Reddit reviews The Rational Male - Preventive Medicine (Volume 2)

Forget marriage counselling: anyone who is red pill will tell you that it is bullshit. Marriage counselling is what women do to "tick a box" before they file for divorce, just so they can say (to themselves, to their friends/family, to the judge) that they "tried". DO NOT go to marriage counselling. Save your time and money.

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You NEED to read these ASAP:

https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+rational+male&qid=1555503274&s=gateway&sr=8-1

https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Preventive-Medicine/dp/1508596557/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=the+rational+male&qid=1555503274&s=gateway&sr=8-2

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This book is referred to as "The Red Pill Bible".

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Asking your wife for marriage counselling? Crying and screaming in front of her and the kids? Begging her for forgiveness? Saying things like “She is my one and only” and “I’ve always loved her and I always will”? You need stop this nonsense and focus on becoming a MAN. The fact that you did or said any of this is evidence of your childish, feminized mindset. You need to first understand masculinity, and then you need to work on becoming masculine.

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Please, you NEED to learn the foundational, basic stuff first. You need to change yourself; build yourself from the ground-up anew. Otherwise, no one-time advice that we give about specific situations will do anything for you.

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Ok, now let me at least focus on something specific here.

That “uhh... sure” you heard? Let's be honest, you don't even have to be red-pilled to understand what's going on here. You're still a biological man, and as a biological man, you have certain instincts that are hard-wired into your brain. I think the fact that you asked what it means is evidence that there's something, a feeling in your gut or a voice in the back of your mind, telling you that something about that interaction and her response was not "right". This may not make sense to you at the moment, which is why I keep telling you to learn the basics ASAP, but women do NOT respect, are NOT attracted to, and are NOT aroused by vulnerability in men - they see it as weakness. Your begging her for forgiveness (even if you did act like a child) and asking her to go to marriage counselling is a supreme act of weakness on your part - especially after you already displayed supreme weakness when you broke-down before. All you just did was further solidify in her mind that you're a weak man. Women DO NOT want to associate with weak men, and they CERTAINLY do NOT want to be married to one or be saddled with the offspring of a weak man. That “uhh... sure” was her being disgusted with you.

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You need to understand that you've obviously been raised in a blue-pill way. No one has even taught you what masculinity is, how men should act, women's nature or how to interact with them. Your actions are evidence of this.

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I'm not saying you should be a domineering asshole who abuses his wife or other women - that is absolutely NOT what the red pill is about, and absolutely NOT what we advocate for here. The red pill is about masculinity (real masculinity - not the feminized nonsense you hear about in mainstream media), and that is what it teaches and what we discuss in the red pill community.

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When you're reading those books, focus on the parts about "making yourself your own mental point of origin", self-improvement, and applying what's known as "dread". The fact of the matter is that your recent actions, as well as your financial state, has caused your wife to lose respect for you; you are no longer the man she married in her eyes. You need to build yourself back up - not for her, but for yourself. If this marriage ends, and there's a good chance it will, it makes NO DIFFERENCE to what you need to do moving forward from now. You need to learn the basic/foundational red pill material, internalize it, and work on yourself (go to the gym, eat healthy, work on your financial situation, read books, etc.).

It's on the American Amazon in physical form.
I just ordered it, thanks Rollo!

It's available for purchase:

https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862/

https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Preventive-Medicine/dp/1508596557

Never directly address an issue with a woman like that. You can’t just straight up ask her why she wasn’t down. Did you think she’d tell you why so that it could then fix whatever the problem was? Women don’t function like that. Men like to try solving these problems as if they were logical puzzles, but genuine sexual desire can’t be negotiated logically like that. All you accomplished was coming off like a thirsty beta and torpedoing your chances.

The Desire Dynamic

The kissing during the movie probably failed to escalate to sex because you tried to jump on it too soon. If you’re watching a movie then finish the movie with her. If you stop 20 minutes in then she’s going to feel like sex is more of a priority to you than spending quality time with her.

Make Brain: Sex > Quality Time

Female Brian: Quality Time > Sex

Also, if the movie itself was lame then she could have been in a weird mood due just to that. Women are very sensitive to their moods. Read my post here about how to get a movie lay. It doesn’t map exactly to your situation, but it’ll give you some ideas:

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9m9k7f/comment/e7d1mmv

Another thing to remember is that muscularity is a disproportionately huge attraction factor for very young women. They have no conception at all about what qualities make for a good long term partner. They give zero shits about your financial situation or your prospects for future success. They give zero shits about if you have your life together or if you’re going to be a burn out alcoholic. They just want the stereotypically hot muscular guy they see in media.

This changes in their mid 20’s after they’ve had a few failed relationships. At the moment though, just focus on getting totally jacked. If you’re young and you’re dealing with very young girls (23 or younger) then all you need to do is get your bench press weight up to 200lb and wear a skin tight shirt to show off your pecs. That’ll get you laid, guaranteed. You’ll want to be dating 23 year olds (or younger) even into your 30’s, so I can’t stress enough how important lifting is.

Just flat out ignore her mean texts. She’s attention whoring, trying to create drama, and trying to get you to get emotional like a beta. If you give her any attention at all she wins. Just go blackout silent.

Lift and game other girls.

Also, if you haven already read the entirety of The Rational Male blog, then I highly recommend the book versions. It’s the same posts, but arranged in a saner format, and with some useful front matter:

Volume 1

Volume 2

Volume 3

You should read and internalize 'The Rational Male: Preventative Medicine'. It will help you come to terms with the differing motivations of women at various stages of their lives so that you can make better informed choices about who you allow into your life.

Some people can't handle the Red Pill, they need to stay in the matrix and they will fight to protect the wonderland that they live in.

I congratulate you on having the strength to face reality, even if it's harsh. Check out r/MGTOW - your value is not attached to how you are viewed by a woman. Escape the gynocentric paradigm, the relentless media indoctrination, you're 20 right now, trust me it only gets better for you

Women want to ride the cock carousel in their 20s then settle for a 'nice guy' after they hit the wall.

When you're in your 30's you'll peak, with a great career, finances, be in the best shape of your life and you'll have women fighting over you.

It's ironic, when you don't care about getting women you gets lots of women. Read this and it will change your life. Feel free to PM me, "red-pill rage" is just a phase when you face the reality that you've been lied to all your life.

Just had a look at this as per your suggestion and found there is now a follow up book.
https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Preventive-Medicine/dp/1508596557/ref=pd_bxgy_14_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=X31QAB2KEQD4AWGEVD71

Your presumptions of what Red Pill men believe in this respect is entirely based on your preconceptions.

In fact I wrote a book about exactly how women's sexual prioritizations change over various phases of their maturity:

Preventive Medicine

You can also read it for free here:
https://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/

You best start reading up on TheRationalMale.com

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Then pick up his 3 books titled 'The Rational Male'. You will want to pay attention to the 2nd one for your situation: https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Preventive-Medicine/dp/1508596557/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1543582305&sr=8-2&keywords=the+rational+male



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https://www.amazon.ca/When-Say-Feel-Guilty-Systematic-ebook/dp/B004IK8Q22

And

https://www.amazon.ca/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

Definitely this one:

https://www.amazon.ca/Married-Man-Life-Primer-2011-ebook/dp/B004W0IRQ8

And required reading for all men

https://www.amazon.ca/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862

And

https://www.amazon.ca/Rational-Male-Preventive-Medicine/dp/1508596557

The 5 love languages is a great read if you want to masterbate in the shower.
I'm coming at this from a male perspective.

Ich sag mal so, das subreddit dazu ist schon arg übertrieben und die user dort, naja. Wer sich mal ohne große Übertreibungen und Idiotie zu dem Thema informieren will, dem seien diese Bücher hier von mir empfohlen: The Rational Male und The Rational Male - Preventive Medicine