Reddit reviews Pregnant Butch: Nine Long Months Spent in Drag

Ugh ugh ugh sounds like you're in a tough spot with the conservative community where you live. I don't have any advice, but want to offer you big hugs and welcome to all the groups. I really like r/parenting too (it's mostly geared toward parenting older kids but it's a really great community imho).

Also, you might enjoy reading this memoir for a little solidarity with what you went through while you were pregnant.