(Part 2) Top products from r/askgaybros

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We found 48 product mentions on r/askgaybros. We ranked the 665 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.

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u/Formeractionguy9 · 1 pointr/askgaybros

Nutrition:

  • IIFYM, Paleo, Keto... all these work, just find something you can stick with long term. Personally, I don't think people eat enough protein, but I'm neither a doctor or a nutritionist so I don't have any evidence to back this up.

  • Plan your meals and make your food in advance. If your nutrition plan allows it, plan your cheat days. You may find it easier to stick to your plan if you know you have a cheat meal/day coming up.

  • Track what you are eating. Even if it's something you shouldn't be. Track it!

  • Remove temptation from your home.

  • Realize that everything you eat is a choice you are making. You can eat broccoli or you can kill a Chinese buffet , it's your choice. That being said....

  • Focus on progress, not perfection. If you fall off the wagon just get back on. Don't beat yourself up.

    Workout:

  • Again, find something you can stick with long term. 5/3/1, Starting Strength, Strong Lifts... all these work. As long as you're adding weight to the bar or doing more reps with the same weight you are making progress.

  • Like with your nutrition, focus on progress. If you miss a workout, just pick up where you left off. Don't beat yourself up, just get back in the gym.

  • If possible, get a friend or someone to help hold you accountable.

  • Don't neglect your cardio/conditioning.

  • I highly recommend you purchase and read Becoming a Supple Leopard. Do some mobility work and take care of yourself now, your body will thank you in a couple decades.

    I like Crossfit because the gym I'm at has a great sense of community and competition. I genuinely like the people I work out with and they push me to be better. I also like Primal/keto for the nutrition side, but I like meat and veggies so it's easy for me to follow.
u/wintertash · 4 pointsr/askgaybros

Lots of straight guys enjoy ass play, it's not like only gay guys' prostates feel good after all.

The Aneros product line mentioned by /u/vanisaac is a good option, but I thought I'd give you some others as well.

  • If money is no object, the Billy by Lelo has an excellent reputation, and Lelo's build quality and warranty are outstanding.

  • The Pfun Plug by Njoy is another higher-price/higher quality toy that is extraordinary. As is the Pure Wand, which is not a plug, but is great for ass and prostate stimulation.

  • The Naughty Boy and the Rude Boy, both by Rocks Off are perennial favorites among gay men.

  • Fun Factory's B-Balls are super cool, and great for long term wear or wearing during play. Their Boosty plug is a bit intimidating looking, but isn't really all that big and is very comfortable, although some folk find getting it in a bit challenging the first few times.

    There are plenty more, but those are a few options to look through. They cover the price scale from about $35 dollars for the Fun Factory products all the way to $150 for Lelo's Billy. In all honestly, I'd be reluctant to use anything much cheaper than $35 in my own ass. All the products listed here (including the Aneros products) are made out of high grade, body-safe materials, whereas there are some seriously skeevy cheap sex toys out there made out of mystery rubber that can potentially cause a wide range of unpleasantness, particularly when we're talking about ass toys.
u/drewtangclan · 6 pointsr/askgaybros

this is a copy & paste from a comment I left a few weeks ago in this sub.
Everyone saying that daily fiber supplements will help you is correct, but some methods/types are much more effective than others. Capsules and powders (i.e. Metamucil) will help, but they do NOT work nearly as well as just taking a tablespoon of plain whole-husk psyllium fiber once or twice a day. I recommend this brand

I find that actual whole-husk psyllium fiber is not really of a consistency to be able to effectively "mix" it in with water/juice etc., so I usually like to mix mine in with yogurt or oatmeal. Coconut yogurt is my favorite to use, because the texture of the fiber makes it seem like shredded coconut flakes.

u/correon · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

You sound like you have some serious cognitive dissonance going on right now.

Talking about it with the Internet is a great first step. It shows that you're looking for help and want to make a change. But /r/askgaybros is not going to be enough all by itself. You need to do some serious thinking and evaluate your three options for ending the dissonance: (1) to prioritize God over your own happiness, (2) to prioritize happiness over religious dogma, (3) to change your conception of God and/or your own gay identity so that they are no longer in conflict.

This will not be easy. None of those options will feel "authentic" or "right" at first. (1), in particular, has serious shortcomings and will probably endanger your long-term mental health. (2) is slightly less dangerous but will be very, very hard in the short term.

My advice: pursue (3) for now. Talk to a gay-affirming Christian therapist. Talk to your "this guy" with whom you're falling in love. Talk to your parents. And then listen. Notice how all of these people still love you and think you're valuable and loveable and a good person.

If you want a more Bible-based approach to (3), pick up one of the many, many books out there about homosexuality and the Bible. (I bought this one, about 4 years after when I most needed it.)

And of course, if you fail to find a way to let yourself be happy by pursuing (3), pick a point at which you'll cut your losses and choose (2).

u/Skairingur · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

Naughty boy

I have this one, and I love it. Good size, easy to clean and it vibrates. Definitely recommended

u/theanedditor · 4 pointsr/askgaybros

Every gay dude needs to eat a good diet if his lifestyle means he needs to care about being "ready", that's just a given, so eat tons of fiber and veggies.

The other thing, and this should be something you get when you pay your dues and get your membership card, is go to amazon and get one of these. Easy to use, gets the job done and in a couple mins you're just like Jodie Foster in Contact.

Good to go!

Bro on, bro.

u/Jswizzy84 · 1 pointr/askgaybros

This book. is pretty good for everything you probably need to know to enjoy bottoming. It worked for me. What really surprised me was the fact that you can suck in a penis without the top pushing his way in just by relaxing and creating a vacuum.


It's mostly about techniques to relax, breathing slow shallow breaths, and what position allows the penis to penetrate you without hitting the wrong places and hurting you. It also covers how to keep things cleans. Basically have a diet high in fibre is what that chapter was all about.

u/ikonoclasm · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

While I haven't read it myself, I feel like this book may be a good reflection of my philosophy and approach to life. The trick is to identify what's actually important and not worry about the other stuff.

OP was worried about telling his parents. Since he's even having to question how, that means it's not actually important because the relationship to communicate openly about something like that doesn't exist.

The question about reaching out to the other family is an inquiry about tradition. Tradition means fuck-all for gay marriage, plus that tradition is deeply rooted in misogyny, so fuck it!

And finally the ring question. De Beers has everyone brainwashed into thinking diamonds are more than shiny rocks with their monopoly and pervasive marketing. They're fucking rocks. They mean shit. You would presumably know your SO well enough to know what would actually mean something to him and go for that.

For myself, I'd want a nice tungsten carbide band, which will be re-used at the courthouse wedding because as far as I'm concerned, marriage is a civil function, not ceremonial. For OP, maybe he wants the big traditional wedding with vows and all the hoopla and staggering bills associated with it. More power to him! If it's important for him and his SO, then they should go for it.

That's really what it boils down to. Figure out what's important and don't worry about the rest. What's important to you doesn't have to be what's important to someone else, and vice versa. The last thing you really want to do is wasting your time, effort and money on the unimportant shit at the expense of the things that actually matter to you.

u/spurtflirt · 0 pointsr/askgaybros

There’s nothing wrong with being a slut. Pleasure is good and sex is good for you. I recommend this book about polyamory, the Ethical Slut.
https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379

u/ccoastmike · 1 pointr/askgaybros

This will be your friend:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B002FCN7Y2/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1416806454&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX200_QL40

So many positions to try and you have plenty of time so give them all a shot! You'll find that some work better than others. Test them all...for science!

u/ceruleanic · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

Two legendary books about growing up gay:

The Best Little Boy In The World by John Reid

At Swim, Two Boys: A Novel by Jamie O'Neill

u/v2o2 · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

Oooh, I've had some success with Nads For Men

u/swaggadactyl · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

I started on the smallest size in the kit. And I got it at a sex shop in my city. But I just looked it up on Amazon

Now. I can bottom pretty well after practice and patience and getting used to things being in my ass. But that third size still doesn't go in my ass. I feel like they skip the large size and go to XL lol

u/John2Nhoj · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

You may just need a device like this to get more lube up inside of you instead of most of it being applied at or just inside the opening of your anus.

http://www.amazon.com/Lube-Shooter-Lubricant-Delivery-Device/dp/B00132TBCM

u/Bear_The_Pup · 10 pointsr/askgaybros

Do you want pity or advice?

If you want pity, this isn't the place to get it.

If you want advice;

  1. Throw out every bit of food in your house that isn't fresh fruits, vegetables, and lean protein. No junk food, no refined sugar, no processed carbs, at all.

  2. Drink more water

  3. Do Cardio, 45 minutes minimum, every day. You can pick whatever works for you swimming, cycling, running, ect.

  4. Start strength training. Read Starting Strength it's a great resource for beginners.

  5. Stick to this for one whole month, then look in the mirror, you'll feel like a whole new person.
u/tescocola · 1 pointr/askgaybros

As just mentioned in another thread use one of these and it'll make sure you're lubed up in all the right places: http://www.amazon.com/Lube-Shooter-Lubricant-Delivery-Device/dp/B00132TBCM

u/jaycatt7 · 6 pointsr/askgaybros

May I suggest some reading? Most of the "advice" you'll get here will try to talk you out of it.

u/Throw___A__Way · 5 pointsr/askgaybros

It's reddit, with a title that ambiguous you have to be prepared for these things. :P

On a more serious note, get one of those cheap disposable razor/trimmer combos and you can use the trimmer part if you don't want to shave or have the option of both. Advantages to trimmer part = no stubble, cheaper than clippers, reusable, and it's much harder to cut yourself than a razor. Also it's not all or nothing and you have more control over length of hair.

http://www.amazon.com/Gillette-Fusion-Proglide-Groomer-Trimmer/dp/B0062IWQVU

http://www.amazon.com/Schick-93002140-Quattro-Titanium-Trimmer/dp/B001MIZMRK

u/DiscontentDisciple · 5 pointsr/askgaybros

Correct. The Bible has nothing to say about monogamous homosexuality. Even if you don't buy that, there's a lot of room to see Paul contextualizing his own education and his understanding of Jesus' teachings for a culture which engaged in Homosexuality as part of pagan worship, hence his admonishments of it. The homosexuality wasn't the problem, the abuse of power involved in Pederasty as part of temple worship was the problem.

Get these two Books and read them:

What the Bible Really Says about Homosexuality

Jesus, the Bible and Homosexuality

u/jonmmarquez · 1 pointr/askgaybros

I thought the same thing a few years ago. It's all in your mentality. Being able to NGAF of what others think of your and live your life instead of being/feeling miserable because you're stuck in fear of what others may think/judge you for. Here’s a good book you may want to read. It's helped me out!

https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive/dp/0062457713

u/SlightFresnel · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

Grindr is literally the worst possible place for anyone with any kind of insecurities, so cut that shit out.

I think only stupid people don't feel like they're unlikable. So congratulations, you're sane.

Heres a book you should read, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.

Once you stop caring how others think, you'll stop getting flustered, and your confidence will go up. Once that happens you automatically go up a few levels... So like so many other things, fake it til you make it.

u/creemyice · -5 pointsr/askgaybros

Gay men are 60x more likely to have HIV than straight men. Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3462414/
46% of male homosexuals report being molested, as compared to only 7% of heterosexual men. Source:http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11501300
Gays are more likely than straight people to have mental illness. Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2072932/
1/4 gay men in America have had over 1000 sex partners. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Homosexualities-Study-Diversity-Among-Women/dp/0671251503
43% of gay men have over 500 partners. Source:http://www.amazon.com/Homosexualities-Study-Diversity-Among-Women/dp/0671251503
Gay men are six times more likely to commit suicide than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536
Gay men are 12x more likely to use amphetamines than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536
Gay men are 10x more likely to use heroin than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536 Gay people are 2-3x more likely to abuse alcohol than straight people. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536 Gay men are twice as likely as straight men to be in interracial relationships. Source:http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/93/4/1423
In Australia, 25% of homosexuals have had more than 100 sex partners. Source:http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print
Gay men, who are 1.65% of the US population, account for 63% of the country’s syphilis cases. Source:http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print
In 2010, homosexuals were about 200 times more likely than everyone else to be diagnosed with HIV. Source:http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print
Gay men are 15 times more likely to have Hepatitis B than everyone else. Source:http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print
Homosexuals are more to use illegal drugs and drink to excess than straight people. Source:http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IA_VxATDptc

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/
HIV_and_men_who_have_sex_with_men

https://www.str.org/blog/homosexuality-natural#.WslMhi7wa70

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zno8e4R6gA

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/04/28/is-being-gay-or-lesbian-genetic/

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/same-sex-behavior-is-hazardous-is-harmful-and-is-dangerous-scottish-catholi

https://www.newsweek.com/being-gay-your-dna-scientists-keep-trying-find-genetic-basis-sexual-741084

https://geneticliteracyproject.org/2016/07/29/does-the-human-warrior-gene-make-violent-criminals-and-what-should-society-do/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monoamine_oxidase_A

https://www.mygenefood.com/warrior-gene-5-common-myths/

https://www.igenea.com/en/warrior-gene

https://carm.org/is-homosexuality-dangerous

http://www.familyresearchinst.org/2009/02/medical-consequences-of-what-homosexuals-do/

https://www.debate.org/opinions/is-homosexual-conduct-harmful

https://www.cdc.gov/std/life-stages-populations/stdfact-msm.htm

https://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/for-your-health.htm

https://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

https://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/STD.htm

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/government-std-rates-among-homosexuals-alarming-troubling

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4223259/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV_and_men_who_have_sex_with_men
https://www.webmd.com/women/lesbian-health#1

u/sixshotfox · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

So yeah, ignore what you read about gay sex/see in gay porn, taking a dick (comfortably anyway,) isn't as easy as lube on cock, shove balls deep inside your ass. It does take time, but you can make it easier/more enjoyable but looking up proper bottoming methods. I literally read a book on how to bottom properly and it's helped out a lot. Here's a link to the book I used:

But as for cleaning out your ass, it's a simple as buying a douche, filling your ass up with water, pushing it out, rinse and repeat until the water runs clear.

u/couldntthinkofanyth · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

I had a similar problem for years and haven't had a bad hemorrhoid in about 2 years. Even when it does happen (rarely and I bottom like 5x a week for hours at a time. life is good.) following this advice they go away much quicker than the month+ it used to take and with minimal discomfort.

-First buy one of these this one linked will last indefinitely as opposed to some other brands. This will allow you to sit without aggravating it. You should also avoid sitting for a half hour after eating meals. Laying down flat on your back or walking around is the best position to be in to heal a hemorrhoid once its already there, but if you must sit (driving, reddit, etc.) do it on an inflatable donut.

-This is the big one: no creams or medications do anything to help, dont even try, they will probably just make it worse and at best be very uncomfortable. What helps then? submerge your lower half in water tub/pool/hottub/lake doesnt matter but this was my panacea in hemorrhoid treatment and it works wonders. Most doctors wont tell you about it because they like money and giving expensive painful surgeries and having you come in for regular visits (i.e $$$$). Save your time, ass, and money and get in a tub. This also works as a preventative measure, get in a tub or pool right after sex (and a quick rinse at least) for 10min or so and no more hemorrhoids.

Besides that, avoid straining on the toilet or sitting for too long, no texting while pooping. Do not wipe too much or too hard, once is enough and then go take a shower and rinse (A dip in the tub helps here too if you have the time). If your problem stems from difficult times pooping, Psyllium. A big spoonful before breakfast and dinner works wonders.

Your post struck a chord with me as I had a very hard time with this and spent too much time with an out-of-order ass and a sad boyfriend. The submerging in water came from internet research and I did not expect it to work (figured that if it were that easy why wouldnt a doctor have told me by then?) but it was the turn around for me as I had already been doing all the other stuff for months at that point. Doctors just want you to keep coming back so they can collect from the insurance companies (what happened to helping people IDK) and may even perform a procedure which you do not want trust me.

tl;dr- op, seriously just read it. submerge in water, dont wipe too much, dont sit too much

edit: Also I use an enema like 99% of the time before sex out of necessity and still do not get hemorrhoids following this advice.

u/BobsBurger1 · -5 pointsr/askgaybros

That's your opinion. There's no evidence to suggest that being bullied for being gay has an effect on mental illness. In fact it can easily be shown that bullying has 0 effect on the trans suicide rate.

Most gay teens don't even come out of the closet until 18+. If anything is effecting the mental state it's all the suppressed feelings from being in the closet. Not progressing at the same rate as our straight counterparts. Not giving able to kiss your crush at 13/14. Please don't misattribute your own experiences to the entire gay population please. I'm gay, I've never had any problems from straight people.

Gays are more likely than straight people to have mental illness. Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2072932/

Gay men are six times more likely to commit suicide than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536

Gay men are 12x more likely to use amphetamines than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536

Gay men are 10x more likely to use heroin than straight men. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536

Gay people are 2-3x more likely to abuse alcohol than straight people. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536

Homosexuals are more likely than straight people to have anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and to commit suicide. Source: http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print

Gay men are 10-15 times more likely than straight men to have eating disorders. Source: http://takimag.com/article/the_straight_dope_on_homosexuality_elizabeth_mccaw/print
40% to 60% of serial killers are homosexuals. Source:

All that is clear is that there are much more cases of mental illness among gay men. It's up to the experienced members of the Military to determine whether or not this makes them fit enough to serve. Not some LGBT member's opinion that means nothing. Also from my own first hand experiences, 90% of all gay men I speak too have all sorts of issues and seem a little insane. It's not a stretch.

Also there is no right to serve in the army.