Top products from r/AgingParents
We found 18 product mentions on r/AgingParents. We ranked the 12 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
1. Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 2
2. Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Great product!
3. Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
In Being Mortal, bestselling author Atul Gawande tackles the hardest challenge of his profession: how medicine can not only improve life but also the process of its ending
4. Being Mortal Illness, Medicine and What Matters in the End
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 1
5. Aging with Care: Your Guide to Hiring and Managing Caregivers at Home
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
6. Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
science and humanism instead of religious faith
7. Drive Medical 3 Position Geri Chair Recliner, Blue Ridge
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 1
Large, blow-molded tray locks in 5 positions and can be stored on the side of the chair5" casters (2 with locks) make it easy-to-move and secure the reclinerWide, comfortable armrests are angled to provide support in any reclined positionNeutral-colored, sturdy steel frame is easy-to-clean and maint...
8. Ravensburger Sunlit Shores Large Format 300 Piece Jigsaw Puzzle for Adults – Every Piece is Unique, Softclick Technology Means Pieces Fit Together Perfectly
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Bestselling puzzle brand worldwide - With over 1 billion puzzles sold, Ravensburger is the bestselling puzzle brand worldwideHigh quality components – Ravensburger’s jigsaw puzzles for adults are crafted with premium quality, in terms of both content and material, and are virtually dust freeAnti...
9. NYOrtho Geri-Chair Comfort Seat Cushion: Navy Taslon Water-Resistant 72"L x 18"W
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 1
USE: NYOrtho Geri-Chair Comfort Seats are designed for use with positioning belts for the geriatric chair, positional recliner or chair for the elderly. Ample foam padding provides comfortable seating and covers metal chair components for sensitive skin protection.FABRIC: Offered in four fabric opti...
10. ASUS CHROMEBOX-M004U Desktop
Sentiment score: 0
Number of reviews: 1
ASUS Chromebox is the world’s smallest Chrome device, measuring just 4.9" L x 4.9"W x 1.65"H.1.4 GHz Intel Celeron 2955U Processor2GB DDR3 RAM, 16 GB SSD HDDIntel HD graphicsGoogle Chrome OSMax Memory: 4 GB1.4 GHz Intel Celeron 2955U Processor2GB DDR3 RAM, 16 GB SSD HDDIntel HD graphicsGoogle Chro...
11. Avantree HT3189 Wireless Headphones for TV Watching w/Bluetooth Transmitter, Support RCA, AUX 3.5mm Audio Out, NOT for New TV with ONLY Digital/Optical Out, 40 Hrs Playtime, 100ft Range
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
[Important Notice] Supports: 1) RCA Red / White Audio OUT (if not marked “Audio Out”, it is most likely Audio In which is NOT compatible) , 2) AUX / 3.5mm, 3) USB audio out. Does NOT support Optical / Digital Out. *Please check your TV before purchase.[ Plug and Play ] Simply turn on the Bluetoo...
12. [Upgraded to 6700mAh] Anker Astro E1 Candy-Bar Sized Ultra Compact Portable Charger, External Battery Power Bank, with High-Speed Charging PowerIQ Technology (Renewed)
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
The Anker Advantage: Join the 20 million+ powered by our leading technology.Exclusive PowerIQ Technology: Detects your device to deliver its fastest possible charge speed up to 2 amps. Does not support Qualcomm Quick Charge.Upgraded Capacity: Add over two full charges to an iPhone 8 or 1.5 full char...
As we get older, we have more life experience. More life experience means we understand the laws that govern this life. One law is that we all pass.
"Everything comes to pass. Nothing comes to stay." ~Matthew Flickstein
There are no guarantees in life. Except one.
Act with integrity and no one can take it from you.
I've recently gone through a tumultuous time. I am the point person for my 82 year old mom and disabled sister - they don't need my direct care, but they don't drive, and need help with dr. appts, budget, etc.
As difficult as it can be, and it will go on for years to come, I have my integrity. My actions and speech are true, kind and good to the best of my ability.
We choose how to view life. We can choose to be the cello player in the midst of the rubble. Or, we can join the masses of "no one can help me, and I can't help myself."
We are responsible for our own minds. We have to care for them like we do the body. Right diet and exercise help the body function right, and right input into the mind as well as right mental activity are our responsibility as well.
We don't deny our negativity. We accept it, "Yes, this too." And, we choose where we dwell in our minds.
Tara Brach has a book, Radical Acceptance, that might help.
Atul Gawande's Being Mortal might help.
Sam Harris Waking Up: Spirituality without Religion is good.
You can change. There is no such thing as a normal young adult. It could be you are comparing to what advertising portrays as "normal." Be careful of comparing to what the advertising man tells us is normal. Visit a third world country and look at people your age and add that to the mix of "normal."
You can change.
I find the generation over 65 to be a bit ignorant in general. Also, as people age their minds become less flexible. You were seeing people, your grandparents perhaps, who were in cognitive decline and not able to change nor wanted to change anymore.
Just as you are different now than you were 4 years ago, you will be that much different in 4 years.
More power to you.
All of this sounds promising. Your family's approach to his care is definitely a factor, and while it's incredibly frustrating for you, my main concern is that you don't internalize and repeat the behavior. There are better approaches that can improve quality of life, but if your parents aren't seeking them out (or worse, pretending the problem doesn't exist), then there isn't that much you can do. Please don't see this as a window into your future. There is a certain amount of autonomy into your trajectory through life; hold onto it and learn from other's mistakes. I'm sorry about the decisions your dad is making; you could try to talk to him about the effect it has on you.
A few comments:
Check out geri-chairs. They're like recliners on wheels, so that you can wheel your grandfather around and he can be in the room with you guys: https://www.amazon.com/Drive-Medical-Position-Chair-Recliner/dp/B002VWK2EE/. They also sell additional comfort cushions for extra support: https://www.amazon.com/Geri-Chair-Comfort-Seat-Cushion-Color/dp/B005DLJBK6/. I could understand why he wouldn't want to be alone in his room especially if he was refusing all forms of entertainment (music/tv/movies/podcasts/books on tap/etc).
I think there are quite a few potential paths forward - hopefully we find one that makes things easier for you.
I got this one and love it, charge holds well over time, plug and play, charges my mid-range phone almost 2 times over, plug & play couldn't be simpler (sorry for link size):
https://www.amazon.com/Upgraded-Anker-Candy-Bar-High-Speed-Technology/dp/B07TVYQFVX/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?keywords=%5BUpgraded+to+6700mAh%5D+Anker+Astro+E1+Candy-Bar+Sized+Ultra+Compact
New York Times recommendation site Wirecutter has their rundown here, or you can fish around on the site for external battery packs:
https://thewirecutter.com/reviews/best-usb-battery-packs/
I got my charger before I saw this, but am still happy, and saved a few bucks.
Make sure her phone uses standard USB micro port to charge, or be willing to fiddle with what wires work.
mAh = amount of "juice" the battery holds and can deliver; higher # = greater capacity.
It's not a "job," but a way to keep her involved.
I second a soft blanket from home, it makes such a difference. Flowers or a plant would be nice if there is a shelf for them. When my mom was recovering in a nursing facility we got her wireless headphones for watching tv. They are pricey so it really depends on how long she may be there and if they will be worth it: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072V3478X/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
It they're thinking of aging in place and need care,
https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Care-Hiring-Managing-Caregivers/dp/1442281634/ref=sr_1_1?crid=23ZW8URTW2D7P&keywords=aging+with+care+your+guide+to+hiring+and+managing+caregivers+at+home&qid=1566062980&s=gateway&sprefix=aging+with+care%2Caps%2C197&sr=8-1
I enjoyed Being Mortal, by Atul Gawande. My local library had it.