(Part 2) Top products from r/SexWorkersOnly

It's really, really easy to get started. Don't get me wrong, there is definitely a high level of production value that you can achieve (later on if you want to, or maybe never), but starting off is quite a simple thing.


All you really need is a laptop, a webcam, and decent internet... and maybe a soft lamp. It's best to have an ethernet cable running to your router if you can, for faster speeds than wifi. You can get a pretty cheap webcam that does a decent job, or shell out a little more and get something a little better. The best (or at least most popular) webcam for camgirls I have found is this one. Inbuilt laptop webcams might do the trick, but use your judgement on whether it looks good enough or not. Would you watch something of the quality you're producing?

There is sooo much information on ambercutie forums, but a trap that I fell into early on is feeling like you need expensive lighting, the best webcam, an amazing mic and so on when you really dont.

On the subject of lighting, it really makes a difference to be well lit, but you don't need photography-standard umbrella lights. I have two soft lamps a little bit behind my laptop so I'm lit from two angles, and it works really well. You just want to make sure they're soft and you're not casting yourself into shadow on one side, and MOST IMPORTANTLY not solely lit from above, like from a ceiling light. That is some unflattering shit.

I really like Myfreecams.com because it's easy to use, high traffic, the token conversion is easy to understand, the payment methods are easy and reliable, and probably least importantly is that there seems to be fewer rules regarding what you can and can't do (which makes it a little less stressful). Have a look at the aforementioned forum for advice regarding choosing a site. Verification can sometimes be a pain but if you have a driver's licence and a scanner you'll probably have a really easy time.


This is a loooot of information to take in all at once, I know. Even though I could go on and on for ages, like I said before, keep it simple to start with and don't stress yourself out with the nitty gritty - you might get so stressed you don't want to even begin. Bear in mind, this is all about the SOLID parts of camming, the technical aspects. The mental game is a whole other topic entirely, and I would be happy to answer more questions if you're asking.

Good luck! xx

Shave down in the direction of the hair growth. It’ll still get you smooth. If clients start rubbing your groin against the direction of your hair growth, tell them to stop or gently move their hand away. Every single night before bed (unless I’ve stopped shaving), I use Tend Skin.

https://www.amazon.com/Tend-Skin-Solution-Unsightly-Ingrown/dp/B001ECQ7G4

No more bumps or irritation, period.

Generously apply it in the direction of the hair growth with a cotton ball.

You can say you are a professional escort on your taxes, its a legal career and they will NOT care. If you don't want to do that, say you are a life coach or a dog walker or a personal assistant. Honestly, the IRS does not care how you earn your money as long as they get theirs.

Talking with an accountant will really reassure you. Another good resource is https://www.amazon.com/Dommes-Guide-Workers-Business-People/dp/1439251061/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495905539&sr=8-1&keywords=tax+domme

Much has been written on pricing. Most people believe in error that a high price means high quality. You can exploit that misunderstanding by charging at the top of your market.

My teacher Claude Diamond (and others) caution against competing on price. He would say offer quality at a fair price then sell that your service as high value.

Below find a link to a book that looks interesting to me.
https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Pricing-Strategy-Behavior-Based/dp/1530383293/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?keywords=9781530383290&linkCode=qs&qid=1564351827&s=books&sr=1-1

Investing: The Boglehead's Guide to Investing. You don't need any other book. https://www.amazon.com/Bogleheads-Guide-Investing-Taylor-Larimore/dp/1118921283/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1550686550&sr=8-1&keywords=bogleheads+guide+to+investing

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Other stuff:

The Gift of Fear, Gavin DeBecker: https://www.amazon.com/Other-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violence/dp/0440508835/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1550686596&sr=8-1&keywords=the+gift+of+fear

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The Power of Charm: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Charm-Anyone-Over-Situation/dp/0814473571/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1550686575&sr=8-1&keywords=the+art+of+charm

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