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To build on that:
Autism and Asperger's Syndrome really aren't the names of disorders. They're names for groups of symptoms. There are experts who think that "autism" is probably more than ten different disorders with the same name.
So, a lot of what you read simply won't apply to her. It's much more important to pay attention to your girlfriend and what she tells you than what some expert has to say.
Now, there is a book that is written for people in your situation (link below) but I think it's complete overkill for you right now.
https://smile.amazon.com/Loving-Someone-Aspergers-Syndrome-Understanding/dp/1608820777
Good luck!
My therapist recommend Loving Someone with Aspergers for my husband after I was diagnosed a few months ago. It has read about 75% of it & has said it's been very helpful in understanding my diagnosis.
You might want to give Loving Someone with Asperger's Syndrome: Understanding and Connecting with your Partner by Cindy N. Ariel a read.
Amazon link as well: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Someone-Aspergers-Syndrome-Understanding/dp/1608820777