(Part 3) Top products from r/ABDL

I have much to say about this.

First off, I've written two published novels about age play/adult babies, "Auntie Eva's Boarder" - http://www.amazon.com/Auntie-Evas-Boarder-Mako-Allen/dp/1847285554/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1391011865&sr=1-1

and "Concerning Littleton"
http://bit.ly/concerninglittleton

(Concerning Littleton is my new one, just out)

I've been an author for a long time, and when I first got started, had that very same problem you did, about a story starting out strong, and then just folding it on itself.

My advice to you is twofold:

• 1. READ
     
• 2. WRITE
     
     That sounds simplistic, and in a way it is. But it's good advice.
     
     Reading....
     Mark Twain said that a good writer writes what he knows. So you read, and read a LOT, to learn about how other writers express themselves, to see their voice. Every writer has stuff they rock at. Some are great at dialogue, others at narration, others at physical description, setting, and character. Don't just read adult baby stories, either. Read EVERYTHING. Fiction, non-fiction, sci-fi, fantasy, biographies. Read anything and everything.
     
     Do yourself a favor and read the following books:
     
• Stephen King's On Writing
  
• Natalie Goldberg's Writing Down the Bones
  
  Get yourself a copy of The Elements of Style. Good grammar, spelling, and style are ESSENTIAL.
  
  Writing....
  The fantasy author Piers Anthony had the greatest advice about breaking writer's block I've ever heard. Ignore it. Force yourself to write. It can be a little every day, or a set number of hours per week, or number of words, whatever. Just do it. You sit down, and get writing. Even if what comes out of you is AWFUL, you get yourself in the practice of writing. It's like a workout for your brain. You can always edit your stuff later. In fact, you will.
  
  The sad, awful, terrible truth is that writing is not writing. Editing and rewriting are writing. You will go back and whittle and sand and polish your stuff until it's perfect. And it never will be.
  
  Some key basics of good writing.
  
  

1. Show, don't tell.
   Example, telling (BAD): "Nancy loved when Ted wore diapers. She wanted to be his mommy."
   Example, showing (GOOD): "Nancy cradled Ted in her arms, rubbing her hand over his diaper. She smiled at him. 'Call me Mommy again, Teddy.' "
   
   
2. Less is more. We don't need to know the character's last name, job, age, all spelled out to us. If a detail is important, show it organically in the story.
   
   
3. Erotic elements are important, but the story isn't a life support system for them. Make the characters real, make them relatable to the reader.
   
   
4. Know what it is you want to say. What's the underlying theme or idea for your story? All good fiction has at its heart a CONFLICT, which the story shows as it resolves. Often my fiction is about what happens to kinky people as they learn to accept themselves, or express themselves well to others.
   
   
5. Know your mechanics. Good spelling, good grammar aren't an option. They are the building blocks of your writing.
   
   
6. Keep at it. The more you do it, the better you'll get.
   
   Thanks
   --mako

Tena ultra stretch. To me it is the best fitting and most comfortable diaper for the price. Sorry they are purple though. The super strech are green, thicker, and more costly (Around that dollar per price). But the Ultras are great and just as good as most dollar per diapers.

FYI, they are cloth like backing with on big strechy tape. It works really well and can be adjust dozens of times before it wears out. The cloth backing is great for extended wear because they breath very well without suffering from leaks (probably not s problem for you).

May I make the radical suggestion of learning to sew yourself?

There are classes, and once you have a sewing machine, it's relatively easy to start to make things from patterns - maybe try somthing simple first, and then move onto editing or even making your own patterns from clothing scaled up or down in the right places (I'm currently doing this with a project, and it's relatively easy using deconstructed clothing [a footed sleeper in my case] as a good starting point.

If you need more information on this kind of subject, books such as the Readers Digest guide to Sewing ( http://www.amazon.co.uk/Readers-Digest-Complete-Guide-Sewing/dp/0276446410/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1325004944&sr=1-1 ) or the Vogue sewing guide ( http://www.amazon.co.uk/Vogue-Sewing-revised-updated/dp/1933027002/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1325004950&sr=1-1 ) tend to be fantastic (I own older editions of both of these books, and they are well worth getting!).

Other than that, I'm sure that some of the shops like Privatina may well be able to help you if you send them an email...

I'm so happy for you! Coloring is like my favorite little activity. I'm really glad you're finally able to indulge your little side. Your posts are always super cute. You should give one of these a try! They're really big and fun to color.

Thrustmaster T-Flight is $35 on Amazon at the moment. That's the cheapest you'll ever find one. It's a basic unit but for the price, it's excellent (I've been using mine for a few months now) considering everything else starts at three figures.

I'm told it's absolutely unreal on the Oculus but I don't have one to confirm... Apparently the only real problem is the low resolution of the Oculus makes the UI a bit hard to read.

It's an amazing game, though. So much fun if you like that kind of thing.


[edit] Huh, well it's $41 now. It was $35 yesterday. I guess that was a Cyber Monday thing.

http://www.amazon.com/Thrustmaster-T-Flight-Hotas-Flight-Playstation-3/dp/B001CXYMFS

You want to use duck tape to solve that problem. It won't look as cute as just wearing the diaper, but the right duck tape is the solution.

When I say "right duck tape" I don't just mean the kind that you pick up from the store. You want something that will be sticky and adhere to the material (whether cloth backed or plastic) so that it won't come loose.

I suggest this: https://www.amazon.com/Scotch-Tough-Transparent-Duct-Tape/dp/B0000DH8I8

Get the transparent kind, not any other kind. The material is light, and the adhesive is the best for either cloth or plastic. I found these back when ABU tapes were kind in need of a bit of help to stay affixed. This is what I used for that purpose.

Use the tape to just replace the taps. Fold the diaper wings in, and tape it as if the duck tape were the tapes that came with the original diaper. I know this works because I've done it.

I don't suggest any of these:

1. https://www.amazon.com/Gorilla-Clear-Repair-Duct-Tape/dp/B00EUGCT22/ref=pd_lpo_vtph_60_bs_t_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY (bad because of the tape material and failure to adhere to cloth, but improper adherence to plastic)
   
2. https://www.amazon.com/Gorilla-6003001-Tough-2-88-Inch-30-Yards/dp/B003KTLRUA/ref=pd_lpo_vtph_60_tr_t_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY (too thick, feels awkward while wearing)
   
3. https://www.amazon.com/Duck-240867-Strength-Inches-Single/dp/B00LT1NAHY/ref=pd_lpo_vtph_60_lp_t_4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY (material does not hold well, and adhesive is generally garbage)
   
4. https://www.amazon.com/Black-Gorilla-Tape-1-88-Roll/dp/B000CSS8UE/ref=pd_bxgy_60_img_3?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B000CSS8UE&pd_rd_r=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY&pd_rd_w=xGgRa&pd_rd_wg=1ByEk&psc=1&refRID=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY (this would be good for something like repairing a tarp, but other than that, this stuff is just too sticky to reasonably work with)
   
5. https://www.amazon.com/XFasten-Transparent-Filament-Inches-Yards/dp/B01F2VA150/ref=pd_sim_60_6?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01F2VA150&pd_rd_r=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY&pd_rd_w=ZEkgp&pd_rd_wg=1ByEk&psc=1&refRID=ZAK235JY3Q53R18907MY (absolute shit material)

The ConfiDry24/7s are nice: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00MAPOP5E/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&th=1

I also like the Molicares: https://www.amazon.com/Molicare-Super-Plus-Briefs-Size-Large/dp/B000FBTLZ4/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1479006287&sr=1-1

These Tenas are my third choice: https://www.amazon.com/Tena-Super-Fitted-Briefs-Large/dp/B000FBXFN8/ref=sr_1_9_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1479006350&sr=1-9

Bambino also sells on Amazon (not Prime, though).

I have several of these and they work great. You can get them cheaper at walmart, target, or dollar general.

I really like Nuby Sports Sippers see Amazon link as they're real bottles for toddlers but an adult can suckle from them at a decent rate as they have a faster flow than regular baby bottles. They've been my go-to bottles for years.

Alternatively, if you're into animal play or just want a huge ass bottle, you could always go with calf feeding bottles. They have a rougher nipple texture, but you're not likely to find bigger bottles.

I think the cheapest that are OK with absorbancy is attends. When I used them, I thought 'I can see why an inconti person would use these."


http://www.amazon.com/Attends-Extra-Absorbent-Breathable-Briefs/dp/B001AQIDE8/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1395319113&sr=8-2&keywords=attends

This women's anti perspirant smells like baby powder. Spray it in your room like an aerosol.

http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Antiperspirant-Deodorant-Spray-Powder/dp/B000052X7U

I did find this watch that you might like for potty training https://www.amazon.com/Potty-Time-Watch-Blue/dp/B001AH8JNC/ref=sr_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1538244632&sr=8-3&keywords=potty+training+watch

Sorry to hear about your loss. You might want to consider reading something like Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late. It helped me get my wife back even though we were separated.

https://www.amazon.com/Under-Disguise-Hooded-Unicorn-Pajama/dp/B08194CSK7?ref_=ast_bbp_dp&th=1&psc=1

This one: https://www.amazon.com/Bye-Bye-Diapers-Muppet-Babies-Steps/dp/030712326X

http://amzn.com/B000FCJU8G

http://www.amazon.com/Age-Play-Diaper-Fetish-Handbook/dp/1257061046

also:
http://www.amazon.com/Theres-baby-bed-Learning-relationship/dp/1610983068/
http://www.amazon.com/Ageplay-Diapers-Diplomas-Paul-Rulof/dp/1610981901/

I'm with this guy, just get a basic saline enema from any drug or grocery store.
If you're shy about buying in person order one on amazon, It's $1.89.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0014CXESI/ref=twister_B07DFVR1QN?th=1