Reddit reviews Radical Honesty: How to Transform Your Life by Telling the Truth
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Radical Honesty
That you're putting of talking to her makes me recommend this book: "Radical Honesty" by Brad Blanton.
If she's blowing up, you might also like "Nonviolent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg. Contrary to what I usually do, I found this one hard to read but easy to listen to; YMMV.
The following strategies and resources are those that have proven particularly useful to me. I hope they will prove useful to you as well. I think it's helpful to approach them like an academic subject - take notes, analyze and dig deeper, look for related resources. Take your time on it and approach it like a continuing education process.
Self-work:
Communication:
Relationships:
Check out Brad Blanton, he wrote a book called Radical Honesty. He has a youtube channel as well. I think you'll find his idea to be similar to yours.
Get Laid or Die Trying - Jeffy from RSD.
This is honestly the only book I remember that I finished within a week ( I am terribly ADD when it comes to reading). It's basically his diary or field reports, but it is extremely entertaining and you get a piece of his mind.
The Power of Now/ A New Earth - This isn't for everybody, but it get's your energy in the right place and helps you stay in the moment and you learn to snap yourself out of unconsciousness when you are acting like a little bitch. Also these books are ones where you can just read it for 5-10 minutes and get your mind right for the rest of the day.
Radical Honesty - Brad Blanton
This one can mess you up though short term, I must admit. It may dig up some stuff that is uncomfortable and you are now more honest about who you are. If you are over analytical already I probably would not recommend this as it is kind of a mind fuck.
The Power of Positive Thinking - Norman Vincent Peale
Positive thinking is all you need blah blah blah, but it's seriously all you need in life. The negativity is what holds us all back so this book is a game changer potentially if you believe in it.
> I don't truly love anyone and feel as if it'd be bad if they found out.
They already know. You already know that they know. And you both resent each other for enabling the continual lies and manipulations. This is classic co-dependence: "I won't call you out on your bullshit (psychological defenses/manipulations) if you promise not to call me out on mine."). The alternative is to find people with whom you can tell the truth without fear of attack/rejection/abandonment.
Relevant read, buddy.
You have to love the truth more than you do lying. You have to lead your life in such a way where you aren't compelled to lie. The book Radical Honesty has some interesting ideas. The same author wrote this followup. There are other Amazon reviewers that recommend Getting Real, though I have not read that one. Some of these may be in your local library.
https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Honesty-Transform-Telling-Truth/dp/0970693842
Also nicht das mich das Buch bekehrt hätte, aber es ist eine gute Lektüre zu dem Thema. Es tut halt manchmal weh, aber man kommt schneller voran. Man sollte ja auch nicht unfreundlich sein oder einfach ablehnen ohne eine eigene Idee zu haben. Ich sehe keinen Sinn darin zu sagen Schatz das Kleid steht dir obwohl es nicht so ist. Auf der Arbeit ist das schwieriger da nicht jeder Chef hören will das seine Idee nicht so gut ist wie er denkt. Insgesamt sage ich lieber gar nichts bevor ich irgendwas sage und dabei Lüge.
Man muss nur die Eier haben zu seiner Meinung zu stehen. Das ist aber häufig das Problem dieser Tage.
> you don't have to give an answer at all. You aren't lying, you just not telling the truth either.
Tell that to Brad Blanton, inventor of Radical Honesty (Amazon Link). He says that to think something and don't say it is lying.