Top products from r/demisexuality
We found 3 product mentions on r/demisexuality. We ranked the 3 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
1. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Come as You Are The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Here you go!
Oh, I didn't mean to imply you didn't know it's real, just to support that knowledge.
As for the book, I actually found it at my local library. It's also on amazon.
It only has a smallish chapter on demi, but it had a lot of lines that really resonated with me.
Here's one that I actually took a picture of:
'Many asexuals struggle for years trying to find some indication of what's wrong with them or whether anyone else feels the way they do.'
https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Orientation-Introduction-Asexuality/dp/1631440020/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=invisible+orientation&qid=1556291418&s=gateway&sr=8-1
Cis allosexual here.
Stress and depression are both libido killers. Anti-depressants also have a known side effect of lessening libido. So, I suspect you're on a "people in general" scenario, rather than a demisexual-specific scenario.
What you describe is termed "arousal non-concordance", when the body's arousal and the mind's arousal don't overlap. You may also want to check out the term "responsive desire".
The book Come As You Are (amazon.com) addresses both topics.
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