Reddit reviews Enabling Romance: A Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships for People with Disabilities (and the People who Care About Them)

i get all the instructions i need from porn! that's healthy, right? :-p

No but seriously, I haven't really looked into videos, but there is a book i've been meaning to look at called "Enabling Romance" that addresses those sorts of subjects.

Realistically, however, aside from the whole "not walking" thing, I'm pretty mobile out of my chair. I don't suffer any loss of sensation or motor skills in my legs until basically my ankles, so I don't have much limitation as far as moving/positioning my lower half goes.