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I mentioned some time ago that this book: Unsung Lullabies: Understanding and Coping with Infertility has been helpful for me. It does discuss that dealing with and going through infertility mirrors the grief that accompanies death/loss. Hope this helps.
Your pain is valid, and I'm so sorry. No one deserves this, and to have such terrible luck with the donor is incredibly hard.
In case therapy is not an option for you, perhaps this book will help. It helped validate that what I was feeling was trauma, and helped me better understand and accept my emotions: Unsung Lullabies by Janet Jaffe