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I think you might find this Dan Savage talk supportive: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brZIb4MG8oA

I don't know what your goals are - do you? - but I think you should also look into Esther Perel: https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved/discussion

Alain de Botton wrote a book in which (spoiler alert!) the husband cheats on the wife and never comes clean. I didn't know that was part of the plot, so it really made me think hard about my own marriage values when I read it. But yeah, it might be a good perspective for you, as well: https://www.amazon.com/Course-Love-Novel-Alain-Botton/dp/1501134515

One of my most valued mentors healed her marriage after an affair, if that is the direction you're thinking of heading?

What sort of support are you looking for, here? Are you trying to end the affair? Or the marriage? Or both? Do you know what you want?

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I recommend this as consolation for your self, not to ignore the issue but I think it would be of much help for your journey thru this situation, which I can barely imagine how you feel. Nevertheless I'll pray for him to accept help, for him to change and for your relationship.