Reddit reviews The Joy of Gay Sex, Revised & Expanded Third Edition

Congratulations! The main thing is good communication. Relationships (especially gay ones) cannot survive without it.

Re: sex. You don't need help from others, just do what feels natural (and safe, until/unless you trust each other to be monogamous). But if you really feel like you need an outside reference, try The Joy of Gay Sex.

The most useful instructional resource to me was [The Joy of Gay Sex] (http://www.amazon.com/The-Revised-Expanded-Third-Edition/dp/0060012749) which covered pretty much everything I needed to know about life as a gay person. I don't know how I would have managed without it. Warning: it's illustrated :P

However, if you were looking for something less instructional and more emotional, I would recommend watching the film "Prayers for Bobby." I do feel obligated to attach a caveat to this though, because it is one of the most emotional things you will ever watch.

I have other examples, too.

https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Gay-Revised-Expanded-Third/dp/0060012749

I got you 😉

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You could also try tinder or okcupid if you're looking more for romance and less for hookups. Dating can suck though, it's such a roller coaster of emotions.

While it doesn't bother me (so I assume some others will feel the same), if you feel like inexperience is a real problem, you can do a bit of homework. For example I saw this book the joy of gay sex recommended somewhere. I haven't read it so your mileage may vary.

Obviously, this doesn't give you more experience, but it can educate about having sex in ways that porn doesn't.

The Velvet Rage - I've been recommended over and over again & next of my reading list

Currently working my way through The Joy of Gay Sex, which is quite refreshing and making an interesting read! Those illustrations. . . .