Reddit reviews Living M/s; A Book for Masters, slaves, and Their Relationships
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>My husband demands 100% obedience in all things and I have no say at all even when I am unhappy or uncomfortable.
Aaaaaand, that sounds like abuse.
The key word is consent. If you enjoy a relationship where he always makes the decisions even when you're uncomfortable about it, then that's ok, some people do like that kind of submission. But you should always be able to say no, and you should be able to sit down as EQUAL partners first and discuss what kind of dynamic you want in your relationship, and then agree to start it. He doesn't just get to choose what kind of relationship you two will have.
Here's a great book https://www.amazon.com/Living-Masters-slaves-Their-Relationships/dp/1610981952
This part is just my opinion, but I think if anything ever makes a person have to think "hmmm... is this abuse?" Then the answer is 99% of the time YES. I don't want a relationship with abuse, and I don't want a relationship that even gets close enough for me to wonder if it might be abuse.
Sure, be happy to. We are the authors of Living M/s and national presenters on the topic
I would suggest Living M/s , it has a lot of good real life examples and essays.