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u/H3lius · 1 pointr/asktrp

Before we talk about girls, let's talk about you. "Alpha" men don't exist, it's a mindset anyone can have.

"I get awkward as fuck in social gatherings and would rather just spend my time by myself." -- This indicates to me that this should be your area of focus. Force yourself into awkward situations until they aren't awkward anymore. Your emotional immune system is a muscle, you need to flex it. I argue that success is the 80/20 rule, 80% social skills, and 20% intelligence/knowledge in the field.

A book to help:
http://www.amazon.com/Never-Eat-Alone-Secrets-Relationship/dp/0385512058

Think of it has a game. You're awkward in social situations because either you're not turning it into a game and you don't know the rules, or you're too concerned about what people will think about what you say. If you're genuinely just really bad at talking to people, take the former perspective and start reading books on influencing people or becoming a good story teller: http://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/07/28/how-to-tell-interesting-stories/. Then start executing them in situations. Force yourself into meetups for things you like.

Also, RSDTyler has some really good videos recently about all of this. Check out his youtube channel.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g

Check out TRT too: http://www.dangerandplay.com/trt-testosterone-replacement-therapy/

Reminder: You have a need to be loved, for emotional connection, etc. You DON'T need this specific girl for this, but she can meet your needs IF YOU'RE SETTING EXPECTATIONS for the relationship.

Before I got into my current LTR with a really RP woman, I asked her where it was going. I expressed my needs, and got hers. I set expectations, but remained as confident as I could with "outcome independence" as some call it. This might be unattractive to some women, but REALLY attractive to some. I don't like people wasting my time, so I started doing this. I can get a random hookup if I want to get laid, I don't concern myself with what a girl thinks about how I set expectations for a LTR. They want it or they don't, period. "I'm the catch" mindset helps here.

See, love goes away. Once the initial rush of a relationship is gone, if you two cannot meet eachother's needs, than the relationship falls apart. Just like you couldn't meet your X's sexual needs while you were deployed. She had someone else meet that need.

It's hard, and you might risk losing this girl. She may say "I'm just looking for something for the next few years, then I'm planning on moving to X, etc" (filling her need for a fuck or emotional connection). Are you willing to move with her or not? Are you sure you'd like to follow and not lead? Is she willing to sacrifice her goals in life to settle down and have a family with you? If she can't meet your needs, why keep her around? There are PLENTY of other girls out there that can meet your needs.

I'd argue that girls don't realize that they aren't going to be happy pursuing their goals in life that aren't related to having kids and raising happy and healthy kids. Getting a nursing degree, sure, go for it babe. But at the end of the day, I'm going to want kids in the future and you better be ready to drop EVERYTHING for us to do that. Again, "love" is relative and meaningless in the long term. You can either show her over time by being a really confident leader (alpha), or find someone that wants to have kids and stuff right now and not waste your time. The former is in my opinion not the right option.

Write down a list of YOUR needs. Narrow them down to their root needs. For example, you don't have a need for X to love you, you have a need for LOVE (ignore the fact that love is subjective for this example). Or take it further and write you have a need for physical closeness or trust with someone instead of "love". That you consider that to be part of love as it makes you feel good. Regardless of length, get it down on paper or in Evernote. If you're not willing to confront this new girl with your list of needs and ask her for hers, than just observe her actions and figure out her needs on your own (this wastes time, and it seems like you've spent plenty of time already on girls). If she's not right, MOVE ON. It sucks, I totally get it. But at the end of the day you are still the "gorilla", just smarter and more motivated/clear with intent.

Summary: Focus on you, your needs, and stop looking for a magic pill or the right advice from other men. Figure out what YOU want in life, and be a man that sets expectations and leads the direction of his life.

u/gentleViking · 3 pointsr/asktrp

I'm currently in Monk Mode myself. I'm probably only going for at most a 3mo. term at this (Started Dec. 1st). It sounds like you have a good plan. I'm focusing on the following things:

  • Meditating: the best way to re-program your brain IMO ("Wherever you go there you are")
  • Teaching myself Jazz piano
  • Diet (Here's my diet)
  • Fitness (Here's my fitness bible)
  • Career Development (This)
  • Productivity & Time Management (too many books to mention, OP PM me if you want this list)
  • Not watching Porn & Masturbating less frequently (Highly recommended /r/NoFap)
  • No Alcohol

    For learning to cook I highly recommend this book.

    For addressing approach anxiety I recommend The Rules of the Game.

    This is an excellent book on habit change. (OP this is how you start to break down those "masturbatory" habits)

    Also, Monk Mode is basically an exercise in stoicism. This book is awesome.


    Since you'll have plenty of time to read here are some other Books I recommend:
    "No More Mr. Nice Guy"
    "Models: Attracting Women Through Honesty"
    "The Talent Code"
    "Man's Search for Meaning"
    "Flow"

    Final thoughts OP. 6 months is definitely a worthy goal however studies show that 90 days is usually what it takes to create new habits and routines. You have to be consistent though. Just food for thought.


    (Edit: I suck at formatting)




u/DisposableManifesto · 1 pointr/asktrp

Happy Birthday, you're now a man.

  • Congratulate yourself, you have shown resilience, motive, and self-respect
  • Read Bad Childhood, Good Life
  • Make your bed daily
  • Go to bed, and get out of bed at the same time daily
  • Take up a team sport (Meetup)
  • Walk 3 miles min daily
  • Hang out with positive, driven, friends (Meetup if none)
  • Don't complain: write down 10 potential solutions for each complaint, pick the easiest most direct step to improve your situation
  • Diet: Visualise soda, fast food, and sugary foods as 'the opposition' trying to fuck you over, don't give in
  • Environment: remove/ignore/minimise what doesn't serve you in your progress, only let in what does
  • Forgive and move on: you are a man now, be mentally independent
u/Opioidus · 1 pointr/asktrp

There is one book that's wonderful for expanding your social circle as a BETA, I have used it to make tens of friends, but you can't initiate conversation without being friendly and you can't be friendly without a minimum amount of submissiveness(smiling, agreeableness, showing a lot of attention and interest in the other person and so on). So the process for me is that I make friends, then I work my way up in their social circle and become the alpha.

Another weakness is that it's written by a womyn, if you care about that sort of thing. But all that aside, it is a wonderful book that can help you make lots of friends even if you are an introverted IT geek. The advice is solid and if you dig through it with a redpill understanding you can avoid the parts that contradict alpha behaviors. It's a very useful book : http://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Anyone-Success-Relationships/dp/007141858X

There is also an illegal torrent copy if you want to check out the book before paying for it.

u/nappy_poontang · 0 pointsr/asktrp

I don’t last that long either. But I don’t fucking care and neither does my girl. Know why? My LTR is moaning, screaming, and trembling for 30+ minutes before my penis ever goes in. She cums multiple times.

Most women don’t get a great physical pleasure from piv. It’s more psychological: nurturing, comforting. The biggest way to pleasure a women is to use your hands and mouth.

Do yourself a favor and read this:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0060538260/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1523038003&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=she+comes+first&dpPl=1&dpID=51WSzjcZuSL&ref=plSrch

u/agoodresponse · 3 pointsr/asktrp

Okay, I will tell you some things about me.

First, I ghosted everyone that knew me as a Blue Pill guy. Now, an inherent part of ghosting is being alone. When most people tell you they are independent, it's fucking bullshit. Emerson wrote a great deal on self-reliance.

Here is an essay by Emerson on the subject of self-reliance. It is both a great introduction to his views and how beautifully he writes.
http://www.emersoncentral.com/selfreliance.htm

Here is a collection of Emerson's essays. Ignore the 1 star review, which is for the Kindle version of the book, but heed it and buy the physical book instead of the Kindle version.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1598530844/

Emerson was friend and mentor to Thoreau, who wrote the following account of his two-year stay in a cabin near Walden Pond. One of Thoreau's goals was self-sufficiency.
http://www.amazon.com/Walden-A-Fully-Annotated-Edition/dp/0300104669

Here is some further reading.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0762415339/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1492777862/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0199291152/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0802150926/

You mention you are going to be a radiographer soon. Now, I have seen said on TRP that some here do not see the point in film, but I fucking love film. Now, there is one film in particular that I think relates to your situation incredibly. That is Ikiru by Akira Kurosawa.

http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/ikiru/
Ikiru is about a Japanese man who, near the end of his life, learns he has a terminal disease. He has, up to that point, wasted his whole life at his government job. Learning of his illness inspires in the main character a will to change, and seeing him undergo that inspires change in those around him. But, and this is another lesson to be learned from the film, we see that the main character's transformation has no lasting effect on those around him. Change has to come from within.

Another film seriously worth watching is Whiplash. I saw it mentioned in this subreddit in passing and am glad I did.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7d_jQycdQGo

If you want me to elaborate on the things that I didn't, ask. I have a lot more film recommendations, but cannot recommend any more books, as I do not read that much. I don't recommend any music as I would consider most of what I listen to to be blue pill.

u/CaptainFalconer · 1 pointr/asktrp

Well, I highly suggest this book's section on how to hold conversations

  • http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405959619&robot_redir=1


    Some simple rules I've seen to carry conversations,

  • Try to be fun/engaging rather than funny (I.e. quality delivery is far more important than content)
  • If you forget the perfect word to describe what you're talking about, then just keep going, and use 10 to 20 words to describe it, sometimes asking if the other person knows what you're talking about.
  • Free associate off of someone's last sentence to dig up conversation topic segues
  • If you blank, pick a word, what does that word make you think of, what does that word make you think of, what does that word make you think of, Cool, now see if you can make a conversation based on this word you thought of
  • Avoid questions, just make statements, and how it makes you connect with something in your life

u/SisyphosOnTop · 1 pointr/asktrp

Set yourself a goal and then follow up on it mercilessly. Easier said than done.

Man I wish someone told me to read these three books when I was 17:

u/MasterShake777 · 1 pointr/asktrp

That ones got mixed results but you are actually trying to raise it. You might be trying to hard and having too much outcome dependence. If people feel like you want something from them or detect insecurity then theyll avoid you. Try working on your life and mission and let your social circle grow on its own. It took me 3 months to get comfortable in my new city but its dope now.

For me, nofap puts my test through the roof. Also read this I think it should on the sidebar tbh. Best RP book in existence imo

u/thrwy75479 · 1 pointr/asktrp

If it's a habit, check out The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg. The premise is that most of what we do is based on habits, which are part of a feedback loop that involves 3 main steps: 1) cue; 2) routine; and 3) reward.

In your case, with drugs, there may be cue(s)—perhaps social atmosphere, girls, etc.—that fire off neurons telling you to partake in your routine (drugs), which results in a reward of some sort, perhaps dopamine.

With knowledge of your habit loops, you can figure out the cues, change your routine (maybe do exercise), and get the same reward. Repeated over time, it can form new, healthier habits.

If you're having difficulty, or you're addicted, consult a professional.

u/heist_of_saint_graft · 3 pointsr/asktrp

Congratulations: you now have three months to practice becoming the best pussy-licker in town. A skill that will stand you in good stead whether this girl stays around or not, believe me, believe me.

It's dangerous to go alone. Take this.

u/flashbang123 · 1 pointr/asktrp

You need to start somewhere...start chatting with everyone and keep things platonic (guys and girls), then try flirting a little with girls, then when you feel confident and can feel the ebb and flow of conversation, ask a girl out. Everything you do in life is some kind of exercise, the more you do it, the better you will get at it. Rome wasn't built in a day.

Maybe read this or something along these lines.

u/Immuchtooawesome · 2 pointsr/asktrp

I've read multiple chapters of this book and found it to be useful. http://www.amazon.com/Definitive-Book-Body-Language/dp/0553804723/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1421350241&sr=8-3&keywords=body+language

I can't give you a definitive answer since body language is mostly an all in one deal. Either you appear confident, or you dont. Try this book for some ideas though.

u/creatineboss · 2 pointsr/asktrp

http://www.amazon.com/Never-Eat-Alone-Secrets-Relationship/dp/0385512058

although I haven't read it, its on my booklist and its pretty highly recommended

u/GrandCzarOfRedPill · 2 pointsr/asktrp

Have you read "The Sex God Method?"

It can help you with DEVI (Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion).


http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0557036488?pc_redir=1404193524&robot_redir=1



u/salezman12 · 0 pointsr/asktrp

You need a confidence boost. Go buy a pair of cowboy boots, and put these in them. You'll be 4 inches taller and it will completely change the way everyone looks at you. They're a little tricky to walk in at first, but you'll get the hang of it.

u/D_Trius100 · 2 pointsr/asktrp

LMAOOO! Can't stop laughing at these comments.

But with all seriousness, just read Daniel Roses's Sex God Method

u/chachaChad · 1 pointr/asktrp

I just bought some of these.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015322NR2/ref=od_aui_detailpages00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Of course, you have to have the right kind of shoes for these things but I've always wanted to buy cowboy boots. I'll let you know how a 6'5 guy makes out in the bars.

u/RedPill-BlackLotus · 8 pointsr/asktrp

Always have to spoon feed this shit into you faggots.

When I say no I feel guilty

No more mister nice guy

I hope you have abbs.

u/Bowie1 · 3 pointsr/asktrp

Don't try to climb anything you fucking idiot. Social groups aren't made to climb to the top and conquer them. They are made to have mutually beneficial interactions amongst all.

2) The problem isn't your friends, it's the fact that you are a huge pussy and don't stand up for yourself. Read this book, it will change your life

u/GayLubeOil · 10 pointsr/asktrp

Wear a 7-11 shirt

When things get heated say the following words.

"I am Allah's humble messenger for he speaks through me."

"The Djin have gotten your tong mother, I understand these are not your words"

Nobody wants to argue with a religious person.

u/2comment · 1 pointr/asktrp

Buy a little gold or silver (I think silver is cheaper in comparison) in form of coins, not certificates. Do not buy them all in one place because faking is a problem (China). Test them. Buy slowly over time. I'd say eventually 3-5% net worth. Hide them well, in several spots (not just in bank safe deposits though some can go there) and disguise them. This is less an investment and more of portable reserve in case paper money goes to shit. Several thousand fiat currencies have gone this way, the USD/Euro/etc will be no exception, only question is when.

>Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value – zero

— Voltaire

The rest I would split between stocks and real estate. Rental properties are a good steady income. Stocks are growth but also a huge gamble and it can go to shit at any time. Any investment will have pitfalls, and the pitfalls will be different. That's why you want to diversify, if the stock market goes to shit, you want something that can ride it out. If real estate goes to shit, you can fall on your stocks. Etc. There are several other options (bonds) and right now the stock market is very overheated imo, particularly the myriad of web/tech stocks with P/E over 60, but Idk much about those other markets.

When you buy into things, do it at a steady pace to avoid massive peaks (although you can miss the dips too, unfortunately) and average out your buy-in.

This is Warren Buffett's favorite book, old but good to read.

I wouldn't say don't listen to anything by Tim Ferris but take everything he says with a huge grain of salt. He hasn't had a 4h work week in his life. He works very hard from what I heard, but what he works hard at is selling people dreams. Specifically that you can have it all.

Live modestly.