Reddit reviews Hit Him Where It Hurts: The Take-No-Prisoners Guide to Divorce-Alimony, Custody, Child Support, and More

I was using it to post such gems as

http://www.amazon.com/Hit-Where-Hurts-Take-No-Prisoners-Divorce-Alimony/dp/1593377398

or

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1035315/Father-branded-pervert--photographing-children-public-park.html

but posting reddit examples could be fun too.

> So you want to treat kids like homeless people?

It does not cost $1200 a month to buy one extra person's worth of groceries, buy some clothes and so forth. That will cover rent nicely, though. Or a car payment for her new boyfriend. Things I've seen go down.

> Lies and lies. That's a huge way for her to lose the kids.

Again, if you don't know what you're talking about, BE SILENT. He must forever and always open his books to her any time she thinks she can raise support. He can literally NEVER ask or demand any accounting of moneys spent, unless he gets a court order and even then, that's only done in extenuating circumstances e.g. massive neglect.

A good friend of mine's brother had his wife walk out with some dude who kicked his pregnant wife down the stairs and then after they shacked up - started trying to see his daughter (9) naked. There's clear neglect and the kids get fed something pasta-and-tomato-sauce based out of a can every meal while she spends the difference on the boyfriend. And there's nothing he could do about it, even as her credit card people advised her she wasn't making enough payments and she said well, better get the kids full time to double the check. And did. Free.

> Dont project.

Don't deflect. You lost. Accept it.

> Defend what argument? An oddly specific one that does sound personal?

Not at all. I asked what a man gets out of a contract. When we're talking about a contract, we're talking about I give you $20000 and you furnish me with a Hyundai Accent. Not "well, I'm spiritually fulfilled at having made the sale, and you'll have wonderful memories driving along the coast in your car". Maybe the car does nothing but break down and he sets fire to it in frustration, and maybe the salesman sells the car at a loss and it's a reason he's later fired. But regardless, the contract specifies: $20,000 in exchange for one car. I asked, have asked before and will ask again what marriage does for a guy. Because all it does is make him indebted and financially liable without any upside.

> So you see all women as gold diggers and see having a family as enslavement. Problems with conditions 1 and 2.

No, listen carefully. I'm saying that the contract allows for exactly that. And yes, when someone is compelled to work to feed three kids she won't let him see, under pain of jail even though the amounts are excessive and she could easily get a goddamn job of her own, that's compelled labor, which is by the way, literally enslavement.

> The same goes for you.

Not at all, lady. I just fucking told you. She gets him on the hook to pay for her credit cards, the obligation to keep her financially, and cash, prizes and a pension when she changes her mind. If they're just dating and living in separate apartments when she decides to off and fuck Chad she doesn't get a monthly check to thank her for going on dates with him previous. Holy fuck, listen.

> If he doesn't see his wife as a hole and he doesn't see his kids as a liability, he's more likely to love being his marriage.

Again, because you cannot and will not answer the question, you make it "oh, you just see women as prostitutes, no wonder you can't get married". Twist, change, deflect. LOL. In other words I win.

> Same with men.

Not really: maybe he can't afford to. Maybe he's worried she'll punch herself in the face and then call the cops saying "Duluth Model! Jail him!" Maybe he can't afford to find all his belongings on fire and her illegally kicking him out of his own apartment. Whereas she can because when she does, CASH AND PRIZES.

> Same with men.

Google how many men get alimony. By the way when men don't pay it they go to jail. See if you can find one example of a woman in jail for nonpayment of alimony or child support. Hint: you can't.

> Exactly and most do not.

Except the contract does, and so does society. And yes you do, the moment you decide you could do better, you get bitter and hate and resent the guy, and decide "I'm going to fuck him one last time, but not with this little kitty, tee hee". And then you buy a book like this

> And that's why YOU THINK marriages suck for guys,

I don't think. That's what it actually IS. You're thinking about it in girl terms, e.g. what the romance novels and Disney make it out to be. I'm looking at the law itself.

> And you make it sound like it's a bad thing.

I could care less.