Reddit reviews Lush Velocity Massage Wand - Waterproof, Wireless, Powerful Vibration - Personal Therapeutic Massager (Slate), Large
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There's a lot of good advice in this thread, but there's one thing I'd like to add. You mentioned foreplay and sex, as though they're separate. The purpose of oral and fingering/hand stuff is not to get her vagina ready for a penis, it's to feel good. Because it's sex as well. PIV (penis in vagina) sex is not the only thing that counts as "real sex", ANY genital contact is sex. Oral sex is sex. Using your hands to get each other off is sex.
Since PIV is hurting her, maybe don't do it for a while. Have sex for awhile using just your hands and mouth, figure out how to make each other relax and orgasm, then, when you feel like you both are 100% comfortable and in tune with each other's bodies, THEN try PIV again.
Also, buy a body wand. This one is $31 and body safe waterproof silicone. Sex with a vibrator is so rad. It can feel good for both of you, like once you two are having comfortable PIV sex, having her hold a vibrator on her clitoris during PIV is a game changer (my gf and I use a strap on but it's a similar act lol), and it feels good for both people.