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if you use one of the metal ones like I have:

https://www.amazon.com/Master-Captus-Stainless-Locking-Chastity/dp/B00DE5HEH0/

https://www.amazon.com/Raycity-Male-Chastity-Cage-Device/dp/B01FFAEMEE/

then you can touch/play with him in it and he gets to feel everything but can't get hard, because the holes are so large it really maximizes the feeling he will get in it. when I have mine on and my wife starts playing with me the feeling is incredible. Very intense and focused, I really love it.

Bonus: with one of this style he can pee a lot easier and cleaning is super easy as well.

We bought this one on Amazon a while back and it's perfect. It has a great weight to it, like it doesn't feel cheap or heavy. It has the perfect amount of thud and sting to it. I'd give it 5 stars and buy the same one if something happened to it.

Heart 2 Heart Whip Leather Strap, Black, 20" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0026P3KDG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_4nnQDbCKJFX4F

1. This is the one we got after initially using a cheaper one. I would really, really, really recommend not getting a cheaper one like you linked. The more expensive one is 100% worth the money. It's a ton of fun and very reliable. Cheaper collars turn off automatically after a bit, which defeats the instant correction idea. The pain is also much less consistent and starts higher than I am personally comfortable with as a minimum. The one I linked, you can't even feel it until 8 or so (but you can DEFINITELY feel the higher numbers!) so you can really fine tune exactly what you want your sub to feel.
   
   
2. I had my sub wear it with his holy trainer and it was too much bulk around his junk to go about his day. But if it was around the thigh that'd work.
   
   
3. I talked about my own a bit in 1, but I love it! He's an obedient boy but he immediately steps into line when that collar comes on. We've also had some fun games with it too.
   
   
4. Don't let it near the heart. I have read mixed things about the neck, so maybe err on the side of caution for that.
   
   
5. You could have "vibrate" mean "come here". I played a game with my pet to test his tolerance of the higher levels... he laid on his back in bed with a hitachi sleeve around his cock, and the shock collar around his cock and balls. We have a dimmer switch for the hitachi, so can adjust the intensity of the vibrations. He LOVES when I sit on his face so he can lick my ass, so that's where I went. I started him off with some low level shocks, brought the vibrations up a bit, and let him lick my ass. Then I'd raise myself up and lower the vibrations and wait for him to say "More please, Miss!!". Then I sit back down, turn up the vibes, and increase the shock collar a level. I'd shock him intermittently, and a bit heavier when it looked like he was close to cumming. Basically repeat until I let him cum or he won't ask for more (that never happened, but we also have only gotten into the 20s).

Here you are

Love the idea. Good luck!

Bought it through Amazon from a Chinese manufacturer. May have been a knockoff. I'm pretty sure it's a design flaw so a replacement ring would not have lasted much longer. All the strain between the ring and the cage goes through the tab which has a notch cut out for holding all the pieces in place. The resin simply doesn't have the strength.

https://www.amazon.com/Biosourced-Standard-Chastity-Devices-T-Shirt/dp/B07PLVFJHD

EDIT: Obviously not the same device, but it has the same two part cage design which I liked. If I was going to spend the money, I would definitely consider Evotion.

Sharyn Ferns is a dominant woman who runs the blog Domme Chronicles; she's also written a book called "Domme Chronicles: Erotic tales of love, passion, & domination", which I found particularly refreshing because it was written from the dominant woman's perspective.

Here are a couple books I recommend:

http://www.amazon.com/The-Mistress-Manual-Female-Dominance/dp/1890159190/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1372375981&sr=8-1&keywords=the+mistress+manual

http://www.amazon.com/The-Art-Sensual-Female-Dominance/dp/0806520892/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1372375995&sr=8-3&keywords=the+mistress+manual

http://www.amazon.com/New-Topping-Book-Dossie-Easton/dp/B001TJV5DW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1372376019&sr=1-1&keywords=topping+book

Last, my favorite introductory resource to BDSM: http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1372376048&sr=1-1&keywords=sm+101

I used a condom which smoothes it out. The fact that its a straight solid phallus helps apply pressure right where you want it. However i have experience with larger toys as well which helps so that i can comfortably accomodate it. For more amature milkers i suggest the clear acrylic handle of the plungers sold at ace hardware. I know that sounds odd but its long enough and stiff enough to easily manipulate it and put pressure right on the prostate and it has a rounded tip.
http://www.amazon.com/MINTCRAFT-Toilet-Plunger-Handle-6-Inch/dp/B003484KU6

Choice one:

http://www.amazon.com/Male-Silicone-Chastity-Device-Transparent/dp/B00CMXT3VK

Choice Two:

http://www.amazon.com/Sexysamba-Adjustable-Stainless-Chastity-Devices/dp/B00OKI7DOE/ref=pd_sim_121_3?ie=UTF8&dpID=51NzCyW576L&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL160_SR150%2C160_&refRID=0R8AM4EKTQ16CEWMJQ1Z

I personally prefer metal. Silicone is very flexible and sometimes getting it connected when its bending all over the place is difficult. If you do go with silicone make sure it is linked both top and bottom.

Silicone is decidedly better for incognito. The metal ones are still pretty hard to notice, but you will be more self aware of the unforgiving bulge in your pants.

I avoid the plastic ones like the CB series, I've had them just split apart at the seem on me.

As for activities. I have run on a treadmill in one, it was possible, but you wont forget you have it on.

I current own this one - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001QKF56C/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 . It's decent and only $17. Definitely a good starter/intermediate piece for trying this type of toy.

Kitchen Safe: Time Locking Container (White Lid + Clear Base) - 5.5" Height https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E9J3MLM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_FCp2Ab6BDTBBF

Easy enough to do Amazon

Not sure why someone downvoted this -- humblers are pretty fun....

for the uninitiated: https://www.amazon.com/Master-Extreme-Enforcer-Humbler-Restraints/dp/B06WP79QJH

amazon actually. it's bree olsons here's the link to the one i got http://www.amazon.com/Bree-Olson-Strap-Harness-Dong/dp/B00GIXD6DG/ref=sr_1_6_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1459178753&sr=1-6&keywords=bree+olson+strap+on

Personal recommendation this as a better lubricant: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003Y0PVG6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_McPACbGS72NGR

It’s a ball gag with dong, or slang would be a dildo gag.

I got mine on Amazon for under $20

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B001QKF56C?psc=1&ref=yo_pop_mb_yo_pop_mb_pd_t2