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u/injusticehasbeendone · 2 pointsr/asexuality

Finally I think the book that these articles are referring to looks far more interesting and open than the articles themselves.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1476762090/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=httpwwwgood07-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1476762090&linkId=2b8af58ca5e16c3c0b37664231c4c0e8
>sexual arousal, desire, and orgasm are nearly universal experiences,

Nearly leaves room for us aces :). The author seems to be saying that to be different is normal. Not that there are no categories for different sexualities.

She's also pretty trans friendly and points out that the book is unfortunately not for trans women due to the lack of available research.

>First, most of the time when I say “women” in this book, I mean people who were born in female bodies, were raised as girls, and now have the social role and psychological identity of “woman.” There are plenty of women who don’t fit one or more of those characteristics, but there’s too little research on trans and genderqueer sexual functioning for me to say with certainty whether what’s true about cisgender women’s sexual wellbeing is also true for trans folks. I think it probably is, and as more research emerges over the coming decade we’ll find out, but in the meantime I want to acknowledge that this is basically a book about cisgender women.

u/MarySuz · 4 pointsr/asexuality

Here you go, classic ring! Make sure to check if there's a cheaper model, I remember seeing the exact same ring model for 10$

4mm Thin Black Ceramic Ring for Him and Her Brushed Comfort Fit Wedding Band 8 https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B016EVR14G/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_H.i0DbFXD77SS

Edit: I forgot the existence of CAD and USD. xD

I don't know the price you're seeing with this link, disregard my comment if you see the price in USD haha.

u/tensepresent31 · 1 pointr/asexuality

Aww thank you!! It was a long road (re: the whole 29yrs of my life) to find words, and it’s amazing :) being asexual, even in nyc, is HARD!!!!!!

I got mine off amazon! Not my favourite company (#ughbezos), but it was a good price:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07917SN9M?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

u/thechristinechapel · 9 pointsr/asexuality

I'm so bad at this too! I can recall three different times when my friends have told me that some guy was "totally into me" and I was completely oblivious. I tend to be that way with body language in general as well. I found this, which seems to be a fairly straight-forward step-by-step guide to flirting. And here is the book they reference in it. I dunno, might be worth a read. In any case, it seems like it is something we may need to practice. :P

u/Pinus_pinea · 1 pointr/asexuality

I think this is where I got it! But there are tons of different ace flags in Amazon so you may find other good ones just by searching the website :)

u/Pomeranian-Missile · 2 pointsr/asexuality

Hey there. I'm also a 19-year-old male macrophile, although I am turned on by giantesses rather than giants. I identify as asexual, and I think it is completely valid for you to identify as asexual.

When I use the term asexual, I refer to someone who does not experience sexual attraction. Note that this definition says nothing about sexual arousal; sexual attraction and sexual arousal are two separate entities. Therefore, it stands to reason that there can be people who identify as asexual and still experience sexual arousal.

Anthony F. Bogaert, professor of community health sciences and psychology at Brock University and researcher of sexuality, postulated this exact idea in a published article from 2012:
> "Given that some masturbating asexuals seek out stimulation
through fantasy or pornography, arousal/pleasure mechanisms
of their nervous system are engaged by this sexual stimulation.
Yet, this stimulation is disconnected from their identities: It is, at
least in part, an identity-less sexual arousal. Thus, these individuals
still seem to retain a lack of subjective sexual attraction
to others (or anything), despite physical arousal and seeking out
persistent themes in fantasy and pornography. Subjective in this
case refers to the I or the me in one’s identity as a person."

(It is important to note that, in this case, the term paraphilia is used to imply "less mainstream sexual practices" without negatively implying any dysfunction or 'wrongness'. In this context, consider it interchangeable with the term fetish.)

There is more discussion on asexuality and paraphilias in Chapter 10 of his book, Understanding Asexuality, which I highly recommend reading. The book is essentially a summary of his understanding of asexuality as a result of his research, but I feel like reading it helped me understand my own asexuality better.

Sorry, I might have gotten slightly off-topic. My point is, I don't believe that having a macrophilia fetish says anything about your sexual or romantic orientation. I believe that your sexual and romantic orientations are distilled from your real-life feelings (or lack thereof) about other people. Not your body - bodies are weird and can do things for no reason - your feelings.

If you don't feel sexual attraction towards other people, you can identify as asexual. If you don't feel romantic attraction towards other people, you can identify as aromantic. And if you decide you do feel sexual and/or romantic attraction towards other people, that's okay!

This leads me to one more train of thought - depression. I also live with depression. (Wow, we have quite a bit in common!) I know first-hand that depression can make it hard to be in-tune with your emotions and feelings. I don't know you, so I can't give you specific clinical advice - I'm not a doctor, anyhow - but I can tell you that I have gotten a lot out of seeing therapists who have helped coax ideas out of my head that otherwise would have stayed murky, sub-conscious thoughts. It's also worth noting that I had to visit a few different therapists before I found someone who I felt comfortable talking to and who I felt understood me. Again, I don't know you, but therapy might be worth a try.

Oh, and one last thing: there is nothing wrong with you. I mean that.

I hope you find this answer helpful.

u/Readalie · 8 pointsr/asexuality

Have you read Asexuality: The Invisible Orientation? It’s good if you’re looking for a full book on the subject! :) https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Orientation-Introduction-Asexuality-Generation/dp/1634502434

u/mystormyweather · 1 pointr/asexuality

I wrote a 4 book series where the main character happens to be ace. Through out the four books it shows a variety of different ace lifestyles, both males and females. Aromantic, Demi, grey, even a queer platonic (zucchini) relationship. Basically the spectrum. I know the cover is kind of sexual but that’s to also get attract from none ace readers as well.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1793987653/ref=tmm_fbs_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr=

u/FlightofaPhoenix · 2 pointsr/asexuality

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B016EVR14G/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 That's the one I got- it's not really solid black, more like dark gray, but it looks really nice.

u/howlsprince · 3 pointsr/asexuality

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07VK2KV3Q/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 this is the steamer I bought. My best tip is hold the steamer on the creases and slowly slide it along. And do it until the wrinkles are gone.

u/Iderrisai · 2 pointsr/asexuality

I wasn’t a fan of the plain black band either, so I went with this one:

Jude Jewelers Durable Stainless... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07917SN9M?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I like to think the love knot is slightly ironic, but meh. A little pizzaz for this Ace!

u/heonnie-bee · 4 pointsr/asexuality

Uhh I think it’s Myers Psychology book, the newest volume. I don’t have it with me because I’m just a Teacher’s Assistant

Edit: Okay so I found it
https://www.amazon.com/Myers-Psychology-AP%C2%AE-Course-David/dp/1319070507
This is how it looks like

u/shponglespore · 1 pointr/asexuality

Cool! Just today I ordered an ace flag patch for my work hoodie, and my black ring from a seller on Amazon arrived yesterday—a great deal for 1¢ + $6.95 S&H. Since they're so cheap I was going to order a range of sizes just to be safe, but alas, they won't let you combine the shipping cost if you order more than one. I recommend trying on rings in a store to find your size; I tried measuring myself using instructions from the web, and I ended up with a ring that's a size or two larger than it needs to be. It's not big enough to be a problem but I am slightly annoyed at myself for not taking a better measurement.

u/audreyshake · 3 pointsr/asexuality

I hope you don’t mind me proposing an alternate hypothesis.¹ You didn’t mention your age or range of experience, but it seems to me you might just have had a lot of crummy sex. The stereotypical inexperienced sexual encounter is making out followed by plain PIV² until the man orgasms. For most men, that’s a satisfying, if not exceptional, encounter. For many women, that’s duller than a dental cleaning, disappointing, sexually frustrating, and sometimes physically painful. Most of my women friends’ first few sexual relationships fell squarely into this category.³

In my view, that explains everything you said: Lousy sex would, obviously, explain your distaste for partnered sex. Feeling put on to do things you don’t want to do would make almost anyone feel viscerally repulsed; at least that’s been my experience. And, as your dating relationships progress, I assume your partners have only gotten more persistent, until your disgust overpowers your warm fuzzy feelings. Is it possible that’s what’s going on?

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  1. I’m going to follow the other commenter’s lead and refer to your sister as “you.”

  2. Penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse.

  3. You might enjoy reading The Hite Report on Female Sexuality (Amazon trade paperback; pirated PDF). It’s a representative sample of women’s differing views, experiences, feelings, and opinions on their sex lives, given in their own words. It’s old, but not outdated, and more in-depth than even the wonderful discussions in sexxit.