Reddit reviews Self-Defence Key Chain Aluminum Anti-Wolf Defense Keychain, Ladies's Aviation Rings - 1 Pack with 5 items
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✔ The key chain defense Surface through special processing, not easily get scratches✔ Come with keychain ring, easy to take along with. you may just install it on your keychain,also put it on your bag for convenient use✔ The self defense key chain is made of solid avation aluminum(solid),It's a must self-protection tool for you and your family.✔ Package included 5 pack of metal defense keychain(Black, pink, silver, purple, blue) different colors for the defense key chains, it can be also a good gift to your female friends
Decoy phone is a good idea, I never thought of that. Even just a cheap prepaid phone that can be used in an emergency but is otherwise not worth much.
There are also keychain add ons like this that don't even look like weapons (and this just became legal in Texas):
https://www.selfdefenseproducts.com/wild-kat-keychains/
And then I found this while browsing Amazon, which would be even better than keys:
EIOU Self-Defence Key Chain Aluminum Anti-Wolf Defense Keychain, Ladies's Aviation Rings- 5 Pack https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0753F8DMP/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_3hMDDbV6KG37V
holy shit I'm so sorry that he did those things to you. he sounds like a super garbage human.
I'm gonna list some stuff out, feel free to take or leave any advice.
So. I'm a big fan of therapy as a way of dealing with trauma. but if that's not your thing you can try journaling about this incident or finding a support group. If you need help immediately then call the sexual assault hotline number at 1-800-656-4673. If you're more of an internet chat person than there's a chat option here. Some sexual assault survivors find self defense classes very therapeutic so they can prevent themselves and others from being assaulted while also getting some tension out.
I'm not sure what your living situation is like but if you have neighbors that you feel comfortable with then I would recommend making some connections there. That way there's someone who knows you and your patterns/schedule so they can keep an eye out for suspicious activity. My neighbor and I let each other know when we're leaving for the weekend. Another option would be to share your location with a family member or close friend and be honest about why.
If you want extra security for your home these are cheap and reliable ways to prevent doors from being forced open., and of course I'm a big fan of blinds/ curtains. Depending on the laws in your state, consider getting pepper spray, or a small weapon. As far as internet profiles go make sure all of them are set to private, where you can't view posts or anything related without being a follower. Avoid posting things about your new town for awhile, until you can be sure he's not trying to find you.
I'm so sorry that you might have to adopt some new habits just to avoid someone who did something so heinous. I hope that at least one thing helped you in this list, or that someone else can help you. Reach out if you need anything else!