Reddit reviews Cleanstream Enema Bulb, Red

Ok I can see no one's going to answer you with the info, so try an anal irrigator/enema bulb. It's compact, easy to clean and only takes a few minutes and can be used in the shower if need be. Much quicker than an full bowel enema or laxatives and less hard on your system and better for the flora of your GI tract.

Very common. No reason to be upset.

Next time, start with a quick enema bulb using warm (not hot, not cold, just warm) water. Maybe 4 or 5 times. It'll loosen everything up and clean you out.

And use much, much, much more lube. A great way to start is with a lube syringe. If you use enough lube and go slowly, it won't hurt at all.

Enjoy!

The few times I've had anal I just ate light through the day. Definitely nothing that I know would give me gas. Then I use a reusable anal douche about 2 hours or so prior. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B002SKG8GU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1374116721&sr=8-1&pi=SL75 here's what I use.

Cleanstream Enema Bulb, Red https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002SKG8GU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_PUG3Cb4SA080Q

Water-based lube is best

Doggy style for your comfort. Exhale on entrance.

Take it slow.

ok. 50ml is too little. i use one of these http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Red/dp/B002SKG8GU .. that's 8oz and i use two squeezes of those at a time. i estimate about 300-400ml. and it takes me a about 4-5 rounds, sometimes more before water is clear.

maybe 1 of these bad bois 2

https://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Red-x/dp/B002SKG8GU

This is a long post because it's a start-to-finish guide to anal.

DO NOT GO DIRECTLY FROM ANUS TO VAGINA. THIS CAN LEAD TO A REAL BAD INFECTION.

Poop first to help avoid a mess.

It is super important that whoever is on the receiving end (I'm assuming it's you) should be totally relaxed. I recommend start with a shower followed up with a nice full-body massage. Focus on your breathing, with deep belly breaths throughout the massage, warmup, and anal sex. Deep belly breaths will help your anal sphincter relax further.

After the massage, start with a lubed-up finger. Have him lube up his finger and push it pad-first against your anus. Have him push lightly and you bear down like you're trying to push a poop out. This may seem counter-intuitive, but really it will relax your anal sphincter and it will almost suck his finger into you. His goal is to lube up your anal passage, so have him re-lube and do it again (repeat until you're really lubed up).

Assuming he's hard now, have him lube up his dick (if you're using a condom, which you should, have him lube up the outside of the condom with plenty of lube). You want your anal passage AND his dick lubed up to totally get rid of any friction that could happen. The easiest position to receive in is either doggy style or on your side, with one leg higher towards your chest than the other. While he inserts himself you want to breathe deep belly breaths again and bear down. This is where the relaxation comes in handy, because the last thing you want to do is freak out and tighten up on him. Have him go extra slow (inch by inch) until you've warmed up. Then get him to gradually increase speed until he takes you to pound town (if that's what you want). At this point you can change positions and, since you're warmed up, he can re-insert himself much quicker and get back on the ball.

If you're having trouble taking him in after the finger stage, try a toy until you're used to taking that in, then give his dick another go.

Lube recommendations:
I recommend water-based lube, since silicon lube can be irritating and since it can dissolve condoms (then again, silicon lube is more slippery, so if you have problems with water-based you can try out a silicon lube).
-water slide this lube is the bee's knees. It's good for both anal and vaginal sex, and it's especially good for extra-sensitive folks.
-lush this lube is almost as good as water slide, but I start to itch after about an hour of use.
-Maximus if you're not sensitive then this one is the way to go for anal, because it's thick and stays wet for a long time. It's also optimal for the shower because it doesn't thin out easily.

Things to do:
-practice safe sex. Use a condom. Avoid letting sperm drip into your vagina (yes it happens).
-switch positions, change up the angle. Anal is great for hitting erogenous zones (g-spot, a-spot). Experiment with him on top, you on top, face up, face down, on your knees, standing, pronebone (laying face down), you fucking him, him fucking you, rimming (post-shower / pre-lube), etc.
-tensing up once you've warmed up. This can increase pleasure for both of you. Don't tense too hard though.
-putting a toy into your vagina while he fucks your ass to simulate some DP (or try one of these)
-poop on his dick? try an enema
-put a towel down on the bed if you're worried about a mess
-fuck in the shower (but don't let the water thin out your lube)
-solo anal play (butt plug, dildo, fingers, etc)

Things not to do:
-DO NOT GO FROM ANUS TO VAGINA. THIS CAN LEAD TO A REAL BAD INFECTION.
-not using enough lube (though, some people do enjoy not using lube)
-going too fast before you've warmed up
-unsafe sex
-freak out and tense up as he inserts himself

Edits: added lube recommendations

If you're new to douching you should probably start with an enema bulb

Now this is just going to work for your standard, run of the mill fucking. Very deep or rigorous fucking and you may still have a mess. But for the average dick the bulb will do a fine job.

It doesn't have to be this exact one, but they're all basically the same, a compressible chamber that you will with water that attaches to a nozzle that you put into your ass. Squeeze, evacuate, repeat.

This was the one I started with. The chamber has a wide mouth so filling can be pretty easy if you take the nozzle off (course then you're touching a lubey mess of a nozzle). This one, like all bulb enema syringes, are going to leak slightly where the nozzle inserts into the chamber. This is just the way it is. There are ways to manage this, typically involve how much force you compress the chamber with.

The biggest downside is the nozzle itself can be difficult to clean (and you want to clean it). But they're mostly all going to be like that, so it's just the cost of doing business.

Bareback is mostly considered risky because receptive anal sex has THE highest risk of STI/D transfer out of pretty much any type of sex.

The only risks after infections and diseases is just urinary tract infections, which are nothing major (although they do suck from what I've heard), and moving from the anus to other orifices without cleaning can lead to actual problems (ass to mouth or ass to vagina).

Other than that, as long as you go slow everything will be fine.

My fiancée is a transwoman, and we have a lot of anal sex and never bother with condoms. I've never had any issues from it.

However, if you ARE exceptionally worried, get yourself an anal cleaning utensil and use it before-hand. Most porn stores have them, and they're very easy to find online if you don't mind a wait or are too embarrassed to buy one in person.

Other than that, there's no extra risk, and having somebody ejaculate in you will not harm you.

The advice here is all good, I just wanted to add one thing. If you're not sure you've 'got it all out', you can try something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Blue/dp/B002SKG8GU/ref=sr_1_11?ie=UTF8&qid=1319036407&sr=8-11

Adamandeve.com sells one that has a more comfortable tip, but I've used this one before and it gets the job done. Just flush out a couple times a little while before sexy time, and you'll be clean as a whistle.

Ah yeah, not applicable til you have your own place. Try this instead: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B002SKG8GU/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?qid=1426245970&sr=8-9&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70&keywords=enema+kit

Non-mobile: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002SKG8GU/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?qid=1426245970&sr=8-9&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70&keywords=enema+kit

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Enema bulb - squirt warm water up there, squirt it out. Do it a few times until the water is coming out clear. Afterwards wait 30 minutes so that any residual water up there has time to be absorbed. I usually take a shower during that period and soap up down there.

With friends like you, who needs enemas?

http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Red/dp/B002SKG8GU

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema

If you can't afford a shower head, there are bulbs that you can fill with water that can suffice if your diet is good. Like this

I recommend an enema bulb! It's really old school, but my oh my. It never fails with me. I've had one for like two years now, totally feel like a hippy but my doctors say that's better than laxatives which can irritate the bowels and cause addiction. But what do I know! Stomachs are weird!
I'm so glad for your touchdown! I wish you many more!

I went with 6" for my first go-around as well. This is the one I went with:
Amazon link I started by cleaning out the system first with this: Another Amazon Link Hey, I got Prime. ;-)
Here is an album of me getting used by both(vid cap screenshots at end). Warning: a little anal juice is visible on the last screen shots.
http://imgur.com/a/JwVhr

Hey so i made a throw away just in the hopes I could maybe help you out. I just went through this about 3-4 weeks ago. Virgin, 21, male, 5'8'', 150lbs, not feminine, using Scruff and Growlr. I used apps because I like older guys. It actually took me about a year to accept this is what I wanted.

So my first question is what have you done in preparation? Do you plan to top or bottom? I had been seriously thinking about my first time for a about 1-2 months prior. I was really nervous like yourself so I just looked at other guys profiles I was interested in while in an offline mod. I had a few people message me but I just stated that "I was not ready yet, sorry" or "thank you". I eventually bought lube and tried fingering myself (i think doing it with lube is easier than in the shower). It showed me how easy it was to fit larger things up there. I quickly moved to an anal plug set to prepare myself further. http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=3539

I pretty quickly able to use the medium plug. Oh also I bought and enema and got used to using that (~3 times 2-4 squirts) http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Red/dp/B002SKG8GU/ref=sr_1_3_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1464369744&sr=1-3&keywords=enema

I used the plug for about 2 weeks, not every day, but I kept it in for 30min to an hour while just sitting at a computer.

I finally felt ready and put a photo up online and got messages from people. I was polite, but mostly talked about normal things. Interest on my profile or theirs. Returned or gave a compliment about how they look (handsome, nice face/smile/beard, strong, stud, etc). I never initiated any sexual talk. Exchanged pictures when they asked or if they did (and i was interested).

So now I'll continue with my first time and focus on what we talked about.

So since it seems like you dont have a problem meeting people I'll tell you that one of the people I had favorited messaged me within 2 hours of me putting up my profile picture (not bragging, just context). I didnt know if he was looking to hookup or date. We talked just like I said above. Compliments and a few interest. He gave me his number fairly quickly. Now I was still just shocked this was happening this fast with a guy I was really attracted to. I ended up using Sideline (a fake phone number app, it can send and receive jumbled messages sometimes but good for privacy). Looking back through the texts our first conversation was very casual (what are you up to? how did the day go? which lead into interests and opinions). I know that may seem vague but those two questions really made it easy to continue talking as long as you or he puts some detail into an answer. Then he asked what else I was into and I returned the question. We clicked really well, both of us making mild sexual puns to each other. My dick hurt while just texting him. Now I really liked this guy and didnt want to scare him away being an inexperienced virgin.

So before our first date I decided to meet up with another guy. He luckily messaged me, but I dont think it would have been hard to greet him. These message were much more straightforward. Still same basic stuff but much more down to business. After a little back and forth (flirty, not romantic) he asked what I was into. I straight up told him that I was a virgin, but I was ready and looking for someone to teach me. I think its good to be upfront so that they dont go too quickly for you and you stay relaxed. The key things to look for is someone who says they would take it slow and not teach/try everything right away (ie no anal first time, unless you really really want too). We talked a bit more but not a lot. We agreed to meet at Panera Bread and we talked for about 30-45 minutes. I was really nervous, but stayed calm. In fact, I got there first to just settle in. He seemed genuinely interested, nice, and not a creep. He drove me back to his place and it was slightly awkward, but we watched Jimmy Carr standup cuddled on the coach. Eventually I felt a desire to kiss him so we started making out and continued to do so for a while. Then it was slightly awkward as well again when I said I wanted to go to the bed room and we walked over. I laid on the bed first and we started kissing again. I cant remember if I undid my belt or he did but the pants came off, then his shirt, then mine, then finally his pants. We continued making out and I felt really relaxed. I kissed his neck, nibble/sucked on his earlobe and nipple. I wasnt really thinking about it being my first time too much, I just relaxed and in a sense trusted him. I just did what felt right. Now I cant remember if he sucked my dick first or sucked his. Either way when I sucked him it wasnt gross or that difficult. I had read about how to give a blowjob a few days before and the day of so I wasnt too nervous. I came back up and kissed him again then he sucked me again and I paid attention to what he did. More kissing. Be prepared to taste salt from your own pre-cum. Its more surprising than anything. I neither care for it or dislike it. But finally when we had messed around for quite a bit, sucking each other at the same time & kissing in different position & some dry humping, I decided to stay down longer and finish the job. I did swallow only because i didnt really know when it was coming and I didnt really taste it. Im sure it would have been fine to spit it out or ask him to jerk him or have him jerk himself when he was almost there. I was so pleased to get him off and when he said that that there was no way that was my first time. He then tried to get me off, but unfortunately I was taking a medication that made it difficult so he jerked me, yet i finished myself while kissing him. We laid together for a bit after, showered together, and then I asked him to take me home.

I think the major take away was just to relax and be with someone you trust. Youre being vulnerable and its difficult so if you cant relax it wont be enjoyable and awkward. Just give in to the moment. Also there really isnt a bad blow job as long as you dont use teeth.

Now I would have meet up with this guy to try anal, but I went on a date with the other guy and it was fantastic. We had another date where he stayed the night. Early the next morning we both wanted to have sex. I did not tell him I was a virgin, and was slightly nervous. Again though, I trusted him. He took the lead after we had similar foreplay as with the other guy. I told him to take it slowly while i was on my back with my legs up. When he entered I told him to wait a bit. We kissed and caressed each other. Then he began slowly and I told myself what my friend had told me "it may hurt, be ready. its natural for that to happen, but only to a certain extent. If its bad tell him to stop, wait 30 sec and try again. But if its too painful just stop". I also told myself "relax, relax, relax". To be honest it didnt really hurt, but it didnt necessarily feel great. I am told it takes a few times before you enjoy it which seems to have been the case so far. All in all I was freaking out a bit because I didnt know how long he would take or how long i could put up with it. He changed between fast and slow so there was a slight rest. Yet I still had to tell myself to stay with it because it did feel strange, but once it was over I was so happy. I thought that wasnt so bad. I dont think he even suspected I was a virgin and still doesnt. My second and third time were the same day at his place and I was much more excited for them. My fourth time up against a wall felt fantastic.

So sorry if this was long, but I read a few stories like these and it really helped me know what to expect and relax. thats the key thing I think, being comfortable and relaxing. Its not going to be perfect, but it should be enjoyable for the most part making out. Try not to overthink it too much. Prepare yourself mentally and physically before hand. Feel comfortable with the guy, not necessarily romantically attracted to but at least physically attracted to him. And again be relaxed, dont stress out too much. When just talking to someone intially before the hookup dont worry about it. Be yourself. Its just a meet up, not the actually act of sex. Be prepared for it to be kind of awkward. Just talk normally like you would to someone you just met, only at the end will either of you suggest to go back to someones place. AND ITS OK TO SAY NO. Even if he buys you lunch or something its your body and you dont have to sell yourself for a sandwich.

Hope this helps. Sorry if its jumbled or long, I didnt really re-read much because its so long and I just kept going. Good luck!

TLDR: relax, prepare mentally & physically, find a guy you trust

Shower douches are usually a bad idea unless you're into heavier & deeper anal play like fisting or big toys. Too much pressure and poor flow/volume control.

This water becomes trapped usually, but more importantly, these linings are a little bit more sensitive and delicate than your rectum.

Ideally you should be using something like a bulb douche or something similar to it.