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Ask to postpone the job offer and if they say no, bail on it.
Even if she passes soon, you're going to need time to grieve and you don't want to be doing that at a brand new job.
Resources for you: /r/fuckcancer, /r/widowers, and this book has helped me a ton: How To Survive The Loss Of A Love
Have her write you something you can read in the future. Prep for the end as much as you can, no matter how hard it is now. You'll thank yourself later.