Best leadership training books according to redditors
We found 240 Reddit comments discussing the best leadership training books. We ranked the 76 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
We found 240 Reddit comments discussing the best leadership training books. We ranked the 76 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
Well this seems like a good opportunity to post a few of the lessons I learned in my 20s.
To my former self:
If you're depressed, here's how to turn it around
Fap less, and never to porn
Gratitude
Wealth
Theories
Girls
Career
Flow
Meditation
*****
Edit:
To answer some requests, here's my list of resources.
Wealth/Metaphysics
This audiobook has the best summary I've found of how wealth works
Lifting
How Procrastination works:
How Business works
What innovation actually is and how to do it:
How economics works:
How to get things done:
Task Management tool:
Spiritual Books
How to be a man:
Audiobooks (most of these can be found on audiobook):
Frame Control (Anytime you feel like you're trying too hard or begging for something, you lost the frame)
This is my favourite book of all. They talk about the new type of conscousness which is really really interesting to me. May not apply to all people.
If anyone find this book interesting I'd love to talk about it:
How the world works:
Articles from reputable sources are a decent source of knowledge, but some quality business books will get you an infinitely better understanding of concepts. Here is my personal business book list if you want to get a "universal generalist" understanding of business:
I am graduating with a Bachelor of Commerce Honors degree in May and I can easily say that one of these books (average price ~25$) has significantly more content than most individual classes I have taken (~600$). However, keep in mind that business knowledge and business acumen are two entirely different things. Knowledge is easily obtainable through books like these, and acumen is the result of applied experience with decision making. In short, it is one thing to be book smart, but it is another to get out there and actually apply it. No one can give you that in the form of an article or book - you have to do that yourself.
edit: added links to amazon
I'm so sad to hear this. He's not lazy, he's traumatized. He's not freezing up on purpose, he's dissociating under stress, a behavior kids learn to cope with abuse. It sounds like CPS didn't provide a class for parenting traumatized children, and that's a travesty. I highly recommend you check out this book. It might give you the information and tools you need to be able to safely and effectively parent this poor kid: https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001
ETA: It does sound like he needs a 504. It has nothing to do with being smart, it's about accommodations for a disability. Taking away recess is a terrible consequence for a kid having social difficulties. He needs support, not punishment.
Wow, 24 hours and no replies?!
Fine, you know what? FUCK IT!
Alright, first off - While you can concentrate on physical, understanding the basics of the digital side of things will make you more valuable, and arguably more effective. I'll take this opportunity to point you at Metasploit and tell you to atleast spend an hour or so each week working to understand it. I'm not saying you have to know it backwards or inside-out, just get a basic understanding.
But you said you want to go down the physical path, so fuck all that bullshit I said before, ignore it if you want, I don't care. It's just a suggestion.
Do you pick locks? Why not? Come on over to /r/Lockpicking and read the stickied post at the top. Buy a lockpick set. You're just starting so you can go a little crazy, or be conservative. Get some locks (Don't pick locks you rely on!) at a store, and learn the basics of how to pick.
Your fingers will get sore. Time to put down the picks and start reading:
That reading list right there gives you over 2000 pages to read. Read. Read More.
Tired of Reading? Have you been listening to the Social-Engineer.org Podcasts? 53 quality podcasts right there. Time to catch up!
Tired of listening? Take a break! And by "Take a break" I mean grab your lockpicks, a lock, and start picking while you relax with a Jayson Street video. He's fun to watch, and will hopefully distract you while you try picking a lock. Also, he highlights how you don't have to be a computer-genius to be good at PenTesting. Go watch more of his videos while you pick locks - It's entertaining at least, and informative/educational at best. Now go watch Deviant Ollam's videos if you're done with Jayson Street.
Sounds like a lot? It's not. You'll spend a bit of money getting started with picks, locks, and books. It's the nature of the game, no good way around it. It's time-consuming. You may have to give up playing your favourite games for a while. But the things you learn and skills you develop will pay more than that game did. By the time you're halfway through any one of those books you'll have a much better idea of what questions you want or need to ask in order to progress further and faster every day.
Go to Security Cons. DerbyCon is awesome, and happens in late September, plenty of time to start saving money and making reservations. Talk to people, ask questions, and make connections. You will learn more in those 4 days than some people learn in months or years and you'll have tons of fun.
If you can swing it, attend Deviant Ollam's "Physical Security Skills for Penetration Testers" class. The things you will learn in that class will make it worth every damned penny, and you'll feel like a bad-ass at the end of it.
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Recommended reading
Here is my suggested reading list for anyone who ever wants to be a small business owner. I like audiobooks but you can get some of these in print also.
Entrepreneur Mindset
There are several books that talk about the entrepreneur mindset. “Rich Dad Poor Dad” was one of the first that I had encountered. “Four Hour Work Week” is a popular one among young adults and lazy millennials now. But I think this one below sums it up in a relatively fast and easy way. To me there is nothing wrong in this book, but in my opinion it’s a little incomplete and inaccurate and won’t work for some people. It doesn’t say how to switch lanes, or say that you can be in two lanes at the same time. Still, it should be required reading for anyone remotely interested in business. It’s at the top of my list because the correct mindset is required before anyone can think about actually doing business.
http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/The-Millionaire-Fastlane-Crack-the-Code-to-Wealth-and-Live-Rich-for-a-Lifetime-Audiobook/B0143BEDUO
Business and Marketing
These two combined are basically an MBA in a box and then some. They are long audiobooks that go over the lessons of an MBA program, and the first one also covers a lot of life hacking and mind hacking theories such as how to stay motivated etc. Some of this stuff is very interesting, some if it is boring to slog through. But knowing what is in here will have you well versed to communicate about business at a high level. I have listened to both several times, I keep coming back because it’s a lot and I can’t learn it all at once.
https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572
http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Critical-Business-Skills-for-Success-Audiobook/B00UY842O8
The E Myth series basically describes how many entrepreneurs fail to implement systems in their business. It has a couple other important business concepts and is geared mainly for beginning entrepreneurs or those who have not yet studied a lot about business at a high level.
http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/The-E-Myth-Revisited-Audiobook/B002V1LGZE
Mike Michalowicz, Solid principles, Some are regurgitations of Seth Godin and E-Myth, but some are original and insightful. Not very efficient in delivery of material, but I would highly recommend.
https://www.audible.com/pd/Business/The-Toilet-Paper-Entrepreneur-Audiobook/B00FKCI3I4
https://www.audible.com/pd/Business/The-Pumpkin-Plan-Audiobook/B008CHN41K
https://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Profit-First-Audiobook/B06X15WX5B
In the world of marketing, Seth Godin is well known as a forward thinker. He has a new perspective of thinking about marketing in the internet age.
Seth Godin Startup School. This is a series of 15 short podcasts, maybe 15 to 20 minutes long each. It’s a good cliff notes version of a lot of his other books.
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/seth-godins-startup-school/id566985370
http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Purple-Cow-Audiobook/B002V0QOJS
http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/All-Marketers-Are-Liars-Audiobook/B002V1NIMI
Gary Vaynerchuk is well known in online entrepreneur forums, especially with a younger audience. He is interesting to listen to and talks at a basic level mostly about social media marketing.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfA33-E9P7FC0AoARnMLvgFgESJe4_Ngs
This is a link about fashion, but it could just as easily be about restaurants or any other business. As you read it, substitute the product for your product or widgets and it makes sense.
https://moz.com/ugc/how-to-build-a-great-online-fashion-brand-34-things-that-really-amazing-fashion-retailers-do
It’s probably not necessary to read this whole book, but it’s widely referenced and it’s important to understand the theory. This guy basically coined the phrase “Lean Startup” to describe businesses that start small and apply the scientific method to determine which direction to grow. Not to be confused with LEAN Manufacturing methodology made famous by Toyota, but follows similar principles.
https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Startup-Entrepreneurs-Continuous-Innovation/dp/0307887898
There are a lot of great posts in reddit. There are a lot of crappy ones too. But worth trolling.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Entrepreneur/
https://www.reddit.com/r/smallbusiness/
https://www.reddit.com/r/restaurateur/ (yes it’s spelled wrong)
For example, this post basically has a step by step guide to start a small business.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Entrepreneur/comments/5lfy6n/4_years_ago_i_wrote_a_case_study_on_reddit_on_my/
Other links
21 Lessons From Jeff Bezos’ Annual Letters To Shareholders
https://www.cbinsights.com/research/bezos-amazon-shareholder-letters/#2000
E Commerce, Design, Online Marketing
This guy has a very interesting perspective on display tactics.
https://www.nickkolenda.com/
A good source for tactics. Also offers one of the better wordpress themes
https://thrivethemes.com/6-brain-hacks/
These guys offer great information and insight in their podcast.
https://ecomcrew.com/episode-1-welcome-to-the-ecom-crew-podcast/
Landing Page Optimization
Important for all businesses even offline, for example with restaurants these principles could help for menu design or digital signage, for other businesses this knowledge can help with advertising layouts etc.
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/5-brand-strategies-uniquely-position-your-ecommerce-above-bhardwaj
https://blog.hubspot.com/marketing/7-landing-page-design-tips
https://blog.kissmetrics.com/landing-page-design-infographic/
https://moz.com/ugc/how-to-build-a-great-online-fashion-brand-34-things-that-really-amazing-fashion-retailers-do
https://thrivethemes.com/6-brain-hacks/
This book discusses apps, especially networking apps like Uber.
https://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Platform-Revolution-Audiobook/B01DDX7MJ2
Also
http://andrewchen.co/marketplace-startups-best-essays/
A good page of links
http://www.themissionmarketer.com/digital-marketing-resources/
For Restaurants
http://www.restaurantowner.com
Very valuable stuff here. Business plan templates, etc. $30 a month for a subscription but well worth it if you are starting or running a restaurant.
https://www.restaurantmastering.com
http://www.typsy.com
Not worth the paid membership yet, but it's growing. And you can get a free trial for like a week and binge watch everything.
Dealing with delivery aggregators
https://www.reddit.com/r/restaurateur/comments/76sd1i/uber_eats_what_percentage_you_paying_em_anyone/
Edit: spacing
You would really like the book On the Beach: https://www.amazon.com/Beach-Nevil-Shute/dp/0307473996/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525114349&sr=8-1&keywords=on+the+beach
I've gotten a lot of emails that look exactly like this one and I immediately delete them because they're spam. You need to answer two fundamental questions: Why should they trust you? and Why should they pay attention to you? You're not giving them a reason to trust you because you're essentially a nobody with no track record. You're not giving them a reason to pay attention to you because there's nothing personalized or unique to them about this email, you talk way too much about yourself, and you don't talk enough about what you can ultimately do for them.
Here's a breakdown of the current email:
> I'm Joe, a Web Developer from X.
Intro is alright. Before that you might want to say, "Hi $name,".
> Recently I found your website, and, was curious if you would be interested in working towards building a new one?
Why? What's the business case for a new website over their old website? What's the benefit?
> I currently work for a web agency in X, who offer web services for small, medium, and, large businesses, though I'm looking for further work to help businesses in the area.
Is it you or the agency offering services? This is confusing. Help businesses do what exactly? You could say, "At $web_agency I've worked on projects for multi-million dollar businesses such as X, Y, Z but now I'm leveraging my experience to help businesses like yours in $your_market do A, B, C."
> I have worked on hundreds of websites and have been working in the industry for nearly 6 years.
But what results did you get? Did you increase sales by X% for ABC company? What can you do for them? Don't make it about yourself.
> Additionally, I have a strong knowledge in SEO, which can help your website perform better within Google's search results.
What's SEO? Why should they care?
> I am really good at what I can do, and, can offer an agency service with non-agency prices.
Don't tell, show. And don't compete on price, please...
> Let me know if this is something you would be interested in.
> If you would like chat and organise a meeting to discuss this further, feel free to email me back, or call me on X
Why not create an attention-grabbing hook like, "$name, let's set up a quick 5 minute call so we can discuss a few ways your website can be improved to increase appointments/sales/etc by 20% like I've done for my other clients."
I suggest you read Pitch Anything and CA$HVERTISING.
I'm not an expert, but I'll offer my humble advice. It does not sound like your daughter and her father are "connected". I'd advise trying to find ways to bring up the value of rapport and let him figure out its importance on his own. Trying to change him directly is unlikely to work, but a little bit of persuasive psychology will give you big results.
A couple suggestions:
These are just a few strategies that I could think of right now, but I hope it helps. I can tell that you really want to fix this and the simple fact that you are seeking help tells me that you will. Good luck!
I myself have been a cosleeping breastfeeder and know a few other ladies who have done the same and I really feel like 4 months is one of the hardest times, milk demand goes up, their ability to interact goes up and with it generally night waking.
We just kinda powered through it, I spent a month or so of going to bed at 8 just so we could get some sleep.
Since then I have picked up Pantley's No Cry Sleep Solution and she has some suggestions for night weaning if that is a route you're interested in going. If your like me, and enjoy/want/need that night nursing time and arent ready to wean at 4 months, I would like to give you a big hug and say, it does get better! Good Luck!
There is a difference in allowing your child to cry themselves to sleep and teaching them to soothe themselves and go to sleep on thier own. I recommend a book called the No Cry Sleep Solution. We have followed the same bedtime routine (and played the same music) every night for our son who is now three and he goes to sleep at night and for nap with no fuss. Also when you first begin, you don't let your child just cry it out. You start by waiting 5 then 10,15, and 20 minutes to soothe them. I think that we started this around six or nine months old.
Something similar to Fable...
Would this do the trick?
Slowly. When your LO's suckling slows down or switches to flutter sucking, gently unlatch. Gently hold your finger under his/her chin for a moment so the lack of nipple isn't so noticeable. If he/she wakes up and starts rooting, let baby latch back on and try again in a few minutes. Over and over. Takes some time, but it works. The book "The No Cry Sleep Solution" has a lot of info on this.
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Second Influence. Getting Everything You Can is good if you are basic in marketing, I would not recommend it for people who are more advanced.
If you don't know what a "business goal" is, you need to read this:
Happy to help :) It is a near lifetime of just being a business junky and just loving to read about this stuff. The best and easiest book I give people when they want to learn business is the Personal MBA.
http://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1375464773&sr=1-1&keywords=personal+mba+josh+kaufman
It is a solid, easy to read overview of business. You wount become an expert from it, but it is a 'explain like I am five 'introduction into business.
For innovation and new market development specific (My specialty) I'd go with Crossing the Chasm Quick read
http://www.amazon.com/The-Innovators-Dilemma-Revolutionary-Business/dp/0062060244
Lastly, take a strategic finance class. No numbers, simply the logic behind what is value. I've been told The Wall Street MBA is a good read but I can't vouch for it.
http://www.amazon.com/Wall-Street-MBA-Second/dp/007178831X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1375464915&sr=1-1&keywords=wall+street+mba
Finance will ultimately change how you think. And not entirely for the better...
Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind by Al Ries and Jack Trout is as important today as it ever has been. It's a great book and IMHO a must read for every marketer and business owner.
>The building itself is pretty secure and has a well staffed security department.
I'm currently reading the book No Tech Hacking, and it talks about how easy sometimes is just to social engineer your way into a building, so if you haven't I really recommend it, because they just talk about how easy is to go into a building to do hacking stuff, but if someone wanted to plant a bomb or something as bad?
I know you probably know this, but I'll just throw it out there: there's really nothing wrong with night nursing for comfort, as long as it works for the family. Most babies don't need the calories once they've hit 6 months or doubled their birth weight (though I know this verges on old wives tale). But since we're biologically social creatures, we're designed to sleep closely with our family unit.
Nursing to sleep associations aren't always bad either, but if you want to break them, you'll have to go slowly over the course of weeks and even months. Chances are, one of you might still end up on the floor in the other kids room (especially if you go with any of the "No Cry Sleep Solutions" and it might affect the older brother's sleep, which will also affect yours...just a few things to keep in mind (I'm no expert, just another mom who's trying to figure it out too! :P)
I hope to move our baby into the toddler's room once she is older (like 16-18 months) and they can share a big queen sized bed (which is on the floor). I've been reading a lot of parenting blogs and websites about dos and don'ts but most of it ends up being about what works for each family.
So here's what we did with baby #1: When she was 14 months, we wanted to night wean because she was getting up more and more frequently (every 45-90 min) and I was exhausted because I work FT. We started the transition by nursing first at bedtime, followed by a bottle of warm cow milk while hubby read to her, swing/rock her and sing - we did this for a few weeks until it seemed like the habit was pretty entrenched. I would still get up and nurse her at night but after those first weeks (during which she started daycare too), we'd send Dad in as the first line of defense so that (if she was tired enough) she would just conk out on his shoulder just like at bedtime (same song and everything). She was pretty stubborn so most of the time, she would protest and fight sleep (waiting for me to come in and nurse her...which we eventually had to stop in one of those 3 day CIO sessions...shudder). After that, she was much better about putting herself back to sleep and Dad would still be the first one to go in if she did wake up.
Switching the roles at bedtime is key (and I've heard this from a LOT of parents). Dad has to step in and do the end of bedtime AND get up with the baby for night wakings while you transition them away from night nursing. If you (Mom) try to do it, the baby will just get frustrated, angry and anxious ("What did I do that she's not nursing me? She's right THERE? and she knows that's what we do at night....") We also found that having non-mama milk on hand was important because the bottle started to replace the nipple and could take the place of that (for sucking) when she was falling asleep - she never took a pacifier but that makes things a lot easier too. The cow's milk issue was one of the reasons we waited until LO was over a year but you could use a yogurt smoothie with banana or something too.
Hope that helps :)
Say no more, fam.
You don't need a degree to run a business. Having your own business allows you to experiment with these books first hand instead of taking some professor's word for it. Professor's usually just read what the book says. If they were actually good at running a business they'd probably be doing that.
Rationalizing why a version is better never works, people don't like to be told that they're wrong. This is why graphic design is 50% salesmanship. Selling clients on a concept is half the battle. There are tried and tested ways to present ideas that don't come across as "I know better than you so do it this way...". Even body language can play an important role. I recommend getting some good books on sales psychology and pitches. Pitch Anything and The Challenger Sale are good starts.
Step one I think is to stop nursing to sleep, followed by night weaning :)
For the first part, what I did (and I was in a similar situation, nursed to sleep, then from 12-15 months kiddo started waking 5-6 times a night, it was extremely exhausting), was sit down in the rocking chair as normal, and nurse as normal, but just when he was about to fall asleep, I'd delatch. He'd fuss and I'd rock and croon and talk and sing, if he didn't calm down I'd relatch him, but then delatch again just as he was falling asleep and try to calm him by other means. Rinse and repeat, the first three days it was a long bedtime routine and I questioned what I was doing. But it really only took about a week to get him falling asleep without nursing.
The next step was to maneuver to falling asleep in his own space instead of my lap. Again I did it gradually, by the same method - just when he was looking sleepy I'd move him to his bed. If he cried, I'd shush and rub his back and talk and sing for a few minutes to calm him. If it didn't work, I'd pick him up and get him relaxed, and just when he was looking sleepy I'd quietly put him down again. Again, it was hard at first but after about a week he caught on and it became much easier.
Once he was going to sleep in bed and not nursing to sleep, the 5-6 wakeups a night were reduced to one waking, then getting up really early. Eventually I DID do some "cry it out" but since I'd already gotten him most of the way there it was very brief and not stressful.
The trick here is to get them going to sleep in the same conditions under which they will wake in the night. If they can go to sleep on their own, when they wake up on their own, they're much more likely to just relax and go back to sleep. If something changes (like you're nursing them to sleep, then they wake up and you're gone) it's very jarring, like if you fell asleep in your bed then woke up on the front lawn.
If that sounds good to you, I can tell you I read Dr Gordon's night weaning article, The No Cry Sleep Solution, and the Troublesome Tots website (I guess now it's called "precious little sleep"). I kind of put together things from those three sources and it made a huge improvement. It didn't 100% fix things and we still have some sleep issues but it was a HUGE improvement.
All kids are different, and ultimately you'll need to find what works for you, but The No Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley worked for us. The name can be a bit misleading; "no-cry" just means no "cry it out."
It has chapters on various ages and symptoms, and something might work for you. We ended up using combinations of a few techniques to find what worked.
Good luck.
the no cry sleep solution i think is basically the pioneer of this technique so i'd start there.
https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1540908169&sr=8-1&keywords=the+connected+child
> She will sleep for 45 minutes to an hour and a half in her crib
The sleep cycles of babies last between 30 and 45 minutes. Sounds like your daughter's cycles last 45. Whenever a cycle is ending, babies are easily aroused to wakefulness, or wake up themselves if they feel something is amiss. For example, my 11 month old will sleep 45 minute naps if he's by himself, but up to 2 hour naps if his mom sleeps with him. He will sleep long naps too if I'm holding him, as I think my heartbeat and breathing ease him. We co-sleep too and our baby "sleeps through the night" in the sense that he seldom becomes fully awake, but he very much fusses until he finds mommy's breast, sucks a few drinks and goes back to sleep. I tell you all this so that you don't think something is wrong with what you've been doing. In my opinion, you've been doing it perfectly well.
Since you need/want your baby to sleep by herself, have you heard of the No Cry Sleep Solution? Check it out. I've heard it requires a bigger effort than CIO, but is just as effective and you're not forcing your child to feel abandoned and suck it up.
There are way too many red flags here, and nothing to suggest you would get any more out of this course than you would from reading a manual.
The only benefit I see is the promise of "audio activities," but you can practice shorthand with any audio you'd like.
Some books that come to mind:
The bigger problem is the first one - getting a good grounding in Marketing, as the fundamentals don't really change although the media does. Social media marketing is Marketing, and follows many of the same principles.
Would recommend taking a look at Josh Kaufman's book The Personal MBA (Amazon) and here's his list of 99 books from his website of which the marketing books listed there is a very good place to start.
You can basically waste a TON of time on the plethora of so-called 'social media marketing experts' who are experts at selling to others social media marketing 'secrets'. It's a bit of old-fashioned hucksterism that makes them a lot of money (true) but may not be all that worthwhile (unless you want to sell social media secrets for the future career).
As a professional marketer myself, having been in many roles in Marketing (and outside sales and product development), you've got to have a foundation to build on.
Even consider taking a MOOC from a reputable place on Marketing, it's a discipline of study for good reason, and then see how the social media part fits into it.
In my own situation, Large Mega Corp the revenue from Social Media is on the order of 1% (we track such things), while the web is on the order of 15%. We still have a direct sales force (we are B2B) and have events and exhibit at conferences; I have no illusions about all the marketing that needs to be done offline (where still many of our customers are).
Just my $0.02, FWIW.
I would suggest the book "the millionaire Real Estate investor" here:
https://www.amazon.ca/Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor/dp/0071446370
Property management is my biggest side hustle, and the most profitable. I fell into it when I paid off my mortgage, and realized a year later, 50% of my net worth was earning less than zero, and creating a huge drag on my plans for early retirement. I now own a condo, and a duplex. (EDIT - sadly, still not retired. Kids are expensive!)
Can it be a full time job? Sure, but I suspect it's a great side hustle instead. Like DSJustice mentions, it's a long process, and not possible to profitably start in Vancouver or Toronto, based on the prices versus rent. Depends on where you are.
I would suggest staying away from the condos though. Yes, the condo fees eat up your profit, but it's the fact that so much is out of your control that is the real risk.
If I could have a do-over, I'd buy duplexes, and triplexes instead. (EDIT two - Ok, I see your from AB. It really depends on the conditions out there... Are you guys close to recession? Maybe wait a while?)
I am so sorry. That sounds so incredibly hard. I completely understand. My son (a year next week!) is also not the best sleeper (I’m talking up for 3 hours needs to be bounced on a yoga ball in the carrier for hours kind of shit).
BUT, it’s been sooooo much better for the last month or so. This is what helped us;
-The No Cry Sleep Solution
-Doing something everyday, in the morning. It’s a mix of playschool, the daycare at the gym, playgroup, grandparents. Basically, he needs something stimulating every morning.
-Moving to one nap, in the afternoons.
-A solid and long night routine (for us: dinner, bath, pjs, play, move to a dim room, books, boob, massage, sometimes boob again, then sleep— which comes in the form of me laying with him while he flops around a while).
I don’t know if it’s something you can do with a toddler as well, but, we have found that our guy needs about an hour between the start of books until he’s wound down enough to sleep.
Investing in real estate really requires that you know a little about a lot of things. These are the books I used when starting up:
General Overview:
Multi-Family Introduction:
Flipping Introduction:
Real Estate Formula Primer:
Landlord Tax Basics:
That is a good intro for books...BiggerPockets is always good too. However, most investors will tell you that there is only so much you can read about real estate. Read some books, get a feel and then go for it. It's the only way you can really learn.
Nothing has really changed in the realm of vehicle dynamics over the last few decades, the physics understanding that is. We've known about the forces and reactions and how to calculate them for a very long time, it's just not until recent times where we've been able to actually measure them during a race. The modern race car now has telemetry to measure just about everything you can imagine but it's main purpose is to validate the theoretical models that the engineers use to design the car in the first place. Now just because we can measure them easily doesn't mean we can get lazy and stop worrying about the "why".
A good example of an "olden days" book is Race Car Vehicle Dynamics by the Milliken Brothers, in fact this is often referred to as the bible of vehicle dynamics regardless of it being written nearly two decades ago. It's a great resource but it's not for the faint of heart, there is a lot of in-depth analysis starting from the basics (steady state, tires, kinematics, weight transfer) and then moves onto the more difficult aspect (transient responses, tire load sensitivities, dampers/springs, aero) most of which would require some sort of engineering/physics background to grasp but if you're determined to learn about this stuff, it's an enlightening read.
I've read Tune to Win several times now as well as the other books in the series when I first got into racing a while back and if you're looking for a general high level overview of vehicle dynamics/aero/driving than it's a great read, for anything more you're gonna have to move onto more serious books.
Now for an engine overview, I'm not sure what sort of background you have but for a comprehensive book that covers just about everything from basics to the black-magic sort of stuff, you can have a look at Internal Combustion Engine Fundamentals which covers everything from types of engines, principals of operation, kinematics, thermodynamics, heat transfer, modelling, basically everything and similar to RCVD, is often referred to as the bible for ICE's.
Now, I've given you two resources, these are not by any means the only two authorities on these topics, there are many more (and cheaper) resources you can look at. It all depends on how much you want to know, personally I own these books and a hell of a lot more, I find I buy more books than I can keep up with but I know they all have something that I want to know about. I want to eventually make my way into F1 as an engineer so I figure I better get a head start and learn as much as I can before I make any serious attempt.
Good luck, hope this helps!
the marketing bible called 'Positioning' explains a lot about how this works. other things being equal, people will keep voting for senator smith the way they buy kleenex and zerox.
smith dies, they will gravitate to the closest substitute, in this case smith junior. there are other factors, but name recognition is the biggest one.
http://www.amazon.com/Positioning-The-Battle-Your-Mind/dp/0071373586
On What to Read
Here are some suggestions on books and websites:
The Millionaire Next Door by Stanley and Danko - https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Next-Door-Surprising-Americas/dp/1589795474
If You Can by William Bernstein - http://efficientfrontier.com/ef/0adhoc/2books.htm
Free version is here - https://www.dropbox.com/s/5tj8480ji58j00f/If%20You%20Can.pdf?dl=0
The Investor's Manifesto. Preparing for Prosperity, Armageddon, and Everything in Between by William Bernstein - https://www.amazon.com/Investors-Manifesto-Prosperity-Armageddon-Everything/dp/1118073762
The Bogleheads Guide to Investing - https://www.amazon.com/Bogleheads-Guide-Investing-Taylor-Larimore/dp/1118921283
The Coffeehouse Investor - https://www.amazon.com/Coffeehouse-Investor-Wealth-Ignore-Street/dp/0976585707
The Bogleheads' Guide to Retirement Planning - https://www.amazon.com/Bogleheads-Guide-Retirement-Planning/dp/0470455578
The Four Pillars of Investing: Lessons for Building a Winning Portfolio by William Bernstein - https://www.amazon.com/Four-Pillars-Investing-Building-Portfolio/dp/0071747052/
Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey - https://www.amazon.com/Total-Money-Makeover-Classic-Financial/dp/1595555277
Personal Finance for Dummies by Eric Tyson - https://www.amazon.com/Personal-Finance-Dummies-Eric-Tyson/dp/1118117859
Investing for Dummies by Eric Tyson - https://www.amazon.com/Investing-Dummies-Eric-Tyson/dp/1119320690/
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor per red-sfplus’s post (can confirm this is excellent) - https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor/dp/0071446370/
For all the M.Ds on here and HNW individuals, you might want to check out https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/ and his blog – found it to be very useful.
https://www.irs.gov/ or your government’s tax page. If you’ve been reading, you know that millionaires know more than your average bear about the tax code.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7vohb3/money/
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3hzcvn/financial_advice_from_a_financier/
https://www.artofmanliness.com/2017/09/22/4-money-tips-4-personal-finance-legends/
Personal Finance Flowchart from their wiki - https://i.imgur.com/lSoUQr2.png
Additional Lists of Books:
https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Books:_recommendations_and_reviews
https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/books-4/
Subreddits
https://www.reddit.com/r/investing/
https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/ - I would highly encourage you to spend a half hour browsing their wiki - https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/wiki/index and investing advice - https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/wiki/investing
https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/
https://www.reddit.com/r/SecurityAnalysis/
https://www.reddit.com/r/finance/
https://www.reddit.com/r/portfolios/
https://www.reddit.com/r/Bogleheads/
MRP References
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/40whjy/finally_talked_to_my_wife_about_our_finances_it/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/67nxdu/finances_with_a_sahm/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/488pa0/60_dod_week_6_finances/ (original)
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6a6712/60_dod_week_6_finances/ (year 2)
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3xw015/how_to_prepare_for_a_talk_about_finances/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/30z704/taking_back_the_finances/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2uzukg/married_redpill_finances_and_money/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3637q5/some_thoughts_on_mrp_and_finances/
https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8dwaqt/best_practices_for_finances_within_marriage/
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/588e5o/gain_control_of_the_treasury/
Final Thoughts
There are already a lot of high net worth individuals on these subs (if you don’t believe me, look at the OYS for the past few months). This should be a review for most folks. The key points stay the same – have a plan, get out of the hole you are in, have a budget, do the right moves for wealth accumulation. Lead your family in your finances. Own it.
What are YOU doing to own your finances? Give some examples below.
That's fantastic! Good for you! :-D
We co-slept until our son was about 2, but by then he was just too big for the bed (3 people in a double bed = no blankets for mama :-/ ) and we moved his toddler bed into our room. The transition took a month or so to really smooth out, but we got good advice from the No-Cry Sleep Solution and now he happily sleeps in his own space.
When he was an infant, I would nurse him in the bed and then transfer him to his sleeper, but when he hit four months, it's like he figured out that this was BS. He could be floppy-asleep, but you laid him down on the mattress and it was instant, furious tantrum that lasted FOREVER and thoroughly woke him up. >.< We started co-sleeping because it was the only way any of us got enough sleep to function the next day, and it was a very positive experience. Made extended breast-feeding much easier and my husband loved the snuggly bonding time.
Considering how much of the world engages in it as a standard practice, I think it's always good to try to normalize safe co-sleeping in the US, and also show that it's not a permanent condition. ;-) Thanks for sharing your success!
If you're saying that you only have 3 or 4 months to learn shorthand, Gregg might not be the right system to choose. With that being said, older Gregg textbooks are available to view at HathiTrust, OpenLibrary, archive.org, Google Books, and angelfishy dot net
You can buy a new copy of the Gregg Simplified manual from amazon at this link
https://www.amazon.com/GREGG-Shorthand-Manual-Simplified/dp/0070245487/
If you choose to study the Simplified version there are people here who can answer questions you might have, and there's a Tumblr blog called DailyGregg that provides a constant trickle of refreshers and practice material in tiny doses.
/u/Kiwibaconator has it right, but allow me to expand on that. For both gasoline and diesel fueled engines, peak combustion temp and exhaust temp is right around 15.5 to 17:1 (lambda =~1.1); anything richer or leaner than this range becomes cooler.
As you may know, diesels generally run at 25:1 with a peak of 18:1 to 16.5:1 only during acceleration and the turbo has not produced full boost. But during steady state lug curve, generally runs at the ~28:1 (rated) to ~22:1 (peak torque) and 50 to 65:1 at idle. This steady state lug curve afr is well below the peak temperature of 15.5 to 17:1. The leaner side of afr is much cooler than the rich side of afr.
Why is lean afr cool? It is because the more excess air is available, the more the heat of combustion is spreadout among the mass of air. Think of the air as a tiny heat sink, the more Air to Fuel ratio, the more heat sink mass to energy input.
Gasoline will typically run on the rich side, from 15.5 to 14.5 afr. With modern 3-way cats and O2 sensors, the engine is designed to oscillate back and forth between 14.5 and 15 for catalyst chemistry reasons. Gasoline combustion temps are lower because of the much lower compression and boost, but the exhaust temps are still higher. Running extra rich (<14:1) also helps prevent predetonation by slowing down combustion with excess fuel and partial combustion products. Slowing down combustion with extra fuel also combines with the heat sink idea, except now the extra fuel is the heat sink, and the energy release is limited by the amount of oxygen available; so in a sense the extra fuel is not combusted thoroughly, which limits its energy release, but gets heated up a lot which helps dilute the heat and reduce the peak temperature.
Source:
Heywood
ME - engine design 10yrs (diesel)
You dont need to take a class. Get the book "Personal MBA" https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572 Get it right now. Go to Barns and Noble or Download a digital version. This is your course, its $15 and you will be done in 3 days and know more about business than most people.
I would pick up a CISSP book and start studying. With your background it should not be too difficult to pass the CISSP. That way you can at least mention you are working towards it in an interview.
I used the older version of this book and found it very useful.
CISSP Study Guide, Third Edition https://www.amazon.com/dp/0128024372/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_eR4LxbP7GK7MQ
Edit: for typo
Interesting you should ask this question today, since today's Vice "Young Americans" column is about what it's like growing up "Asian" in America: http://www.vice.com/youngamericans/the-asian-american-experience?utm_source=vicetumblrus
This is a humorous rendering of a problem a lot of my Asian-American friends have faced growing up in the US: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWynJkN5HbQ
You'll find more adoption-specific questions answered in this book: http://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001
If you have questions about the process you're about to go through, I used to work at the world's largest, oldest China adoption agency, CCAI, so if you have questions about the process I might be able to answer basic questions, but for the most up-to-date and accurate info, I'd advise you to just call CCAI and directly ask your questions of the professionals (ask for Sarah H, (303) 850-9998). It doesn't matter if you're planning to adopt from a different agency, they rules are set by China, so the process is basically the same regardless of what agency you go through.
These are books which I have read twice or more and would read again and again on the topic of post-collapse:
Alas Babylon
On the Beach
The Postman - not like the movie with Kevin Costner (just based upon and quite different)
One Second After - currently the most realistic and scariest of the bunch I think.
Earth Abides
Lucifer's Hammer - this one I wouldn't read without many years between as the start is sooooo slow but the second half is good.
Assuming you're starting from scratch, and without repeating what /u/Laser45 already said, definitely read up on whatever books you can get your hands on, and avoid Gurus. (Very, VERY few classes are worth their cost) This is one of my all time favorites, which you should be able to get as a freebie on an Audible trial:
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor
by Gary Keller
https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor/dp/0071446370
If you have $30k in savings, I would recommend looking into putting that into a high-yield checking account - such as: Kasasa Cash (4% APY, 7.5k cap [1]), LMCU (3% APY, $15k cap [2]), Option1 CU (4% APY, 10k cap [3]). Links below.
Biggerpockets is good... but beware ALOT of it is fluff, and not all of it is accurate. Worse - much of what is presented is shown and appears alot easier to execute and implement than it actually is. Many people lose sight of the fact that - when they wholesale, do subject-tos, drive-for-dollars, etc. - they are essentially building a new business from scratch and applying ALOT of time and elbow grease... with very little protective "moat" that prevents the competition doing the same. Even if you're complete / have done your first deal - does the profit on a $/hr basis make sense, or did it make more sense to better educate yourself at your main line of work (or even get a second job)?
Ultimately, you have to decide if you want to be an "investor" - or - if you want to "buy another job." Always quantify your options, make sure the $/hr figure makes sense - and of course, make sure you feel 100% comfortable with it.
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Totally agree, it sounds like Insulin Resistance (and possibly its sister condition, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) to me as well. I have had Binge Eating Disorder, Anorexia, and Bulimia, and it turned out they had all stemmed from IR. I went on the Insulin Resistance Diet and literally 3 days into it, I stopped craving food (I had one last binge because I was freaked out that I wasn't craving sugar). That was January 18, 2010, and it was the last day I ever binged. I've lost 60 pounds since then without really trying; and I eat 1 serving of ice cream for breakfast every day! I probably have 2 gallons of it in my freezer right now, and it's not tempting me at all.
I also went on Metformin, a diabetes drug. Have your doctor--preferably an endocrinologist!--check your A1C (it's a measure of your average blood glucose over the past few months) and triglyceride levels. Mine were both really high, and now they're in the low-normal range.
you should read On the Beach.
in which they did not fare so well.
I'd like to make some book recommendations for you:
All of that looks great, but your budget means free is better? Dive into Don Clark's Big Dog and Little Dog website!
https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Strong-Willed-Child-Clinically-Six-Year-Olds/dp/0071667822/ref=sr_1_11?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1480946225&amp;sr=8-11&amp;keywords=parenting+discipline+books
Never read it, but it seems to hit the nail on the head for you and has a good amount of high reviews.
I was actually terrified to cosleep until I did some reading on it. [Dr James McKenna](Sleeping with Your Baby: A Parent's Guide to Cosleeping https://www.amazon.com/dp/1930775342/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_1zNyyb9HW4PR9) is the leader on cosleeping studies in the US. I read this book before I started cosleeping. Cosleeping was necessary for us to get through the night.
Also, Dr Sears has some insight on cosleeping and SIDS
Dr Sears
Finally, when you want to ease your little one into their own bed gently, The No Cry Sleep Solution has some great advice. I used this book like an Manuel during my first year of parenting.
I'm a cosleeper and a big advocate of education of safe cosleeping. That doesn't mean cosleeping is right for you and your family. I just wanted you to have some reading material from people who have actually studied the effects of cosleeping.
PS: My best friend's baby died of SIDS, not cosleeping. So I am very familiar with how awful it is and her situation was so terrifying to me going into motherhood. I spent a great deal of time searching for answers about SIDS, as did my friend. The truth is, there are risk factors, but no known causes.
Good luck to you. I hope you and your family get some rest!
I am one of the "<1 baby has no wants, just needs" camp, although 1 is pretty arbitrary. I just can't imagine that an infant has the wherewithal to distinguish between the two ... yet.
I am so grateful to have a good sleeper, because I know if I were in your shoes, I would be a sleep-deprived zombie who spent the whole night with her finger in her kid's mouth.
The way I see it, he needs comfort and you need sleep. You've got to do what you can to balance those needs, or you'll go crazy and that's no good for him, either.
I've heard a number of folks say that by 6 months if a baby is at a good weight, there's no nutritional reason he should NEED to eat during the night, so he probably needs some help learning how to self soothe. My doula highly recommended this book over Ferber's CIO, largely because she knows I can't stand the thought--she says CIO totally works, too.
Good luck to you! So sorry you're having such a rough time.
The Personal MBA
The Personal MBA - excellent resource and really helps you grasp the business side.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Personal-MBA-Master-Business/dp/1591845572
I went through the same thing. My now boyfriend kept saying "calories in and calories out" that's all that matters. It took him almost a year to understand it's not that simple. Metformin and lower carb eating changed my whole life. You can try adding to your eating every time you eat any carb or sweet (fruit) eat protein (cheese, meat, eggs, etc.) I learned this from http://www.amazon.com/The-Insulin-Resistance-Diet--Revised-Updated-Fat-Making/dp/0071499849/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1395350965&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=Insulin+resistance+diet
Might be something you want to pick up. I found an older version at good will for .50 and it's helped me understand how to eat. If you ever need some support, I'm your girl.
I'm working on an MBA right now with about 12 years in the IT industry, 5 of which has been in IT Management. If I didn't have real world experience under my belt I wouldn't be able to apply a lot of what I'm learning. Personally, I have to apply what I'm learning for it to really stick. If I didn't have real world experience then sure, I'd still get good grades, but grades alone aren't the point right? School and the business world are very different. I highly recommend getting out there gaining some experiential education, and then take on the MBA if you still think it would be valuable.
A large part of the value in a good MBA program is networking and what you learn over and above the course material by interacting with your professors and fellow students. That said, if you want a crash course in some of the business fundamentals that may be taught in a typical MBA program, I've heard many people highly recommend the following book.
The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business
http://www.amazon.com/The-Baby-Book-Revised-Edition/dp/0316198269
All of the Dr. Sears books are great. They treat you and your baby like people, not projects to schedule or manage.
http://www.amazon.com/Thats-What-Theyre-Definitive-Breastfeeding/dp/159337285X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1397570127&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=so+thats+what+they%27re+for
This is kind of old, but a funny way to learn to succeed at breastfeeding.
http://www.amazon.com/The-No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Through/dp/0071381392/ref=pd_sim_b_13?ie=UTF8&amp;refRID=0NSBRKTSW2JNFCDDDGK6
This is the gentlest way to deal with sleep issues if you have them. I have never had sleep issues, though, as we coslept. In fact, I have never slept as much as I did when my oldest was a newborn. I slept 12 hours a night.
My boys have never been good sleepers. The advice in the No Cry Sleep Solution combined with Weissbluth's sleep 'schedule' helped a lot in the beginning, but at 6 months out, I needed something stronger as my boys still had opposite schedules and were up a lot at night. I read through a ton of baby sleep books and picked bits and pieces from a bunch. The Sleep Lady's Good Night, Sleep Tight is my current favorite because it has detailed breakdowns by month and a plan that's basic and easy to follow. I don't follow her guidelines 100% because I breastfeed on demand rather than schedule, and they still wake each other up overnight, but, with her help, I have my boys taking naps semi-together and nighttime has gotten a lot easier.
The thing about baby sleep is that you need to figure out what works for you and your baby. Some babies are fine being up every hour. Other babies are not. You can often tell how well a baby has slept by how quickly they go to bed after waking up in the morning or by fussiness. Since tweaking my boys' schedule and being more diligent about putting them down to sleep, both boys are less fussy and my night owl no longer spends all morning trying to get back to bed.
Sleeping through the night should come with growth, but some babies need help more than others. Read through the books and try out a plan for a few weeks. Don't be afraid of letting them grouse or cry for a bit if nothing else works. I swore I would never do CIO before I started on this sleep journey. Haven't had to yet, but I do now believe it's a necessity for some kids, perhaps if better sleep habits aren't taught to them earlier.
I co-slept/bed-shared and breastfed, so I slept 9+ hours every night. I have three beautiful, thriving girls to show for it. At 7 weeks, a later bedtime is okay, IMO. It helps to work it down earlier and earlier the older they get because they obviously sleep for longer periods.
Highly, highly recommend this: http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Gentle-Through/dp/0071381392
Edited to add: I have to agree with some of the replies here about 7 weeks being too young for a sleep schedule. When you start to feel that she has established a a natural eating/sleeping rhythm herself, I think that may be the best time to start training. And the "training" should be more of a gentle nudging sort of thing. Be flexible and be kind to yourself. I personally know so many moms who develop PTSD over their kids' sleeping schedule. I guess when you're sleep deprived, it can become an obsessive thing. I can understand that. Don't let it ever overshadow the wonder of having an infant!
I totally agree with your doctor about not needing a daily bath. You can start bathing her daily when she starts getting dirty daily. Here's a hint: if you have to ask yourself whether she's dirty...chances are, she's not really dirty.
First off, it's OK that this happens. 6 months isn't too late to have problems trying to end this (I know people who waited until their child was 2 years, which was a real mess).
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MY main advice - READ THIS BOOK (The No-Cry Sleep Solution) - http://www.amazon.com/The-No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Through/dp/0071381392/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1394037979&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=baby+sleep
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You gave little detail so all I can say is read this book and go from there. Kids do not "perfect sleeping" until 12 months at the earliest (going to sleep without a peep, staying asleep throughout the night).
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ONE LAST COMMENT: A-OK to post this question here but you will get significantly more answers at /r/parenting
Hi Jane,
I have a very similar background, former educator, turned ID. I recommend this book: https://www.amazon.com/Building-Expertise-Cognitive-Performance-Improvement/dp/0787988448/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1524406717&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=ruth+clark+building
It is by Ruth Clark, full of practical examples, data (to sate the teacher in you) and a ton of best practices. It is a book that you will read, put away, put into action, and then re-read.
Some things to check out:
These are just some specific things I've found helpful in the past, and most of them (the books) are related to specific concepts, so keep in mind that there are many other topics that you should look to other sources for. For example, for search engine optimization, there's Seomoz.org. For low-cost marketing alternatives, there's Guerrilla Marketing. For ongoing general marketing tips, there's Duct Tape Marketing or various things from Seth Godin. All things considered, I'd say you should become familiar with the high-level marketing topics (the Wikiversity page), then tackle those topics in more detail by googling around or asking for recommendations on reddit.
Side note: Might not appear entirely relevant to you at this time, but it's never a bad idea to brush up on your Microsoft Excel skills. Many marketing associates (especially in industries related to taxes, etc.) have to deal with Excel a lot, and therefore can benefit from learning optimal/automated ways of doing things in Excel.
On The Beach
Our little guy ended up self soothing by sucking his thumb, but I had bought this book and was enjoying the ideas in it. https://www.amazon.ca/No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Gentle-Through/dp/0071381392 it’s just another method to try other than crying it out. It offers solutions for co-sleeping parents.
Look, I'm usually over on Breaking Mom because I'm fairly nontraditional in my parenting. Why? Well, my youngest is exactly like yours.
No, you won't be able to go out in public quite yet - but practice things like short trips to the mall food court. Continue to model and explain good behavior, but don't expect any of it to kick in for a while. At 4.5 I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, but he does still smash his brother's lego creations regularly.
Read this book: http://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Strong-Willed-Child-Clinically-Six-Year-Olds/dp/0071667822
Use it to learn how to communicate effectively and set limits. In this case, I'd start locking him in his room or a bathroom (with the light on).
Expect him to throw things at the door and try to bang it down. Hold fast; after a few hours he'll get tired out. After, of course, he tries the 'I'm sorry'; the 'I'm so sad sobbing'; the 'Screaming at the top of his lungs'; etc. The next time it will.be.shorter. And then when you have to leave the room, ask him if he'll behave or if you need to lock him in the room to go deal with baby brother.
It is exhausting. It sucks. It is a battle of wills you don't want to fight. Consider removing the light fixture temporarily because if he falls off the table, then he'll learn, and it's not going to hurt him much (my two boys are 4 and 6). Kids like him have to experience things for themselves; being told that something will happen is not effective until it actually does.
Be prepared to start looking the other way at the playground. He'll test physical limits and you just have to trust that he's learning.
And yeah - other adults will talk. You'll grow a backbone. My kids are finally settling down and behaving, but according to my mother you'd think I was raising hellions by letting them run in the house (WTF else was I supposed to do to get their wiggles out?).
Lastly, make sure, as others have suggested, that he has a physical outlet ever day. I have my kids run laps in the hallway, I go through burpees/pushups/mountain climbers/jumping exercises with them; they have interactive wrestle time with mom or dad. When mine were 1 and 3 it was almost daily unless we could play outside.
Man, I feel you here.
Parent of an abused foster (adopted) 13yo daughter here, whose behaviors are very similar to what you mention (multiplied by 140lb body with hormones and the vocabulary of a sailor).
Three Major Points to start:
A. Try to reduce the frequency of the meltdowns.
There are two books you should buy and read right away. The Connected Child and Beyond Consequences. (Links below) Ignore the fact that they are 'for' adoptive families. They are fantastic for bio families too. The basic idea is to promote attachment, show love, use consistency and help your child learn who she is. I can, in no way, do justice to these books in summary so I'm not gonna try. This does not mean they get away with everything. This does not mean you're going to fix everything overnight. It does, however, mean you're going to change how you parent to a totally new model that might not feel natural at first. The more you do it, the better the bond you have with your child.
The style was once explained to me as "General Patton meets Mr. Rogers". Firm, high expectations, but calm and loving all the time.
B. When a meltdown of your daughter does happen.
Just doing the stuff above, you'll still have plenty of issues. That doesn't mean it's not working.
It all boils down to natural consequences. Break all the crayons, can't color anymore. Trash the house, clean the house. Throw a 5 minute tantrum while I was going to be playing video games, kid does chores I would have done for 5 minutes so I can play video games. Threaten to kill self or kill me? Cops are called.
Un-natural consequences (otherwise called punishments) cause their own problems.
By using natural consequences, you don't enter into a secondary battle for control of trying to impose punishments that the child finds unlogical.
C. When you lose your cool during a meltdown
This will also happen, as parents, we're not perfect.
When things go south - Reconnect Quickly.
Be the one that shows the example of remorse and show how you can make up for it. This doesn't mean the child gets away with what they did, though.
All the other stuff you need to do:
Get Help / Don't be Embarrassed: Realize when you need help. In combat, if things get hairy, you ask for help, you don't just wait until 3/4 your men are dead before telling someone above you that you're in trouble.
This means you must remove any stigma you might have from this situation and put your ego aside. Doesn't mean you're a bad father. There are tons of resources you should pull from.
First, surround yourself with a circle of support. Family and friends are very important.
Second, find resources in your community. Could be private therapy, could be from a county mental health organization. Could be a church group. I promise you that there is help out there that people just like you go to.
Care for yourself / Respite
The harder things are at home, the less patience you have. The less patience you have, the harder things get.
You need time for you (and your SO if you have one).
Find ways to recharge. Kid stays with grandparents, friends (with people you trust can handle you child and understand the situation), babysitters, overnight camps, etc.
You can't care for your child if you're totally out of steam.
Ask yourself, what if you couldn't physically control her.
I've been struggling with this in the last few years. If you can only use your mind to parent, and can't physically touch the child (even just to move them into time out, for example), it changes how you will parent them. Start thinking like that, and then add on the fact you can move them in time out as a bonus.
Lastly, realize you're not alone. There are many families that struggle with this type of problem, and it is possible!
http://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001/
http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Consequences-Logic-Control-Attachment-Challenged/dp/0977704009/
The two I've purchased so far are the No Cry Sleep Solution and Retro Baby. The former was highly recommended to me by a few new parents but I haven't dived in yet. The latter is a fun read and it made me really excited for all of the development milestones to come.
I feel like what's missing from my library is some A to Z book on newborn health. It would be nice to have a book to consult before scaring myself by Google-ing.
Read or listen to this book https://www.amazon.com/Pitch-Anything-Innovative-Presenting-Persuading/dp/0071752854 As I was reading your post, my mind kept going toward the lessons in the book. I have listened to the audio book several times (although I have never been involved in an open vendor day.)
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You need to sell them that you are a premium product, and while your base price is higher, you include a lot more in the base. The whole book uses simple tactics to completely flip the tables, rather than you begging to work with them, they will be dying to work with you.
The No-Cry Sleep Solution, So That's What They're For-breastfeeding basics, baby 411.
As a pediatrician, lactation consultant and mother, please avoid:
Babywise it has been condemned by the American Academy of Pediatrics and La Leche League for its bizarre recommendation that newborns be put on a feeding and sleeping schedule that is pretty much designed to lead to breastfeeding failure, attachment issues, and failure to thrive. The reviews on amazon tell quite a story--some of the 1 star are former 5 star submitters who realized that their baby wasn't "good" or "obedient" or "quiet", they were starving like little Romanian orphans and had given up making noise because they were just ignored. If I could put every copy in an incenerator I would.
The Vaccine Book, a wildly misleading tome full of misinformation and fearmongering. For accurate vaccine information, please read Dr. Paul Offit's Vaccines and your child. He is a vaccinologist, meaning that he has devoted his entire professional career to studying vaccines. Dr. "Bob" is a general pediatrician, like me, and has no additional training in immunology, virology, microbiology, or vaccines.
You'll probably find "The Millionaire Real Estate Investor" to be a very good read. It talks about a lot of different real estate concepts that are still very applicable today. I particularly enjoyed his thought process on how to identify a good real estate opportunity and how leverage in real estate can make you wildly successful in real estate investing.
There's also a very good answer that I found on Quora relating to real estate investing that you might find interesting.
I am not much of a book reader but the Personal MBA is a great read. I feel without a doubt that I got my money's worth of information about business in general.
https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572
Read the book Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff
I took the exam 4-5 years ago, and the transcenders were a help. The exam was in fact a bitch. Most of the questions were
A: not right
B: not right for this particular question
C: Right
D: more right.
and so on.
I recommend the transcenders, and any of the other testing questions out there.
I also found this book helpful:https://www.amazon.com/Eleventh-Hour-CISSP-Third-Study/dp/0128112484/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1499282710&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=11th+hour+cissp
Boils down the stuff I had been reading about into almost an outline level for last minute review.
Not totally in line with what you're asking, but I'm currently reading Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff. Its a very insightful book where he goes into detail about basically being persuasive enough to sell anyone anything. Be it yourself in the form of an interview or your product. Great read so far.
Michael Allen's Guide to e-Learning is usually brought up as a great resource Link
The NoCry Sleep Solution saved my sanity. At 14 months old my dude was only sleeping in 3 hour increments. It's 100% normal for a child at 6 months old to still be waking through the night, but he should be able to sleep on his own for a nap at least. If cosleeping isn't right for you guys, that's a-okay, but y'all definitely didn't cosleep too long. Don't have high expectations that it's only going to take a few nights for a gentle transition. But it definitely is possible!
Edit: spelling
Did you read No Cry Sleep Solution? It's gospel around here. I'm reading it now. . .
Is it this one?
http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Through-Foreword/dp/0071381392
My sister loved this one:
Parenting the Strong-Willed Child: The Clinically Proven Five-Week Program for Parents of Two- to Six-Year-Olds, Third Edition https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071667822/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_MjX1DbEV5J560
to be honest CISSP was a marathon. huge amount of topics, 250Q/6H exam (CAT Testing is only for English version)but the exam was fair. But CISSP is older (30 years?), so of course there are much study materials. As for the CISSP I prepared over 3 months, with a 2 hours of daily study and practicing
But at the end, a big part of the CISSP, like CCSP, is common sense.
I did the CISSP and then the CCSP after. topics are overlapping.
Since you have 7 years of experience in risk and control management, you should be fine for the CISSP.
For the materials, I recommend this:
Sybex Preparation Guid CISSP
https://www.amazon.com/Certified-Information-Security-Professional-Official/dp/1119475937
Conrad 11th Edition (as brushup, very short book, very good right before the exam)
https://www.amazon.com/Eleventh-Hour-CISSP%C2%AE-Study-Guide/dp/0128112484/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=conrad+11th+hour&amp;qid=1554770186&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1-fkmrnull
And these video:
https://www.cybrary.it/course/cissp/
Of course, if you feel unfamiliar with some wording or topic in above materials, I recommend to do your own research. Google is the best study book :)
Hope it helps
There's the subreddit /r/TryingForABaby/ for people who are trying to conceive.
As for books, I'm a fan of Dr. Sears' stuff. The Baby Book is a good general one. There are tons of more specialized ones out there too but you won't know which one you need until the baby is here and you know his or her personality.
Generally speaking, I wish I'd read a sleep book before the baby was here. I always thought babies would sleep when they're tired with no intervention from you. This is not true. Or not always true. Baby_Snow^1 was a terrible sleeper. I desperately read any sleep book I could find in those first few months. I like The No Cry Sleep Solution because it fits with our parenting style.
Of course with sleep books, you can drive yourself nuts because one book says one thing, another says the complete opposite. The key is to think of them as tools. Take from them what you think will work and what works with your parenting philosophy. None of them are meant to be taken as unalterable game plans.
Plenty of good feedback on your design in this thread but I'll throw this out there. If you want to learn more about ICE engines (and you should if you want to design them) here are some good books on it. I'm an engineering student, lead engine designer for my FSAE team and taking a break from a lit review on compression ignition engines for my research project to do some redditing. These are some of the best books that I've found, presented in the order you should read them (from most basic to most advanced). Basically, if you want to revolutionize a technology you need to understand most if not all of what has come before.
The value of this book is largely in getting an introduction to how physics and calculations play into engines. It's intuitive but thought provoking.
This is one of the most noted ICE books, he also has a 2 stroke edition, and can be read and reread. It delves deeper into discharge coefficients and gas flow through engines, with a focus on pressure waves.
The name may make this one sound basic but in reality it's the most basic book of the next level of research. Where Blair will help you characterize and optimize an existing engine Heywood will help you design one from scratch. I honestly haven't been through this book entirely but it's tremendously useful.
One thing I notice about your design that I have to point out is sealing the paddle to the combustion chamber. You're looking at something very similar to an apex seal on a Wankel engine, arguably the greatest weak point for that engine. In your design, the direction of drag on that seal would change but on the other hand it would experience slower average speeds.
It's not really about that one waver, it's about brand exposure. They are trying to make 'doing my taxes' and 'liberty taxes' connected in peoples minds. Your one part of reinforcing that message. The more reinforcement you have, the stronger the connection. A lot of advertising is like dealing with a child, you have to establish a premise and then reinforce it constantly.
If you wish to know more read this book:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Positioning-The-Battle-Your-Mind/dp/0071373586
As my RE explained to me when I came in for a 3+ month bleed, the nonstop bleeding is caused by low progesterone. So putting you on progesterone is stopping your bleeding and making you feel better. Low progesterone could be the cause of your multiple miscarriages; I had at least 2 chemical pregnancies due to chronic low progesterone (Luteal Phase Defect).
My RE had me do 3 rounds of progesterone and started me on a high dose of Metformin, and I started the Insulin Resistance Diet. My periods regulated after a few months. Eventually I went on Clomid and progesterone to get pregnant and my second cycle worked.
If you're not currently wanting to get pregnant, I would suggest trying the progesterone-only birth control pill ("mini-pill"). I'm assuming the BC you were on was the combo estrogen-progesterone. The mini-pill actually lowers your risk of endometrial cancer. My RE did not recommend an IUD because it doesn't suppress hormones enough. I'm currently debating whether to go on the Depo-Provera shot, which is a higher dose of progesterone, but I wouldn't recommend that for you if you're thinking about getting pregnant soon.
You might be able to just do the progesterone pills for a few months and see if that regulates your cycle. While I don't think having a biopsy is overkill, I think suggesting a hysterectomy at this point is. Definitely wait to talk to your RE.
Not really sure if this will come off as condescending but here are some books for general parenting or parenting kids with behavioral issues. For any folks out there looking for resources.
The Connected Child
https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001
Mainly focuses on attachment, or lack there of, for adoptive parents but some of the info is good for parents with children who have behavioral issues caused by attachment issues. Does have some religious aspects but also creates space for non-religious folks as well.
The Whole Brian Child
https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697 great general parenting book.
No Drama Discipline
https://www.amazon.com/No-Drama-Discipline-Whole-Brain-Nurture-Developing/dp/034554806X help me understand what’s happening in my kids brain in misbehaving and tactics for working through various issues.
These really helped me feel empowered and informed as a parent. Every time we do well with the stuff we feel like the best parents in the world. Hope this helps anyone out there that might need it.
Edit: links and formatting. I suck at it and I’m on mobile so...
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Here is the mobile version of your link
ISBN: 978-0-12-811248-9
https://www.amazon.com/Eleventh-Hour-CISSP%C2%AE-Study-Guide/dp/0128112484/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=ISBN%3A+978-0-12-811248-9&amp;qid=1563081725&amp;s=gateway&amp;sr=8-2
People are probably going to recommend the usuals but I'm going to try and add some spicy flavor to this topic.
Designers call it using a concept.
Also can anyone recommend a good book on art philosophy/aesthetics?
Wow, that's a really broad topic and there is so much written on this.
When you say presentations, do you mean specifically like PowerPoint slides or pitching like getting funding for a business idea?
One of the best places to hear great presentations is Ted.com. You may want to check out [Garr Reynolds] (https://www.ted.com/search?q=garr+reynolds) and his books. Another great resource for presentations is [Nancy Duarte] (http://www.ted.com/search?q=nancy+duarte). Also [Seth Godin] (http://www.ted.com/search?q=seth+godin).
For pitching (selling your ideas or getting funding) I would read Oren Klaff's book called [Pitch Anything] (https://www.amazon.com/Pitch-Anything-Innovative-Presenting-Persuading/dp/0071752854/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1469128594&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=pitch+anything).
Let me know if that was what you were looking for. Hopefully others will have more ideas!
Since you're in the Bay Area, go to an SF Made event or schedule a meeting with Janet. SFMade is an organization that gets stuff made in SF. Mostly cut and sew apparel work.
Go in with a plan, not just an idea.
Don't worry about your niche (or niche within a niche) being too small. Smaller is better to start. Tailor your product to a small group and blow their minds. Get a base of raving fans then expand from there or, better yet, figure out what else they will buy and make it.
Don't worry about competition like Outlier. Read Positioning and "own" a phrase in your customers' minds. Maybe it's "dress shirts for Crossfitters."
My company, Tortuga Backpacks makes travel backpacks. Note how our story and target market are reflected in our 'About Us' page, product copy, and every other page on the site. We aren't the only company making backpacks, but we portray a very clear image: 25-39 year old urban travelers who see the value of packing light. I'm a marketer by trade, so I think about this stuff a lot.
Given that social security is constantly threatened, and given that most Americans have less than $500 in savings and are not saving nearly enough for retirement, creating passive income is a great way to both hedge against uncertainties and build actual wealth.
You've really got something to think about here. If you rent your house out, someone else is paying your mortgage for you. And if you're renting it out for twice to three times the note (hell of an investment), that one property can pay for your next property as well. Keep going and in a decade you could have several properties that have paid for themselves. When you are ready to retire, which could be a lot sooner than you currently believe is possible, you could be sitting on ten to twenty properties or more that you own, that you owe nothing for, that are making you thousands of dollars each month. And if you get tired of dealing with it all, you can always sell.
I recommend starting by looking into sources such as bigger pockets and start reading books like [The Millionaire Real Estate Investor] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071446370/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_EPN-zbTQ6ZCNS) by Gary Keller. Those sources will lead to learning about your current options and your future as an investor. And you need to learn about it, because whether you realize it or not, you're already a real estate investor.
Read Johnny Long's "No Tech Hacking".
http://www.amazon.com/No-Tech-Hacking-Engineering-Dumpster/dp/1597492159
This might be the sort of thing your doctor meant.
http://www.amazon.com/The-No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Through/dp/0071381392
Check out this book, it is kind of interesting even if you don't have a baby. Basically the baby gradually learns he or she is safe, even lying in bed, and doesn't get too overwhelmed.
This is a business where you have to do things the hard way, typically. If you decide to become a retail broker, there are a few things I would do:
I would suspect that a broker, in his first five years, probably hates his life. But once you get beyond that initial phase, it can obviously become very lucrative, as lucrative as a more institutional role. Remember that brokers eventually establish relationships with investment bankers and start doing fun little private placements. Some brokers specialize in this stuff (e.g. finding capital for small tech firms). These guys get warrants, the piece of the compensation picture that the retail client often doesn't know about. Warrants are good.
Remember too that we may be entering a long-term bear market. Some good friends of mine got started at one of the world's largest brokerages back in the mid 90s. So they had timing on their side. You may not.
This book might interest you: http://www.amazon.com/Pitch-Anything-Innovative-Presenting-Persuading/dp/0071752854/ref=reg_hu-rd_add_1_dp
It's written by a guy who raises VC capital.
If you're really interested in the field check out 'No Tech Hacking' by Johnny Long. He also has some good videos on YouTube.
http://www.amazon.com/No-Tech-Hacking-Engineering-Dumpster/dp/1597492159
Me and my wife are using this book to transition our co-sleeper to his crib:
No Cry Sleep Solution
This method is much nicer to your child. It's all about setting expectations by giving them positive sleep associations and forming a solid routine. The book has some specific tips for parents of twins also. I'm a big fan of attachment parenting and this books goes along very well with my philosophy of parenting. It gives lots of good actionable advice for lots of circumstances and attitudes.
I would highly recommend you try this before trying CIO. I see some people here saying that the CIO method worked after 2 days for them, that's great but isn't how it always works. Some children take a lot longer than that on CIO, and if you have twins I'm sure your problems and time till sanity is double.
Yeah, for me it makes perfect sense. I've read a lot about PCOS, insulin resistance, diabetes, nutrition etc and while I had gestational diabetes I could see how certain foods raise your blood sugar really high and then it crashes back down. I also tried eating after the "insulin resistance diet" http://www.amazon.com/Insulin-Resistance-Diet--Revised-Updated-Fat-Making-Machine/dp/0071499849/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1324314058&amp;sr=8-1 .. and that worked pretty well compared to other diets I've tried. It's about linking proteins with carbs in a certain way. But I gave up on it because I felt like I constantly had the "keto flu" .. it sucked. I don't mean for a few days but weeks, shaking, headaches, brain fog.
Hmm, that's a tough one.
I wasn't familiar with the book, so I decided to take a look at Amazon's page for the book. I don't see any kind of genre listing, but they do have sales rank data. That book is listed as #18 in Scifi Short stories and #69 in British literature. That's not a very trustworthy or effective metric, though. Barnes and Noble didn't have genre listing either.
Huh. I dunno! I guess there's at least one book, then.
https://www.amazon.com/CISSP-Study-Guide-Third-Conrad/dp/0128024372
Here are two great books to start with:
Personal MBA - https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0
Entreleadership - https://www.amazon.com/EntreLeadership-Practical-Business-Wisdom-Trenches/dp/1451617852/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1466870653&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=entreleadership+dave+ramsey
I am in a similar situation. I have spent my summers working for my family business. I worked at the assembly, warehouse, R&D you name it. I think its important to understand the people that you work with, understand their day-to-day jobs and really know your company.
Start with the product, learn every detail of the process it goes through to become a final product. You will also build a good relationship with your workers that is important too.
Once you feel confident, dive into management. Accountants and marketing people are the backbone of the business. Know what they are doing, their strategies. Learn how financing works in the company and who you are selling your products. Make some cold-calls to new customers, learn the trick of the trade.
Only once you really know how things work, set a goal! Say "I will grow this company 2 times the size it is today!" - its easier said than done.
If you didnt receive a former education in business, here are my top sources where I learnt a lot:
https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1473345589&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=personal+mba
https://www.amazon.com/HBR%C2%92s-Must-Reads-Boxed-Books/dp/1422184056/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1473345608&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=HBR+essentials
These books wont tell you how to run your grandfather's business but they will tell you what a business is/does and how you can steer it. The rest is creativity, hard work and vision.
Hope this helps!
I really really like this woman’s approach: No Cry Sleep Solution. It’s a gentle approach to helping them get there.
You shared a lot of information and I have just a few thoughts for your consideration. These are in no particular order. These more focus on the advice-guidance. I am in a technical field and though I lead some strategically, I'm more a technical advisor than director.
I hope they help and good luck.
I passed my exam with help from the CISSP Mentor Program and following along with their talks with the Eric Conrad study guide.
I'm not familiar with any textbooks but one book that's similar to a textbook is The Personal MBA (https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1538444048&sr=8-2&keywords=personal+MBA). I found it to be like a textbook in a negative way and never finished reading it because I'm personally more into mindset. He read hundreds of business books and compiled all that knowledge into this book. It's exhaustive from that standpoint.
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There is a really excellent book called The Personal MBA that could easily be read in less than a week. It would not make you "well rounded" in one week but it does summarize and give good explanations of much of what you would learn in an MBA curriculum. Definitely something to include. I am not connected with the author.
If you like reading btw, here's my top list for teaching yourself marketing:
My favorite marketing book: https://www.amazon.com/Being-Direct-Making-Advertising-Pay/dp/0394540638
Best for creative ad strategy: https://www.amazon.com/Made-Stick-Ideas-Survive-Others/dp/1400064287
Two really good ones on branding: https://www.amazon.com/22-Immutable-Laws-Branding/dp/0060007737, https://www.amazon.com/Positioning-Battle-Your-Al-Ries/dp/0071373586/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_14_img_1?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=SAK252T4836CY0G4XYGD
A classic on inbound marketing (not paid media): https://www.amazon.com/Inbound-Marketing-Found-Google-Social/dp/0470499311
Good guide to Facebook advertising: https://adespresso.com/academy/guides/facebook-ads-beginner/
Learning To See - https://www.amazon.com/Learning-See-Stream-Mapping-Eliminate/dp/0966784308/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542653181&sr=8-1&keywords=learning+to+see
Great book to help you see what is creating value for your customer and what waste that can be removed to achieve optimal flow.
Cool! That's a good one. Also really thought this was good.
I also recently got started in the share market. I've been applying to IPOs and gradually learning about how to judge whether a company is fundamentally strong or not. I'm learning from a combination of reading news( news on the company, acquisitions, sentiments), books on how investing works(https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/817589.Learn_to_Earn), how a business works(https://www.amazon.com/Personal-MBA-Master-Art-Business/dp/1591845572) and various financial metrics(P/E ratio, EPS, etc.) via data camp(https://www.datacamp.com/courses/importing-managing-financial-data-in-python, https://www.datacamp.com/courses/intro-to-financial-concepts-using-python, https://www.datacamp.com/courses/intro-to-portfolio-risk-management-in-python).
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can you confirm that those are the books you were using:
https://www.amazon.com/Certified-Information-Security-Professional-Official/dp/1119523265/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=sybex+cissp&qid=1557068330&s=gateway&sr=8-1
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https://www.amazon.com/CISSP-Study-Guide-Eric-Conrad/dp/0128024372/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3EHIXX8M9ICO3&keywords=11th+hour+cissp&qid=1557068417&s=gateway&sprefix=11th+ho%2Caps%2C391&sr=8-2
As a "helping service" provider, your costs are probably relatively low and mostly your own time.
As such, your economic success will rise and fall on your pricing and marketing.
This is a pretty good wholistic view of marketing from a customer perspective: Positioning, the battle for your mind
Once you understand what you want to be, you can then explore how to get there.
In short, yes it is. Theres many ways I could explain it but I don't think i'd do this book justice - http://www.amazon.com/The-Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor/dp/0071446370 The Millionaire Real Estate Investorby Gary Kellar
This book is to real estate what Rich Dad Poor Dad is to Personal Finance.
I found a lot of value in The Personal MBA. Sit down with it some afternoon and it'll help you decide what path to take.
https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor-ebook/dp/B000SEKD0A
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https://www.amazon.it/Flip-Find-Sell-Houses-Profit/dp/0071486100
I haven't read the 2nd one yet, the first one has a lot of fluff but in general I'd highly recommend it, especially if you don't know anything. It's kinda like "the intelligent investor", if you already know how to invest, it's useless, if you don't know the principles it's useful though.
I am looking to hire a long term writer, offer to pay and incentives based on CTR. [LeadArk] (http://leadark.com) partners with the top 1% of Real Estate Agents to do marketing for their clients, people like you and me who are buying homes. Very captive audience, who will be making a decision in the next 60 days. 13,000 people a day buy homes.
I opened [LeadArk] (http://leadark.com) 6 months ago, signed up 250 users in the last 3 months and already have a 6 figure contract. Working with Oren Klaff the author of [Pitch Anything] (http://www.amazon.com/Pitch-Anything-Innovative-Presenting-Persuading/dp/0071752854) to make it sizzle. Are you looking for a long term partnership, or just portfolio work? What's in it for you and how do we get our goals in line?
It's a book! The newborn one I mentioned is for younger babies, didn't see that your LO was almost 6 months, but she wrote one for older babies too! The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071381392/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_hPE-ybQ6W280M
I'd start with either the Complete MBA For Dummies or The Complete Idiot's Guide to MBA Basics, 3rd Edition then advance to The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business or The Ten-Day MBA 4th Ed..
Ah, yes. Those aren't the same. This is the most updated, recent official exam book that includes the practice exams:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1119523265/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s01?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1
The book comes with questions as well, but not very good ones in relation to the exam. It also has online flashcards. The practice exam book can be activated online, and all questions are available online. That book has everything that is covered in the test.
The other book I used was this one, but more straight to the point, but doesn't cover every single detail like the Sybex:
https://www.amazon.com/CISSP-Study-Guide-Eric-Conrad/dp/0128024372/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=cissp+study+guide+third+edition&amp;qid=1555615018&amp;s=gateway&amp;sr=8-1
Millionaire Real Estate Investor, Gary Keller.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Millionaire-Real-Estate-Investor/dp/0071446370
There might be better "beginner books", but I think this does start at the basics and does an even better job at the more thorough and practical levels. By far the best overall book on RE investing that I have read. No nonsense approach, which is hard to come by in a world where every slick haired dude ever bought anything is trying to sell a book on "how to be a billionaire overnight with no money or assets at all!".
Beyond that there are a list of other books that hit on more specific or detailed topics, and when you need those just let me know. I could think of a few.
Maybe you should become an amazing marketer then?
I've heard Pitch Anything reccomended. Also your tone seems to be the biggest problem with your proposals. If you only phrased things differently, you might see clients/companies becoming much more willing to play along.
My top three picks would be the No Cry Sleep Solution, The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding and the Happiest Baby on the Block (I've seen the DVD, didn't read the book).
I also highly recommend the blog Parenting Science. I teach child development, and what the author writes is backed by recent research (citations included) so it isn't just one random person's thoughts but essentially a literature review of what to do for the best outcomes when it comes to infant sleep and behaviour. Oh, and definitely KellyMom if you're breastfeeding. :)
I don't know if it's the link or the website, but I get a redirection...not the best for thrusting a website.
Wordpress (.org) is great just find a better theme and browse the plugins.
for example Louis vuitton is running on wordpress. There is a lot of multinationals using wordpress.
And do the updates !!! you're using wordpress 4.5.4, the last version is 4.7
You need a theme with a e-commerce integrated in it and a SSL certificate
in order to sell; I didn't get what you want to sell btw.
Also I hope you have a backup of your website!
Online Business query on youtube - Freemium is the trend you can find a lot of free tutorial to learn the basics of business on youtube.
Next I recommend some readings (not affiliate):
-The personnal MBA - Josh Kaufman
-Growth Hacker Marketing - Ryan Holiday
Two books on social engineering I can recommend:
Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking
http://www.amazon.com/Social-Engineering-The-Human-Hacking/dp/0470639539/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1333753273&amp;sr=8-1
No Tech Hacking: A Guide to Social Engineering, Dumpster Diving, and Shoulder Surfing
http://www.amazon.com/No-Tech-Hacking-Engineering-Dumpster/dp/1597492159/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1333753273&amp;sr=8-4
I've never done keto. I've always had excellent results on VLCD (very low calorie diets), which obviously give fast results, but you have to work hard to keep the weight off. These diets tend to be very low carb diets, putting you in ketosis. However, being on a VLCD is not necessary or realistic long-term for PCOS management and weight loss, which are your aims. I found a good PCOS nutrition book to be helpful when I was first diagnosed. It helped me understand what I should avoid (refined carbs and sugars, basically) or at least reduce my intake of (carbs and red meat) , in order to help my symptoms. Seafood is great, and definitely better in many respects than meat. It contains less chemicals (vaccinations etc), a lower harmful fat content, and less hormones to interfere with your own. Keeping your blood sugar levels steady and making the best food choices is achievable when you're taking a balanced approach, following, for example, a low GI regime. That way, you'll be avoiding the things that make symptoms worse, you'll reduce your risk of diabetes and insulin resistance, and you'll lose weight. I think taking note of calories is also very important.
A couple of books I found to be useful are listed below:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0007131844
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0071499849
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0340896019
Hope this helps!
Suggested read for everyone in this thread: Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind
it's all about branding and reasons for success vs. failure of a brand name
Very interesting even if you only have a passing interest in marketing and it is well written by some of the best in the industry.
A nice broad crash course is The Personal MBA. I wouldn't say it's in-depth, but a good overview of a wide range of concepts.
Oh man. It's a long journey from "no clue" to "men's suits" even without the business aspect. To get started in garment sewing, I'd recommend starting with aprons and then pajama pants. Both are those are simple, use cheap fabrics, and require you to learn the techniques you'll use in more advanced sewing - and you can still wear them around the house, even if they turn out embarrassingly bad. (The first few probably will suck pretty bad!) You can also experiment on those forms with buttons, zippers, elastic, embroidery, lots of design elements you'll need for other garments.
The name of the game in this learning cycle is "fail faster". If you work on a more complex garment (even in the muslin stage) you'll be significantly time-invested before you see how it's turning out. You can make an apron or some PJ pants in an afternoon. Almost-instant addicting gratification and you can see where you need more practice quickly.
On the business side, becoming a recognized brand happens via marketing. You should read The Personal MBA as a primer on business in general. I work for an ad agency, and I've worked on fashion brands - it's tough to make it in fashion, whether it's fast fashion or designer. A lot of people want to "become recognized", it's a high-competition field. Not saying you shouldn't go for it, just be realistic that "recognized brand" does not happen overnight (or cheaply).
https://www.amazon.com/CISSP-Study-Guide-Third-Conrad/dp/0128024372/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1506619438&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=eric+conrad+cissp
There's a million things most people on this sub could recommend, and really the learning never stops.
Here are some good starting points:
The Hard Thing About Hard Things - Ben Horowitz
Zero to One - Peter Thiel
The Personal MBA - Josh Kaufman
The Four Hour Work Week - Tim Ferris
I found the The Brand Gap to be very elementary. If you've been in marketing for a while you should already have a solid foundation on branding that that book covers. It's definitely an easy read and a great source for an introduction to branding.
With that said, I'd recommend:
Buy the Gregg Shorthand manual on Amazon. You will be able to write basic words after the first chapter.
Unfortunately it's a little late for some of the S's and probably not ready to cry it out.
Might want to check this one out:
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071381392/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_B0Lavb0673REP
Here is some different advice:
Step 1: get excited. Sounds like you have that part under control. :-)
Step 2:
Don’t worry about a once a day weed habit. My wife smokes, and our kids have turned out amazing. I totally get the desire to be your best. But if weed does it for you, then do it. I believe it helps her be a better mom.
She only ever does it after the kids go to sleep. Or i’ll watch the kids for awhile so she can restore.
Step 3:
Getting the baby, you and your wife regular (all thru the night) sleep is so critical. Our pediatrician was so great and coached us to have all our kids sleeping through the night by 2 months old. It makes a massive difference in your wife’s sanity levels. You’ll be a safer, more engaged parent if you have sleep.
Here is a book I found on Amazon. Pick a winner and take control of this for your family. It’s an amazing gift to your team if you can make this happen.
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071381392/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_7dwdBbKNKE0D3
I hope things are going better for you. My son had a lot of similar behaviors when he came home, but almost two years have passed and he's like a different child (still we see some of the maladaptive behaviors but not as frequently). Trust Based Relational Intervention was a game changer for us. Check out The Connected Child. https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Child-healing-adoptive-family/dp/0071475001
First, octane rating has nothing to do with the gas volatility. You can have 87 winter blend that is more volatile than 87 summer blend. Volatility and octane are two completely separate values that have no relation to each other. You need to get that right before we can move on.
Also, knock is the colloquial term for detonation, which surprisingly you are correct. It's when the gas detonates before the spark event and creates much higher pressure in the cylinder. It can sometimes be heard as an audible "knock" in certain engines. It more often is unable to be heard without special monitoring equipment.
Last, as I said before, static compression is just one factor out of many that determines what the engine's octane requirement is. I'll give you a real world example. My 1972 Sportster has a static compression ratio of 9:1 and needs a minimum of 94 AKI to not detonate. My 2002 Sportster has a static compression of 10.5:1 and will run perfectly fine on 91 AKI.
By your simple, misunderstood statements the 2002 should be blowing up compared to my 72. The real answer is that octane and compression can be related, but compression is only one small factor in determining that. There are several other things that are far more dominating in determining the required octane.
If you would like to learn more about this so we can speak intelligently about it, please pick up a copy of John Heywood's Internal Combustion Engine Fundamentals (https://smile.amazon.com/Internal-Combustion-Engine-Fundamentals-Heywood/dp/007028637X?sa-no-redirect=1) and read it cover to cover. It will go over a lot of things you're misunderstanding and help you clarify some of your thoughts.
Learning to See is a pretty good tool... it goes over VSMs, but it gets into Toyota Production Methods and is basically just a good place to start. If you know absolutely nothing about Six Sigma, Six Sigma For Dummies isn't awful - my trainer kept a copy on his desk.
On The Beach by Nevil Shute is probably the closest I've read to that level hopeless apocalyptic scenarios.
Earth Abides by George R. Stewart is another one. It's not as dark, but it has some key things in common that you may like.
Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood No sci-fi or apocalypse thread is getting very far without me recommending it.
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Two of the best introductory books:
I learned Gregg by way of this book:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0070245487
A while later, I found a Gregg dictionary. Each word had its corresponding "squiggle" - that helped. I had a record player with a set of dictation records for practice also.
I'd suggest reading up online and getting a sense of the language first. Then, definitely the instructional book.
Overall, it's just takes tons of practice. Use what you know every chance you can and you will gain speed. Too, you will get a sense of the way you write the language - your style.
Don't be discouraged if it takes some time to get the form right - it is fluid written movement but, essentially a new language.
Good luck!!
Okay, so I think you have a few options here.
The rolling is a phase and no matter you approach, I think it just sucks for a while until she has better control over her body.
CISSP Study Guide https://www.amazon.com/dp/0128024372/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_5GgGDb2NADS0W