had a tumor removed from her nose a few years ago, refuses to get follow up appointments at the doctor and has not quit smoking. The best you and your family can do is be healthy and be there to support healthy habits. If he doesn't want to change, he won't.
Best of luck!
You're welcome.
However, from your post, you state that he never wants to go anywhere and only wants to game. That's not helping you grow. That's supporting the rut you want out of.
People really don't change. 90% (nine-zero) of the people who have a heart attack that are told they can prevent a second one from changing their diet and exercising DON'T do it. (From this book http://www.amazon.com/Change-Die-Three-Keys-Work/dp/0061373672)
Motivation doesn't click on like a light when you turn 30. Some people never grow up.
He sounds totally happy with his life the way it is and has no plans to change it. If I'm wrong, great!
However, I will say that no relationship except parenting should be a "test of patience."