Reddit reviews First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern-day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished, and Adored for Life
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Answers to your questions:
1.) Don't believe a marriage counselor's opinion on hormones. In fact disregard 99% of what a marriage counselor says-it's crap. Either verify her hormone levels by medical testing, or disregard it as a convenient excuse. Read this book and give it to your wife.
2.) Read and internalize the sidebar, lift weights. Don't over think this. Lots of people are busy.
3.) I don't know anything about this, don't try to make some kind of hybrid of MRP and something else.
Understand that MRP is not about saving the relationship, it's about saving the man. Your wife doesn't take you seriously because you don't have the frame. Your wife will have sex with you and kiss with tongue when she finds you attractive, gets the tingles, and you lead her there. Stop asking for sex. You initiate and proceed until given a hard no. Don't negotiate if turned down, don't show butt hurt, move on to something else and become more attractive.
So, basically, get to work on you and forget about her for awhile.
The obscured book title is: Doyle, "First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors"
https://www.amazon.com/First-Kill-All-Marriage-Counselors/dp/1494561263