(Part 2) Best lingerie for women according to redditors
We found 4,777 Reddit comments discussing the best lingerie for women. We ranked the 3,523 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
I'm a HUGE (no pun intended) fan of the Panache Sports Bra. I'm a 38FF and wear the non-wired version, and find it contains and supports the girls quite well!
Well there is this thing http://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK
I've never tried one but the reviews are pretty funny.
If you don't want to squash them, avoid "compression bras" and look for "encapsulation bras." Encapsulation bras will have separate cups, like this Freya Active, Panache Sport, and Panache Sport Non-wired.
For blouses that are particularly thin/shear, I like to add a lightweight camisole. (Personally love the airism ones from Uniqlo) If I'm not wearing a camisole but am otherwise nervous about my nipples showing, I'll use [these bad boys] (https://www.amazon.com/Nippies-ORIGINAL-Hypoallergenic-Pasties-ADHESIVE/dp/B00CX547FE/ref=sr_1_2?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1502732956&sr=1-2&nodeID=1040660&psd=1&keywords=nipple+petals) which are pretty awesome.
What she’s talking about are breast forms, like this (NSFW Amazon link because nipples). Typically used by either mastectomy patients and MTF crossdressers, so they should be very helpful to you.
Also, check out r/feminineboys and r/crossdressing, they should be able to help because there are plenty of guys who want to wear dresses but are flat chested
Hope you’re able to feel pretty :)
Mine is the Natori Feathers. So comfortable. I wore it while I was pregnant and a size 32DDD(shallow) and then after for a little when I was nursing. Then my boobs and body shrank and I had to get rid of it. :(
I should get another one...
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Link: this Panache sports bra
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I'm gonna die shilling nipple patches on this sub. I do not wear bras anywhere anymore. paper or silicone
Hey! I'm gonna paste the shopping list I used to buy things before my surgery and maybe it'll be helpful for you!
Extra strength Tylenol, frozen peas (for icing), gauze pads (I've gone through three packs of the largest band-aid brand gauze at Target), Hibiclens soap for my pre-op shower, three cases of water, throat drops, saltines, light soups, small bottles of gatorade so they're easier to lift, paper plates +disposable utensils so you don't have to do dishes, and cat food + cat litter (obviously this is specific to cat owners, but if you have a pet I suggest buying everything they need before so that you won't have to pick up anything for them at the store post-op)
Something else that might be helpful is a pack of cheap wash clothes to dry your chest after you shower since they're easier and quicker to wash than using a new full size towel every time. Paper towels are also helpful to dry your chest since they're disposable. I'm 11 days post-op, allowed to shower, and still have tape over my incisions, so I use a wash cloth to dry my chest and then blow dry my chest on low heat from a distance since I don't want the tape to retain moisture. Maternity pillows are great for sleeping- I borrowed one from a family member since I don't have any children and they're kinda pricey.
As far as post-op bras go, definitely call your surgeon's office and ask if they will provide a post-op surgical bra. My surgeon never mentioned it, but ended up providing one since I woke up in a size 38 band velcro surgical bra. I bought one Fruit of the Loom front closure bra in 38 since I knew I would be swollen. It didn't fit until 5 days post op. Here is the bra. I got it in black so that it wouldn't show any leakage, but the inside is white anyway so it didn't really matter.
Good luck with your surgery!!! :)
I do wayyyyy shorter of runs, but I'm personally having success with and heard good things about Panache. Here's the one I use which is designed for us busty ladies. linky
Bra extenders - they'll do your body good.
http://www.amazon.com/Extenders-Individual-Bra/dp/B0000864RH
Based on the pictures, 30E/F seems too small. I think your original measurements of 30FF/G sound about right. And I'm actually leaning more towards 30G since I'm 28FF and you seem more than one size bigger than me. Don't worry, it's not as huge as it seems! There was a survey done on this subreddit where we found out that 30F is about average.
As far as brands go, if you really think you're full-on-bottom, Cleo Lucy is a good starting bra.
Try these
https://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK
I've been going completely braless for over a year now (finally discovering perks of tiny boobs) and I've just had to learn how to not care what other people think. No one has ever said anything to me about my nips showing. It used to be super common (did you know the ladies of Friends never wore bras? And they were on TV! You can always see their nipples!). Like Im not sure people care, or even notice most of the time. However, if you are feeling self-conscious about it, especially depending on the material of your top, I highly recommend these reusable silicone pasties. Personally I can't feel them at all, they don't hurt to take off, and they smooth everything out. I wear these a lot when Im going to work because that's the one time I feel weird showing my nips off. In fact, I frequently forget Im even wearing them and fall asleep in them.
Either way, you're beautiful just the way you are, so you do you girl.
Hey girl! Fellow 30FF 18-year old here. I relate to all of this. There's not much I can say that will help because I'm currently struggling with the idea of a reduction too, BUT I can help with your bra-finding issues.
I searched for months to find cute bras and these are some that I currently own that are supportive, sexy, and not tooo expensive:
here
here
here
this one is my favorite!
I wore pasties! Will wear them at the wedding too. These are the best ones I've tried. There are similar for only like $5 but these really last, and I personally like them because they keep a perfect round shape, I wear them under tank tops and stuff too and even with C-Ds I feel good about it.
I'm a 32F. I got this sick sports bra on amazon! Shits locked and loaded yo!
My wife almost never wears a bra. She loves "Nippies Skin Original". They have adhesive and non-adhesive versions. I've taken them off her many times; no complaints, flinching or any sign they are uncomfortable to take off. Seems to just peel off with not a lot of resistance. The adhesive is not very sticky and it's reusable. You can rejuvenate the adhesive by gently washing with warm water and letting them air dry (pick any hairs out =)
She recently tried the non-adhesive kind and they stay on very well too!
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Highly recommend them... they aren't cheap but a set can last you a year, easy, if you take care of them. By 'take care of them' I mean just don't wantonly cover them in dirt / sand and when you aren't wearing them put them back on the little plastic cups. The adhesive should last at least 6 months before needing to be washed and rejuvenated. Trust me... if these things were high maintenance she wouldn't bother!
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Here's a link to the specific thing I'm talking about.
https://www.amazon.com/Nippies-ORIGINAL-Hypoallergenic-Pasties-ADHESIVE/dp/B00CX547FE/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1540583439&sr=8-3&keywords=nippies+skin
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edit: changed link to a Prime version
This one is amazing!
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cts_ap_1_vtp?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_p=2897711222&pf_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&pd_rd_wg=PhPC8&pf_rd_s=desktop-detail-softlines&pf_rd_t=40701&pd_rd_i=B00553XFN6&pd_rd_w=pkFBI&pf_rd_i=desktop-detail-softlines&pd_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&_encoding=UTF8
A-maze-ing!
I'm a 36j and I shove myself into 38h and there is no bounce. May I repeat, no bounce! I do a lot of high impact stuff too.
Since the problem seems to be about the constriction imposed by bras and how they both trap fluid in the breast and weaken your breast muscles, I can’t imagine wearing sports bras all day long is better. The most important thing if you choose to wear a bra is not wearing it too long and ensuring it’s not very tight (no marks in the skin). Personally I use Nippies by Bristols 6, which are basically super high quality pasties that can last over a year with daily use. They’re so comfy and I haven’t had to wear a bra for 3 years!
It's a bit harder to get diagnose fit and for some people to get the best possible fit in a moulded bra, but if you're not at all open to wearing a non-moulded bra, that's totally your choice. Your measurements put you between band sizes as well as between cup sizes, so you're likely to wear a 32 band in some bras and a 34 in others (in addition to being between cup sizes).
I'm putting only amazon links in here for ease of shipping/returns. Everything I've linked is available on Prime, but it might default to another seller if the size you choose is out of stock or they have a lower price so just pay attention when you're adding stuff to your cart as other sellers will have their own return policies.
For absolute basic, 'everyday' bras, your best choice to start would probably be Freya Deco. This bra runs bigger in the band, so you'll probably do fine in a 32 band here.
Personally I prefer the fit of the Parfait Jeanie to the Deco, I find the cups/straps are a little closer together so it's much more comfortable for me. (Also it's $20 cheaper, though, I'd still pay the extra money for something that fit better).
Strapless bras are fairly difficult to come by in larger sizes, the Deco Strapless is what I would consider the most useful one, it also comes in a longline version which may be more supportive if you don't find this sufficient. It is tighter in the band than the regular Deco, so you may take a 34 in this.
Panache Sport is probably the most consistently recommended bra on this sub, it comes in underwired and non-wired versions. It's not moulded, the cups are seamed and made of flexible foam. The underwires in the wired version are padded, so it's pretty comfy. You'll probably take a larger band in this based on the fact that you're lifting and doing yoga, and not running.
However, since the Panache sport is an encapsulation bra, it's really not my first choice for yoga. I prefer this Shock Absorber which is a strong compression bra, to just flatten my boobs as much as possible to get them as much out of the way as they can get. This runs tight in the band, so I might suggest trying a 36 band. The sizing is kind of weird on this as well, the boob section never gets any wider, it just gets taller (I own this in a FF and H cup in the same band size), so if you try it and think it doesn't provide enough coverage and is showing too much very squished cleavage, just size up even if it's a cup size much larger than you would normally wear.
$250 is a bit of a tight budget for the number of bras you want, but really not impossible once you've narrowed down your size. Even based on Amazon-pricing, if you like the Parfait Jeanie, you can get 3 of those, the Deco Strapless, and a sports bra for $260.....but you can also get 3 Decos, the Deco Strapless, and a Panache Sport from here for £161 which converts to $213USD. You can also often find new with tags bras on ebay from UK sellers that are selling off previous seasons' printed or fashion colour bras.
It's a miracle
I understand your heavy chest struggle. This bra saved the day for me when I was training(jogging) for a half marathon. You can customize how much lifting you want the straps to do which is nice. Not my cutest sports bra but definitely my most dependable.
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8
Not exactly exercise related but I am having a serious issue with camel toe from literally every single pair of gym leggings I have. It all started yesterday. My period is due today/soon so I don't know if this is period related FUPA inflammation or what.
Besides wearing a longer shirt, how can I minimize my camel toe with my leggings? 😥 I prefer to not wear underwear when wearing leggings to the gym and this is even happening in my leggings that have a gusset. 😣 I use blood cups during my period so I don't even have any panty liners I can stick on there.
Ninja edit: TIL these exist, lol: https://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK
My sister who has G cups, swears up and down by a bra converter.
These work really well
bubands
I used to get upper back pain in ill fitted, cross-back sports bras. I thought the cross-back would be good for larger sizes, but they really aren't. Also, if the size is not right for you, it means you are getting support from the straps instead of the band and you'll get that upper back ache you are talking about as the weight of your chest pulls on the straps. Once I found my proper size using the sidebar guide, the upper back aches generally stopped.
I tried the Panache Non Wired Sports Bra and its wireless sister and fell in love with the regular straps and great hold. No more achy back and shoulders after a workout! I didn't think I would like the wires, but they are so cushioned and encapsulated in the fabric that they only add support. The wired bra is best for intense workouts, but I do pretty well in the wireless, too.
The band is VERY snug in this model, so be sure to take your measurements using the sidebar and lean towards the upper end of your band measurement. I have a snug underbust of about 28 and a tight measurement of about 27.5, and the 30 band can even feel a little too tight for me.
Everyone says to get these Fruit of the Loom bras. I was a 30GG before surgery and I got two of these bras in a size 34. They were too small after surgery. It's been three months since my surgery and the bras are still too small. I would estimate my current size is a 32DD or 32E/34D depending on the bra (my band size is bigger now). So if you get bras like these, get them way bigger.
People also recommend other sports bras from Walmart. I found that with my small band size, these rode up and caused the front to dig into my sore incisions. But you might have better luck.
I bought this bra in a larger size, like a L A/B, because that was all they had available in the shop. They altered it - took a big tuck in the back of the band so it would fit. It's okay for sleeping in. If I were doing the whole thing over again I would have ordered that Amoena bra in a M C/D ahead of time.
I'm not sure how much your boobs have grown, but I have found that the bra extenders, like this have really helped me get more use out of my older bras. Or if you do buy a few new ones, and continue growing, this will help you get more use out of them.
I love Panache! I bought their regular sports bra and while I liked it for most workouts, on my long runs (10+ miles), the underwire would poke into me and rub me raw. I was disappointed, and continued to search for the perfect bra.
Eventually, I decided to try their non-wired sports bra and it's absolutely the best sports bra I've ever put on. No bounce, no chaffing, just awesomeness.
http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Non-Wired-Sports-Bra/dp/B00MGTNTB0
Contouring and tape
Ouch! that's not good, perhaps you could find a bra extender to tide you over until you can afford a new bra?
The Cleo Juna has some lace along the top of the cup and isn't too full coverage (but is otherwise boring).
The Deco Plunge is "boring" as far as decoration, but does give nice cleavage w/ less coverage.
The Tango II seems like a fun nude bra, but it's not. It's evil (in this size rage).
I don't think the Natori Feathers comes in your size, unfortunately, because I think it hits all of your points.
The Gossard Superboost lace plunge looks cute, but I haven't tried it (and I think I remember people saying Gossard is weird re shape/sizing?)
The Freya Carys is not beige as in nude color, but is a more neutral color and also comes in longline.
If you want to get this look with a properly fitting bra, I must say the Freya Deco did wonders for me! I have very large, pendulous breasts with what I consider an average root. The Deco keeps them lifted up and creates that rounded look on top without them touching.
I also recently purchased the Cleo Lilly and Cleo Lucy
, and they give me a great rounded look that isn't as intense.
Seconded! I recently bought this Panache sports bra and it makes a world of difference. I don't need to wear a second sports bra or a top with a built-in bra when I go running now!
My friend wore some like these before she grew her own http://amzn.to/2IaeicA They're also sold at places like Walmart, Victoria's Secret, etc.
32F over here. I love these guys:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005VNFE5C/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o07_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01C7WM2KE/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s02?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Yes, models and actresses use it frequently.
Here's the first google hit
https://www.amazon.com/Hollywood-Fashion-Secrets-Double-Strips/dp/B000YOSI6U
Try bra extenders, they’re pretty inexpensive. My cup size never really changed, just the bust so they worked for me.
Bra Extender 2 Hooks/3 Hooks/4 Hook, Bra Strap Extensions - 9 Packs (Black, White, Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0757KB7DW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Q0IwDbGZ2EMA1
Maybe size up in the band and buy some rixie bra tightening clips? That way you could use them to tighten the band as needed or not use them if you end up needing a looser band.
Ewa Michalak makes KK and L cups in bigger band sizes, although ordering from her seems a bit complicated. I do believe there is guide on this subreddit about ordering from there.
If you get desperate and want to keep the shorts you already own, you could try something like the CamelNot. I've never actually tried it, but it might work!
I'm not an expert, and I don't know much about Comexim, but I had the same question I asked about a Freya bra. I was told that it isn't recommended to wear a bra band larger than you normally wear just to get the wires right. Wearing it larger than you need will just lead to other fit problems; riding up in the back and tissue spilling out the bottom of the front, strap issues, etc.
However, since the one you're having difficulty with is a 65 and you prefer 70 bands, try out the sister size in a 70. It'll probably have wider wires than the 65, but you won't be sacrificing for other fit issues you might stumble upon in the 75.
I don't know how the wires run in Comexim, but check out Bratabase for the model in question to see the wire width and compare that width between the different sister sizes in question. That'll give you a better idea before buying. And ultimately it's all about your comfort and what you like. If you try the 70 and find the wires still narrow and you decide to try the 75, but the band is too large, you could always alter the band smaller or use a Rixie Clip Good luck! :)
Edited for spelling
I was a 34 DD when I went to basic. AF but relevant advice anyways.
Double up on the cheaper, less supportive bras.Also, consider going down one cup size from what you should technically wear.
If you have the money, Glamourise makes this one and Moving Comfort makes this one. Both are awesome but the Glamourise one is my favorite for bounce control and a bit of separation. I trained for three half marathons in the Moving Comfort ones and the Glamourise ones have ended up great for running since having kids/gaining weight and turning into a 38G.
Trust me on the bras.
I came across this Booband while shopping online for sports bras. Maybe this might help?
https://www.amazon.com/Envy-Body-Silicone-Breast-Mastectomy/dp/B004GP05TQ
This is more or less what I have. Down side is they’ll fall out if you take your bra off but I prefer having it on anyway ;)
I'd try finding her something that fits in the cups and then getting an extender for the band.
I think something like this might be what you need if you just need a couple of inches http://www.amazon.com/Fashion-Forms-Womens-Adjustable-Converter/dp/B007H52DCE/ref=pd_sim_193_5?ie=UTF8&dpID=41azIfiIVrL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL200_SR143%2C200_&refRID=0WYBCF0WTP99ER15BGNH
This thing is amazing. https://www.amazon.com/Rixie-Clip-Bra-Band-Tightener/dp/B00C9MMEEM it clamps onto one side of the back band, and then has a row of hooks for the other side to hook to. It can make it waaaaay smaller!
I'm a C/D cup and I would do some nipple stickers or tape with necklines like that.
Don't know if you've seen/had any success with them, but several companies make front-close sports bras
Here is the desktop version of your link
FF is a UK size. It's 1 full cup bigger than an F. UK sizing goes D, DD, E, F, FF, G, GG and so on. I checked bratabase and the Deco has very wide wires. 34FF actually has the same volume as a 32G, but with a looser band. The Cleo Lucy is a good bra to start with if you are full on bottom. Also, unlined bras are much better when you are trying to nail down your best fit/size. It has medium wires. Amazon often has the Lucy on sale for a good price, right now the 34FF is about $31. You might want to try it in the 34F and 34FF.
Here is the actual website and here is a place where you can actually buy it! The price seems to vary. Just a warning, it seems to be for sizes A-D but its a gamble I would be willing to take at least.
:)
Keep it going!
And, for just a couple dollars: http://www.amazon.com/Extenders-Individual-Bra/dp/B0000864RH
You say the straps are digging in. That's the problem. The support should come from the band, not the straps. The straps should be just tight enough not to slip off your shoulders.
Get a bra that has a band tight enough that it can't ride up your torso in the back. If you measure around your torso just under your breast tissue, keep the tape parallel with the ground, and the tape should be very tight. Tha is your true band number. Don't add or subtract. If it measures 38", you need to find a bra that's 38" (most bra sellers suggest adding inches. This makes bras easier to manufacture, but it's wrong. Yes, you've been lied to about how to fit a bra by everyone your whole life.)
Now that you know your size, there are two types of sports bras, bending or encapsulating. Binding is basically a giant elastic band that squashes your boobs into place. Encapsulating creates little pockets for your breasts that hold them in place. Binding bras are more common, and a lot cheaper. Encapsulating are better, and more expendsive.
Panache makes encapsulating ones with wire and no wire. amazon
/r/abrathatfits is a great resource.
I like the Glamorise No-Bounce bra that JessPlays mentioned, but I love the Glamorise double-layer custom-control bra.
I get good support from both, but the custom-control gives me a better shape (more rounded and more pushed-up). I ordered a bunch of the custom-control ones, and now I only use the no-bounce ones as a backup. I'm a 38H, so I know how important good support is!
As a general reference, bratabase can be a good resource for bra reviews and suggestions for your particular measurements.
One of cheapest bra in your size range that is halfway decent is the Goddess Keira. It sells for around 40 USD on amazon. Amazon does free returns and I've also seen the Keira go on sale for less. Goddess uses US sizing, order a 34K.
They also currently have the Panache Tango II Balc. on sale in beige for 34 USD. Order your UK size of 34H.
The Cleo Marcie is on sale for 50% off at 28 USD. Again, order your UK size of 34H.
EDIT: Cleo Lucy is also on sale for 35 USD.
I tuck 24/7 and I ware all sorts of bottoms, that don't ade in tucking.
I ware 3 pairs of Sakkas Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts, they look more like briefs when I do, but I can play hackysack without issue. ;)
-Kira
PS: I have a 34" waist and 39" hips.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000YOSI6U/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1415253819&sr=8-1&pi=SY200_QL40
Double sided tape probably
I find they stretch after a few wears, so better to go for the 30 back. If it is too tight on the first couple of wears, you can try an extender -- they are pretty cheap: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0000864RH
Good luck!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000YOSI6U/ref=redir_mdp_mobile/191-8205608-4771065?fp=1&pc_redir=1427576748# Not sure if this is exactly what you're looking for, but this double-sided fashion tape is $12 for two tins of 36 strips each (so 72 total) on Amazon.
I also have a rather pronounced tail of spence, and for me shoulder bras work best to keep them in check. I'd recommend the Natori Feathers - I personally haven't tried it, but it's supposedly great for shallow breasts. You may want to size up in the cup though, it's very shallow.
The ones I own are Mimi Holliday shoulder bras - I have several non-padded (narrow wires) and one padded (wide wires). Mimi's rather expensive, but from time to time, cheap ones in 28D-DD and 30C-D pop up on Amazon UK and Ebay. Their balconettes and padded plunges (actually half cups) also have very wide cups.
Geez, I didn't even know I was essentially buying the same bra over and over again. No wonder nothing was working. My ignorance of this topic is a little embarrassing! But you're all very sweet and helpful around here, so I'm going to pursue this li'l project. It would really take a surprising amount of stress off my life and add confidence if I could just get it straightened out.
Just to be clear, first try:
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in which size, exactly?
Also, which Freya unmoulded would you recommend?
It seems silly that there aren't companies cashing in on tapered torsos. To be honest, I didn't even know I had such a thing, but it explains why a LOT of clothes I try on fit weird! :P
I've had a few of these for YEARS and they've held up really well. I'm a 28FF/30F so we're dealing with close to the same volume. Super sturdy.
An alternative to sewing on extra hooks and eyes is a Rixie Clip. I haven't tried one yet myself but there have been some good reviews of them here on ABTF.
> shallow/wide rooted (I'm not sure what the difference is between those,
Root width is about how far your tissue extends around your side/under your arms. It's relative to bra size - bigger band sizes have wider roots on average and larger cup sizes have wider roots on average.
Shallow breasts have a large base in respect to how far the tissue comes out from the chest wall, so they almost always have both wide roots and tall roots. Tall roots are where some of your tissue trails up from the main section of the breast and comes very close to the collarbones.
Is the Charlotte the 6901? (this one)
> will i go crazy from having to constantly wear a sports bra for seven days straight?
If you've never worn one before, yeah. Before the end of day 1.
There are a couple types of sports bras: compression, encapsulation and both. Compression sample
Encapsulation sporting bras look like regular bras: cup for each breast. Sample
A combination sporting bra has separate cups for each breast and an adjustable panel that holds them secure. Sample.
http://www.rei.com/learn/expert-advice/sports-bras.html
> Keep in mind that i just have a very small bit of breast growth, but the whole nipple situation is a problem that needs to be hidden.
A t-shirt underneath a button down shirt works for me. Keep both dark colors so the areola doesn't show through. A single t-shirt works if the material is opaque and thick. I think the compression ones may suffice, but be aware that the band sizes for compression ones may not come in your size, they seem to stop around 38-ish and some brands stop at much smaller band sizes.
I have these and I've never had a problem, though I generally use rubber bands or a bit of string in a pinch. I've never had the clips break (though I HAVE lost a few rubber bands) - just remember to loosen the straps before using anything to relieve some of the tension.
I feel the same way as you. In asking about this I found that them being erect in some people's mind relates to sexual excitement equal to an erect penis. I have put silicone self adhesive stickies over them when I think the might show thruogh my bra and clothes.
https://www.amazon.com/Reusable-Adhesive-Invisible-Silicone-Concealers/dp/B071JXWRT4/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?keywords=nipple+covers&qid=1563732890&s=gateway&sr=8-7
That is a interesting question... I think there's places like this like.... this.
Bra band extenders are my best friend! (like these)
I'm at the beginning of my 3rd trimester, and I've still been able to get away with wearing most of my regular bras with extenders. This way I can make them looser or tighter as needed. I can tell that sometime soon this hack won't cut it any more, but so far it's worked for me.
These are great. I got a name brand version for closer to $20, but in retrospect I think they're probably exactly the same as the less expensive ones. They last for years, cover the nips even when it gets cold, and are super comfy! For me, band-aids always hurt too much to take off, and these peel off really easily.
http://www.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Charlotte-Padded/dp/B00HJT5KN2
the tube gripper that goes around the top to hold the bitches down.
Like this
I know nothing of that particular one but that is the boob holder down thing that is supposed to work very well.
I’m 23+4 and have quite the bump. I’m still in my pre-pregnancy underwear (the seamless 5 for $20 Target undies mentioned above, and I can second that suggestion), but from pretty early on I bought and started to use bra strap extenders, and I cannot recommend them enough!! I got a multi-pack on Amazon, and I use them literally every day. My boobs have gotten bigger but I feel like I’m not spilling out of the cups of my normal bras, and it’s just as much my rib cage area has expanded (I was a 28-30 band size before, have always been narrow in that area), and I hate the feeling of being squeezed. I have a particular bra style I like and didn’t want to buy all new bras not knowing how big I’d end up. I do plan to get nursing bras when the time comes, but who knows what size I’ll want at that point. So the bra strap extenders have been legit game changers. They’re up there with maternity leggings as one of the best purchases I’ve made in terms of maternity clothing. I’ll find a link and add it when I have a minute!
ETA link: The best $8 I’ve spent in a while!
I'm a dude, but for some reason this popped on my Amazon recommendations just now. Maybe this could work for you?
https://www.amazon.com/Buband-No-Bounce-High-Impact-Sports-Support/dp/B0167BH2ZG
If you're going to try taping, here's a video guide that has been passed around a few times here.
To note, use medical tape/adhesive/gaffer's tape, NOT DUCT TAPE. Also, cover your nipples with pasties, band aids, or cotton pads, or something before you start.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYAjych0LoQ
Additionally, you can try breast lift tape, a couple companies make it, here's a link to one.
I get nipple covers from amazon
4 Pairs Pasties Womens Reusable Adhesive Nipple Covers Invisible Round Silicone Cover Concealers Breast Pads Gel Petals Pasties Bra Pad (2 Pairs Round+2 Pairs Flower) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071JXWRT4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_cpezCbJT43XVV
Where is your dress from? I love it
Here is what I use for face masks... or other clothing I need to not move: http://www.amazon.com/Hollywood-Fashion-Secrets-Double-Strips/dp/B000YOSI6U/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1415205097&sr=8-1&keywords=hollywood+fashion+tape
I actually bought it in line at Old Navy, but you can purchase on Amazon or a multitude of other places online! :)
Sorry, my pics are messy and unorganized! Here's the Natori Feathers:
https://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8
It's the one in the middle in this pic:
http://i.imgur.com/kF8JALZ.jpg
btw, that link 404's, here is a correct link: http://www.amazon.com/Sakkas-BS0210PL-Seamless-Stretch-Panties/dp/B00C11AS9O
Agree with Amazon - for example this bra and these panties have prime shipping available AND free returns if they don't fit her well or she doesn't like them.
Also agree that if you can find the matching panties for her current bras, you'd still be doing very well by her. :)
http://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK
Do you think that a racerback converter might help?
Have you tried Curvy Kate? Their padded styles - like the Daily Boost/Daily Dream and Arizona - tend to run wide and shallow in the DD end of the spectrum, and the brand in general gives good shape and lift. The bands are a bit inconsistent, but the rule seems to be the darker the color the tighter the band.
As for half cups, try the Cleo Juna - it also runs a bit wide and shallow, and according to Bratabase gives great cleavage in your size range. Also the Curvy Kate Ritzy.
Edit: Forgot the Parfait Charlotte, one of the most famous/infamous wide, shallow bras with va-va-voom. The band runs snug, so this could be a great fit for you.
I will second the suggestion of Decent Exposures, but she may also like something like this--there are lots of variations of this type of bra on the market.
Going braless is fine, but bras are often vilified in this subreddit, mostly only because they don't fit well. It's not the poster's fault or the bra's fault, but it's not right to do that, and I can't just stand by when it's happening.
30C is designed for the same breast volume as 32B, but it has a tighter band, not surprised it feels tight. It could be that you need very shallow 30Ds with wide wires and not a lot of forward projection - shallow breasts sometimes also need a bigger size than measurements predict. "D cup" isn't huge. Here's a well fitting shallow 30D. And here's another.
Your description of cup fit sounds like too narrow wires preventing all of your breast tissue getting into the cups. It's a bit like a party hat sitting on your head, it is to small, but it's empty because your head doesn't fit in it. The cup isn't too big, it's wrongly shaped, too narrow and too forward projecting.
A good thing about brands with a big size range is a lot of their straps tend to be fully adjustable.
Natori Feathers Contour Plunge is considered one of the comfiest bras out there. Calvin Klein Customized Lift demis are liked by many. Aerie bras by and large are great - you could try a 32C on tightest hooks in store and if it works order 30D online, I don't think they stock 30 bands in stores.
I finally got to try on my dress in December and to my surprise I didn't need a bra! It already has padded cups built in so when my dress is altered to fit around the shoulders/back it should be perfect! I am looking into different taping methods in case I want to give a little extra lift or cleavage (something like this perhaps http://www.amazon.com/Hollywood-Fashion-Secrets-Breast-Lift/dp/B005WJQUJ4 ).
I was really surprised being a 30/32 DD/E that I won't need to wear a proper bra, I still need to get my head around the idea haha, I haven't left the house without a bra in atleast 15 years! My only worry now is if the dress shifts or my boobs shift out of the cups, i dont want to have to readjust myself constantly. But I'm sure once the alterations are complete my worries will fade =)
Sakkas BS0210PL Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts - Assorted Color 6 Pack - Solid - One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C11AS9O/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_A66iwbTNG8JAF
If you need a video on how to tuck (NSFW) go to vimeo and search there. There is one video on there that really helped me.
-edit- here is the video https://vimeo.com/95701148
It sounds like your fitter found you the right cup volume, which is awesome! The looseness at the top could just be a shape issue; most VS bras are molded cups, which cannot conform to the shape of your breasts and may be more difficult to fit absolutely perfectly. Molded cups are the least likely to show under shirts, though, and so are very useful.
If you find that you would like more support from your bras, especially as the bands stretch out over time, you could use a rixie clip to tighten the bands or sister size down to a 34DD in the future. I do recommend double checking by taking your measurements, but it sounds like you're doing pretty well =]
Way to necro, also there is! It's called a sports bra and there's also some support items like this one.
Non-mobile: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000YOSI6U/ref=redir_mdp_mobile/191-8205608-4771065?fp=1&pc_redir=1427576748#
^That's ^why ^I'm ^here, ^I ^don't ^judge ^you. ^PM ^/u/xl0 ^if ^I'm ^causing ^any ^trouble. ^WUT?
i would recommend the sticky bra, but if you want something cheaper, i would also look for one of these
Thank you. After reading all the sites, I've decided on Cleo Lucy. It should fit me better since I'm FoB.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0096R11TW/ref=s9_hps_bw_g193_ir02?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=merchandised-search-9&pf_rd_r=18AA09P28FNR294X8C20&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=1865589702&pf_rd_i=2587384011
> how did you overcome feeling a host of negative emotions if and when you started presenting privately
For me the negative emotions were from two sources:
(1) Frustration from my masculine features conflicting with feminine clothes.
This is hard, especially if you don't want to go full bore HRT. It tends to vary over time, though, so if presenting femme is not working, maybe don't force it? Do it when it makes you feel good.
I found that moving to androgynous clothes helped. One of the first things I did was order these:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00C11AS9O/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Wearing something more colorful and feminine under my clothes helped. Those are also good for tucking, should you choose to do that. I also switched to skinny jeans, because they felt more feminine, but no one was the wiser.
Also, don't worry if your early experimentation with things like makeup are atrocious, because you will improve.
(2) Shame at being transgender. We all have it to one extent or another, because that's what we've been taught by the culture around us.
That one's hard to stamp out, and it takes time. What helped the most was going to a good support group with lots (40+) other trans people (both men, women, and some nb people). When you hear people from all walks of life talking about the same things you feel, it kind of cements the fact that you were born this way and that there is nothing wrong with it. Meeting trans men helped me extinguish any feelings of it being some kind of fetish and embrace the idea that some peoples brains don't match up with their genitals.
> Do you also have experience with low level HRT?
I don't. I started transition at 44, and found I was eager to make up for lost time.
Amazon. :)
Congrats on your weight loss! :) Just off the top of my head, I'm thinking the Natori Feathers in a 30DDD might be a good choice to try. Plus free shipping & returns, yay! http://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8