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u/WaxTheSackBiggot · 1 pointr/detrans

>What do I do and how do I free them of their delusions?
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>When you figure it out, let me know!

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I don't know for certain but I'm currently building a folder. A folder of posts, screenshots, archive links, videos, chat logs anything and everything I can get my hands on that shows the side these kids aren't getting in health class or on the internet. Post op complications, suicide rates, side effects, surgical gore, regret, sexual dysfunction this folder has fucking everything and it's literally stomach churning. Why am I doing this? Because at the end of the last school year (so like May / June) my 9 year old came home and said nonchalantly "Did you know you could change your gender with an operation? Yeah! I learned about it in health class (\^_\^)". That's how it's being discussed with children in my region. As though you can go in, talk to a doctor, schedule an operation and boom! you're now a boy or girl for realsies!

Right now my oldest is still in the age where he thinks adults and the authorities are infallible. I have subfolders with some major fuckups committed by the medical establishment that we can look back on now and say what were they thinking?! but at the time was considered established fact or best practice. Think Thalidomide for pregnant women. Or how the medical community just accepted the word of Purdue sales reps that their Opiate derivatives were not at all addictive. Or how just a few years ago vaping was going to be the safe and harmless way to ween oneself off of nicotine. Did you know the guy who invented the lobotomy was co-winner of the 1949 Nobel prize for medicine? I didn't! But I do now because I need to be able to show examples to my kids how the medical community and/or the 'authorities' are capable of fucking up horribly and being unable to admit it.

I'm not looking forward to forcing my 10, 11 or 12 year old kid into reading first hand accounts posted on the internet about how pubic hair is growing inside the 'vaginal canal' of some unfortunate mtf or how about how - oh I dunno - some thing just rotted off down there but I will if I have to. I may have to take some Gravol before we get into the image files I have labelled <penile_inversion.jpg> 1 thru 12 but so be it. Lots of posts about a doctor named Brassard who is apparently known as 'The Butcher of Montreal' and another one named Dr. Bowers. Gut wrenching first hand accounts of the worst post-op complications and care imaginable. Either way, if it ever comes to this, at least my kids will know that one cannot simply change their gender let alone through a simple operation where everyone goes home happy. Mark my fucking words.

u/PossiblyFluid · 5 pointsr/detrans

>Over the next several weeks, I slowly felt like I had a new lease on life. Emotions were more accessible, I felt closer to my partner, and I felt like my connection to the world was strengthened. The breast tenderness was annoying, but exciting in its on way.

I'm on a low-dose for 3.5 months and I also enjoy life much more. Dysphoria is certainly down.

>I still pass as male, but it is getting harder to hide my chest, which has caused panic. I am afraid of being out, and have been questioning my decision. I like the physical changes, but the reality of having breasts while closeted has made my social anxiety run wild.

My breasts, well nipples mostly, have grown this months and they can be seen through shirts and T-shirts, which also makes me quite anxious...

My advice:

  • For now I plan to deal with any 'questions' and 'weird looks' the following way: "Dunno, I was born this way. And why the hell are you looking at my chest?"
  • Also If they grow larger I'm planning of trying a bandeau brallette like this one . Check it out as well!

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    > I am trying to decide if I should continue or stop medicine, or at least maybe take a break.

    This is something I think about quite a lot lately. I identify as gender-non-conforming-male, so basically a male who doesn't give a f**k about gender norms etc. Logically I get that it's better for me to stop HRT (especially cause I'm DIYing), but I like the changes and I don't want dysphoria back. Right now I just feel good, I'm productive, I am more connected to my family and myself... and I want to have a female body and pass as a female, but live as male (Transestitic wishes).

    I have no advice for you here, I'm describing my situation just to let you know you're not alone with such 'tasks' in life.

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    Take care!
u/otsanafae · 10 pointsr/detrans

You literally couldn't be a female surgeon back then. Does that help you understand?

https://www.amazon.com/Women-Science-Social-Cultural-History-ebook/dp/B00CXU30SO/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?keywords=women+in+science+textbook&qid=1557750317&s=gateway&sr=8-3

Honestly teach yourself more about gender and you'll understand better

u/AbstruseMurmurings · 1 pointr/detrans

I’ve seen epilators... once you get serious, the pain isn’t so bad.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00742JW8S/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=

Also, there is an optical pulse method for home use...

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00HN6ILCI/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

...aaaaand courtesy of some of the more effeminate gay dudes...

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B003JFJF5E/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

You should further research each to be sure that it meets your needs, but they are options I have known used.