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u/IsaGuz · 2 pointsr/RedPillWomen

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There's a wonderful text about that in the book about introverts... “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking”.

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https://www.amazon.es/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0141029196/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1536191453&sr=8-1&keywords=power+of+introverts


The problem with feminine strength is that it's gained with time and confidence. It's twice as hard to be strong and soft as it is to be strong and crass. Let me find this excerpt. It's a bit long, but I think it gets it.

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This is one I loved, I think it might help. It's about introverts, but can apply to your case (I think):


“My very first client was a young woman named Laura. She was a Wall Street lawyer, but a quiet and daydreamy one who dreaded the spotlight and disliked aggression. She had managed somehow to make it through the crucible of Harvard Law School—a place where classes are conducted in huge, gladiatorial amphitheaters, and where she once got so nervous that she threw up on the way to class. Now that she was in the real world, she wasn’t sure she could represent her clients as forcefully as they expected.

For the first three years on the job, Laura was so junior that she never had to test this premise. But one day the senior lawyer she’d been working with went on vacation, leaving her in charge of an important negotiation. The client was a South American manufacturing company that was about to default on a bank loan and hoped to renegotiate its terms; a syndicate of bankers that owned the endangered loan sat on the other side of the negotiating table.

Laura would have preferred to hide under said table, but she was accustomed to fighting such impulses. Gamely but nervously, she took her spot in the lead chair, flanked by her clients: general counsel on one side and senior financial officer on the other. These happened to be Laura’s favorite clients: gracious and soft-spoken, very different from the master-of-the-universe types her firm usually represented. In the past, Laura had taken the general counsel to a Yankees game and the financial officer shopping for a handbag for her sister. But now these cozy outings—just the kind of socializing Laura enjoyed—seemed a world away. Across the table sat nine disgruntled investment bankers in tailored suits and expensive shoes, accompanied by their lawyer, a square-jawed woman with a hearty manner. Clearly not the self-doubting type, this woman launched into an impressive speech on how Laura’s clients would be lucky simply to accept the bankers’ terms. It was, she said, a very magnanimous offer.

Everyone waited for Laura to reply, but she couldn’t think of anything to say. So she just sat there. Blinking. All eyes on her. Her clients shifting uneasily in their seats. Her thoughts running in a familiar loop: I’m too quiet for this kind of thing, too unassuming, too cerebral. She imagined the person who would be better equipped to save the day: someone bold, smooth, ready to pound the table. In middle school this person, unlike Laura, would have been called “outgoing,” the highest accolade her seventh-grade classmates knew, higher even than “pretty,” for a girl, or “athletic,” for a guy. Laura promised herself that she only had to make it through the day. Tomorrow she would go look for another career.

Then she remembered what I’d told her again and again: she was an introvert, and as such she had unique powers in negotiation—perhaps less obvious but no less formidable. She’d probably prepared more than everyone else. She had a quiet but firm speaking style. She rarely spoke without thinking. Being mild-mannered, she could take strong, even aggressive, positions while coming across as perfectly reasonable. And she tended to ask questions—lots of them—and actually listen to the answers, which, no matter what your personality, is crucial to strong negotiation.

So Laura finally started doing what came naturally.

“Let’s go back a step. What are your numbers based on?” she asked.

“What if we structured the loan this way, do you think it might work?”

“That way?”

“Some other way?”

At first her questions were tentative. She picked up steam as she went along, posing them more forcefully and making it clear that she’d done her homework and wouldn’t concede the facts. But she also stayed true to her own style, never raising her voice or losing her decorum. Every time the bankers made an assertion that seemed unbudgeable, Laura tried to be constructive. “Are you saying that’s the only way to go? What if we took a different approach?”

Eventually her simple queries shifted the mood in the room, just as the negotiation textbooks say they will. The bankers stopped speechifying and dominance-posing, activities for which Laura felt hopelessly ill-equipped, and they started having an actual conversation.

More discussion. Still no agreement. One of the bankers revved up again, throwing his papers down and storming out of the room. Laura ignored this display, mostly because she didn’t know what else to do. Later on someone told her that at that pivotal moment she’d played a good game of something called “negotiation jujitsu”; but she knew that she was just doing what you learn to do naturally as a quiet person in a loudmouth world.

Finally the two sides struck a deal. The bankers left the building, Laura’s favorite clients headed for the airport, and Laura went home, curled up with a book, and tried to forget the day’s tensions.

But the next morning, the lead lawyer for the bankers—the vigorous woman with the strong jaw—called to offer her a job. “I’ve never seen anyone so nice and so tough at the same time,” she said. And the day after that, the lead banker called Laura, asking if her law firm would represent his company in the future. “We need someone who can help us put deals together without letting ego get in the way,” he said.”

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The problem with trying to be feminine strong is that you have to be really superior. You cannot blow past your way with threats, screaming or banging the table. You have to know everything better than the others, be really competent. That's why I didn't start to feel safe in my femininity until after my 30s. It takes MUCH more hard work and much more competence to be feminine-strong than to be macho-strong (really masculine strength is not easy either).


Be nice, be relentless, and be better prepared than everyone else in the room. If someone raises their voice, you answer lowering yours (you never tell anyone to calm down UNLESS you want them to get furious). They scream, you speak even louder. You need physical help, you either fetch your pepper spray or call security. But unless whoever's at work lays a hand on you, you are poised, calm, polite and empathetic, just poised, calm, polite and empathetic steel.


u/ALadyLikeMe · 4 pointsr/RedPillWomen

Wow sorry about your loss but congratulations about your inheritance. The thing is, this is a big deal and both of you need to be ready for the internal mental change that needs to come with such a sudden increase in assets. Most people who win the lottery go right back to their original comfort zone because they just didn't know any other way.

You now have enough money to afford a really good financial advisor (and it will be worth paying for a good one). If you and your husband can get on the same page, meaning that neither of you really know how to handle this much money, then you can agree to both out your trust into a third party expert. This person is better equipped to tactfully tell your husband that $2.5 mil cannot simply sit in a savings account, and will give much better advice for how to invest it than you personally could either. And they will know how to honor a pre-nup without making it a trust issue.

You are a team, so don't let money get in between you, and remember that you need to trust your husband to be the captain and to handle big decisions with the finances. This being said, you can make it your mission to help you both get educated about wise ways to invest.

Edit: Also, I highly recommend you both read the book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind and even attend the free Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar. Best thing my SO and I have ever done for our financial success and really helps couples get on the same page. Wish they taught us this stuff (and TRP!) in school instead of all the other BS.

u/ShootingDanks · 3 pointsr/RedPillWomen

We're only going to start trying next year (January-ish), but I'm already preparing.

My diet is extreme, so you can just completely ignore me on that one. I switched from keto to zerocarb/carnivore last year and I intend to stick with it as much as possible. I love it, but it's not for everyone. I might dabble with keto once I'm pregnant, I'll see how I feel.

Exercise is getting the most attention, though. I spoke to my nail technician about pregnancy and labour today while getting my nails done. She's had two kids. She said that having strong abdominal muscles will help me so much. If you've got strong abs, your baby will be held high up, in a tight bundle. Weak abs will allow the belly to sag and hang low and cause more stretch marks.

I found that so interesting. I started pilates today and will be going three times a week. Strengthening your core muscles, including the muscles supporting the spine, will make for a far more comfortable pregnancy and delivery, or so I'm told.

My friend recommended this book to me, as well: https://www.amazon.com/Taking-Charge-Your-Fertility-Anniversary/dp/0062326031

Good luck!

u/margerym · 1 pointr/RedPillWomen

I've been really wanting to read this book with all of the paleo-fantasizing going on these days and now I am moving it to the top of my list. Of course I am going to need to compare it with Sex at Dawn just out of curiosity. Funny enough it was Sex at Dawn that started to sell me on this way of thinking but that's a whole other conversation. What I find interesting about this is that I first read it in a marriage book a few years back that people were panning because it dared to say there was a difference between the sexes. How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It goes into the attachment thing early on. The whole book runs off it.

Anyway, this has me thinking about a lot of stuff this morning. I may be back later with some things but for now I will let them stew. Thanks for linking!

u/[deleted] · 2 pointsr/RedPillWomen

I have a suggestion.

Most men have no clue how female libido works. Because of this, many of us form all kinds of innacurate and counterproductive beliefs about women's sexuality. I know from personal experience that men can believe things like, that women don't want sex, or that if a woman wants a lot of sex it must mean that she is low class, or that she has issues.

It's difficult to let go of these ideas when you are not aware of the reality. Often times you're not even aware of the fact that you believe those things.

From what you're saying, it sounds like your husband is not aware of just how much women love and crave sex. To me, the maddona-whore complex is a case of a man who believes that:

  1. Women don't want sex.
  2. If a woman seeks to have sex, she's doing it for [xyz] reasons.

    So, my suggestion to you is that you speak to your husband honestly, and tell him that you have needs. Tell him that you want him to understand that side of you, and I would personally recommend This book. As a man who was previously ignorant of the topic, it completely changed my perspective on female libido. I'm sure that if your husband is an intelligent, rational man, he will understand your needs after reading it.
u/repressedspinster · 15 pointsr/RedPillWomen

Amazon! I've actually found all kinds of cheap and adorable dresses there like these:

Wrap Dress

Round Neck Dress

Tea Dress

These might be too short for you, but there are also lots of longer versions. I also have found cute dresses at Old Navy. They have some adorable gingham ones now, but I haven't seen any floral versions.

u/Brewingupabrownstorm · 8 pointsr/RedPillWomen

Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover : Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine

https://www.amazon.co.uk/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062506064#byline_secondary_view_div_1540027296351

I found this deeply interesting and useful :)

u/JackGetsIt · 2 pointsr/RedPillWomen

This is a good comment. I would also add that Tim Ferris has a chapter devoted to weightlifting advice for women that's really good.

It's in this book.

https://www.amazon.com/Hour-Body-Uncommon-Incredible-Superhuman/dp/030746363X

Also OP might like this article.

http://bonytobombshell.com/bombshell-aesthetics-building-attractive-female-body-imaginable/

It's important for women to be realistic with the body type they want to achieve.

u/newlyredwife · 3 pointsr/RedPillWomen

Please read Dr. Laura Schlessinger's The Proper Care And Feeding Of Marriage.

http://www.amazon.ca/The-Proper-Care-Feeding-Marriage/dp/0061142824

Many women in your situation have won their husbands back with this book.

u/mydogwillbeinmyheart · 4 pointsr/RedPillWomen

This side of female relationships is really sad.

There's a book, from 1999 I think, that explains some evolutionary and cultural traits that may make women behave the way they do. It is a long ass book, but oh boy, I wish I had read it at 18, or even earlier.

In the Company of Women

The book deals more with a work environment context though. I you want to really get to the bottom of this issue, you might want to google (Female) Intrasexual Competition. I can't link anything since I've had my fair share of bullying and I don't want to cause pain or anxiety to myself.

Hugs from the Internet! I hope you can find genuinely nice ladies out there soon!

u/girlwithabike · 4 pointsr/RedPillWomen

The Case Against Sugar is not a single study but a pretty well researched book that hits on this idea quite a bit. He has another one called "Why We Get Fat" that I have not read but I believe is more of the same.

From a lot of what I've read the science is going more in the direction of what u/alisonrw is saying.

u/CoochQuarantine · 7 pointsr/RedPillWomen

My sister did THIS ONE NOT THE OTHER BOOK I POSTED because she realized that she needed to set limits from when the baby was very very young. All of her kids went through the baby boot camp and now every single night she has alone with her husband. They make time for one another and that is a huge priority to them. I think people go into parenthood blind and wind up feeling overwhelmed because they are tired and running around and in pain (from birth). This is normal but it is so easy to slip into forgetting you also have a partner and friends and family that you just become "mom". He doesn't want to be with "mom" he wants to be with the girl he fell in love with.

So coming from a perspective as someone who is dating, I kept reading horror stories about how single moms have dating profiles that say things like "my kid comes first and if you've got a problem with that keep walking!!!!!". That is such an ugly vibe to give off. Your kids will one day grow up and leave you but your partner is there for life (hopefully). If you don't nurture that relationship for years because of a baby it WILL go to shit and it WILL end. The same is true for if you are with their father. That relationship is so important. Especially for your kid. If you and the father are happy, the baby will be happy.

edit: changed the book. I had it wrong. :)

u/MadSparty · 3 pointsr/RedPillWomen

12 Rules For Life: An Antidote to Chaos

If you like fiction, check out Ayn Rand's three novels in order of: Anthem, Fountainhead, and finally Atlas Shrugged. If you must only read one of them, read Fountainhead if you want to learn more about yourself, and Atlas Shrugged if you want to be red-pilled about the world.

u/WhySoOverHeated · 2 pointsr/RedPillWomen

How about The Evolution of Desire? (https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Desire-Strategies-Human-Mating/dp/046500802X)
I haven't read it, but my ex boyfriend recommended it, and he found it on TRP

u/TamidMT · 6 pointsr/RedPillWomen

I know exactly the kind of mother you're talking about, and I'm having a very similar battle with mine. I can't type out a detailed post right now, but I'll quickly link you to this famous book and even this tangentially-related article. I can't find my resources on emotional abuse right now, but that's definitely the term you need to type into a search engine and read into.

u/dr_warlock · 5 pointsr/RedPillWomen

There's nothing 'unhealthy' about these sexual affair circumstances. This is how humans evolved. There was no such thing as context 2. There was just your tribe, one context. There no such thing as go to work with group B (strangers/kinda friends) then come back with group A (your family/LTR/friends). You worked and lived with the same 0-150 people your entire life. Strangers (i.e. plane travelers) were rare and avoided at all costs. Co-ed work was rare until The Industrial Revolution gave women an strength assist. Corporate America is a pseudo tribe. You spend more time with your colleagues than your own family, friends and LTR. The schism and daily flip-flop fucks with your brain. You'll naturally feel the desire to open up given the time and effort you out into the group. Women especially because hypergamy is contextual. Men rotate, women exchange.

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Read: The World Until Yesterday by Jared Diamond

u/ladyuniscorn · 12 pointsr/RedPillWomen

I am no victim. I have read legal records and other primary sources on this subject, dating back to the Middle Ages through the modern era here in America. There is nothing revisionist about what I have said. Read actual scholarship. Common Women would be an interesting place to start since the basis of our legal system, here in America, developed in this time period and looks at actual cases and laws instead of inventing an version of history that fits your views.

u/grumpieroldman · 1 pointr/RedPillWomen

> I doubt counseling will make it worse. If they have it in your neck of the woods, look into Imago Therapy. It teaches you how to talk to each other and forces you to listen.

That is the sort of counseling that does make things worse.
Imago therapy is just branded communication-based therapy.
Even if they were entirely correct they'd only be hitting ~10% of the problem.
If you want a psychology-based approached, start with Seven.