Reddit reviews Transitioning in the Workplace

Four months since I came out to myself. I've told my wife and my best friend, and medical and other professionals. That's it. Starting HRT next month. Will come out to friends this summer because it's impossible to hide a sports bra under a tank top while running outside. Work and family will be later... much later.

Agree with Jessica that this varies a lot for the individual, and that you are the best judge. Talk to your wife and therapist as well. There are books like this one that might help you in different areas of your life (getting it from the library sometime this week).