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Dossie Easton (who wrote The Ethical Slut) and Janet Hardy put out a series of books on topping and bottoming that, along with Jay Wiseman's S&M 101 really guide the beginner through a lot of pertinent questions such as these. What I really appreciate about Easton and Hardy is how broadly they define the emotional energy we play with.

They talk about people who enjoy elaborate scenes that involve slicing their partner's clothes off with a straight razor and having amazing sex, and also a couple that just enjoys riding roller coasters and gets an extra zing by making out afterward. It's been debated round and round what exactly it is that we're playing with here. Whether sexuality is something entirely essential and unchanging or if it is a purely social construction, and over course many flavors in between.

> If you could have sex with any character...?

I'm a teeny bit infatuated with Black Widow, so watching the new Captain America movie was blissful. Still crossing my fingers that they might consider giving her a series on Netflix or her own movie.

Sam and Dean Winchester from Supernatural are totally crush worthy. I've had many a fantasy in my mind about them. wink wink Individually, Threesome, Cuckholding, BDSM play... oh man, whew!

> Do you read erotica?

Oh yes, when I have time. Lately, my reading/writing has been consumed by scholarly endeavors (with the pinch of DPP thrown in) but when I'm reading for pleasure, I tear through books and love to throw erotica in the mix. Last summer while I was out of the country, I downloaded a ton of works by Anaïs Nin including Delta of Venus, Little Birds, 'Henry and June', etc. While the first two weren't published until the late 1970's, they were written presumably in the 1940's and it's enthralling to read her writing style and viewpoints on sex, kink and fetishes.

Very hot prompt BadGirlfriend69, it reminds me a lot of this one ebook I read once.

>When assistant lead researcher Kevin accidentally contaminates himself with an experimental pleasure serum, his lab-mates must race against the clock to save his life. His sexy wife and fellow researcher Becky soon realizes that she has to make her husband miserable to prevent him from dying of a pleasure overload, and quickly recruits two hunky lab technicians to save her husband's life by making his worst nightmares about her sexy past come true.

Forced to Watch …for Science! by Kenzie Silver

https://www.amazon.com/Finally-Some-Good-Delicious-Tacos/dp/1790356229

great book, in this theme!

Amazon link: The Complete Fifty Shades of Alice https://www.amazon.com/dp/150070945X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_aepKDbDJBYXHE

I am through the first book; it was a lot better then the “actual” Fifty Shades series.

While Shakespeare certainly caused me some trouble back in school, I am really enjoying all the incredible prompts people have posted.

Also this reminds me that I really need to buy this calendar.

I think you might enjoy these books. Seems to be right up your alley.

http://www.amazon.com/Sleeping-Beauty-Trilogy-Box-Set/dp/0452294754

Sorry for interrupting the sexual tension - http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0001NBLYA

I watched the movies Sunday afternoons when I was a kid, at that time just fun action and that touch of primitive life that all boyscouts long for... Last year I bought the box set and realized that this 8 year old me had been watching some very hot scenes :)

Now back to getting naked with my Jane

If you need some more inspiration for absurd sexual D&D, look no further than The Book of Erotic Fantasy

the scenario does, not the writing. a good spell check will help

http://www.amazon.com/Sleeping-Beauty-Trilogy-Box-Set/dp/0452294754

Well, I was talking about this one.

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Batteries 4 AA batteries required.

Though...if you are into the Mythos, this actually isn't a bad book, considering the subject matter. http://www.amazon.com/Eldritch-Blue-Love-Cthulhu-Mythos/dp/0974029750

First, we'll need some of this...
http://www.amazon.com/Weiman-Jewelry-Cleaner-with-Brush/dp/B002YC83MO/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1418970698&sr=8-2&keywords=jewelry+cleaner

You're welcome.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Game-Undercover-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/184767237X

William Zinnser's On Writing Well is indispensable.

Mistress - If you are you the mistress then you need to know this...
http://www.amazon.com/Mistress-Mysterious-Ways-Your-Husbands/dp/1500438855/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1408238878&sr=8-2&keywords=justine+blackwell

Paid: 'The Butcher and Other Erotica', by Alina Reyes and translated by David Watson. To be specific, I'm recommending the first short story in the collection, titled 'The Butcher'. Here's a Goodreads link and an Amzazon link.

From the Inside Flap: "A young Frenchwoman goes to work in a butcher's shop during her college vacation. Every day the butcher whispers obscenities in her ear, describing their imagined lovemaking. And as the summer heat takes hold, so does her lust."

Paid Description: I can't say I found this short story to be particularly erotic, but it was certainly unforgettable. The sensation of reading 'The Butcher', though occasionally uncomfortable, felt like being wholly submerged into another person's sexuality. Every sentence is an image and every paragraph is tangible. That said, the deliberately dehumanizing meat-related metaphors gave me a head-ache about half way through.