(Part 2) Top products from r/sissyhypno

I've bought all my heels off of Amazon. I wear a men's size 10.5. All the shoes I bought were Pleaser, because I noticed that they all have both larger and wider shoe sizes. Almost as if they were built for men!

• My very first pair and still my favorite. Got them in Red, size "11 B(M)". Fit like a dream. Oh my god I've had so much fun in these heels.
  
  
• My second pair. I bought the same shoe size, only they're a little bit small. But they're within the range where they're still comfortable and I feel like such a slut when I wear them.
  
  
• My newest pair. I also got these in the same size, and they fit perfectly as well. They're my "sissy" heels, and I feel so girly when I wear them. I've built an outfit around it and I look forward to wearing it all (plus my pink lipstick and wig) and getting on my knees and sucking my dildo. Then fucking myself silly with while I moan like the gurl I am.

EDIT: this post is about controlling the fantasies you have while masturbating, not about stopping masturbation.

1. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing during masturbation. And, by definition, your fantasies will be different from your real life. So my first piece of advice is to stop worrying about it.
   
   
2. Once you've relaxed a bit, you'll find that you're able to take part in your fantasies and even control them on a conscious level. This process is a lot like lucid dreaming, except it involves your fantasies rather than your dreams. You consciously enter your fantasies and take control of them. You can use this process to direct your fantasies to whatever outcome you wish.
   
   
3. For example, when your mind becomes lost in sissy fantasies, take control of the fantasy consciously. Imagine that behind the man dominating you is a door. Go through the door and imagine there is a Kate Upton type of girl there. She's naked and smiling at you. She explains that the sissy encounter was just a test. She had to be sure your were a real man before she would let you fuck her. She tells you you've passed the test (because you left the man and came to her) and she now belongs to you.
   
   
4. I've included a couple of links below about lucid dreaming. This will get you familiar with the subject. After that, you want to start treating your fantasies as if they were lucid dreams.
   
   Lucid Dreaming. --- Wiki entry for lucid dreaming
   
   Are You Dreaming --- A very good book that describes how to take control of your dreams. Techniques can loosely be applied to fantasies as well.
   
   
5. Contrary to popular belief, your sexuality is mutable. You are never forced into one type of behavior or another. You have choices and you have control. It just takes some training and practice to recognize that.

This is the largest plug I have/use, it's pretty big lol. Red Boy Large Butt Plug https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000AOMAEA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_nyjezb6PFEHXB
You will feel FULL, it took me years to get it in.

This is my favorite big plug, just the right size
Doc Johnson Classic - Butt Plug - Large - 5.7 in. Long and 2.2 in. Wide https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000LQI7SA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_ZCjezb46WW69V

I've also got an inflatable one but it's fairly long and I'm not sure how effective it is at stretching. Master Series Expand X-Large Inflatable Anal Plug https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00LAFTVEK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_-Ajezb4BFJ6EQ

This one may be the widest/least forgiving, I've yet to successfully fit it in. Wowlife Extra Large Glass Butt Plug 2.3 X 4.13 Inch https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NQT7032/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_DBjezbXFDNXDK

No, it is not permanent
I feel like when people encounter this sissy hypno content for the first time, it comes off as a bit absurd (frankly it is pretty absurd, but a boner's a boner). Nonetheless the viewer will likely be sexually aroused to some degree due to the sheer intensity of the content. The fact that this genre you've never encountered before sexually arouses you makes you wonder: "perhaps this sissy content is for me, and I just never realized it until now." And once such a notion has crossed your mind, it brings your previously held personal identity and sexual identity into question.

The point of sissy porn is to convince you (via reinforcement, subtle suggestion, manipulation, etc) that your true identity is that of a sissy and that your previously held notions of self were merely an attempt at concealing your 'true' (sissy) identity from yourself. The more you jerk off to sissy porn, the more you reinforce this narrative to yourself.

To illustrate this, consider your question "Is it permanent?" What exactly is 'it'? Is 'it' simply your continued masturbation to sissy porn? Or is 'it' an unwanted/confusing sense of identity brought about from your repeated viewing? In either case, the answer to your question is no.

The key to preventing sissy hypno porn from controlling your life is to set aside some time for critically evaluating your personal identity for yourself (with cogent justifications), and to be honest with yourself about your true sexual identity. Doing this will help you bat away thoughts reinforced by sissy hypno porn

(i.e. when you come across a video on the internet with flashing pictures of dicks and some lady saying "your purpose in life is to be a sissy slut, and you know it's true because you're aroused" or whatever, you can rest assured knowing that (1) you define your own purpose in life, (2) her reasoning is faulty [your arousal is a necessary but not sufficient justification for your sexual identity], and (3) whoever published the video is actively trying to fuck with your sense of self in order to get more views.)

Here are some good resources:

Mindfulness, by Ellen Langer

The Power of Habit, by Charles Duhigg

Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual
Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports

Magic Shave cream and a scraper is what I use to remove hair. It doesn't burn or irritate my skin and because it is made for facial hair it hasn't bothered my boi-pussy. It leaves my hole and taint area totally hairless and smooth.

I have also done some anal bleaching which has lightened my hole and I think made it a lot cuter.

Anal Bleach Creams I have used:

Amaira

Bleach my Butt

Nadinola

I can totally recommend a penis gag. It's great for when you get into a trance and want something to suck ;)

Amazon sells this. Should work like a charm!

You plug the Sawzall into the remote, and plug the remote into your power supply.

Definitely don't do what I did and accidentally buy the "Rebellious Ryan". its massive. something like this or this would probably be good starters.

Try this for sizing: https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/4kxzms/measurements_and_sizes_for_sissies/

I'm also working on a sissy starter kit! Here's some of the dildos I have listed on it:

• http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Realistic-Removable-Suction/dp/B00347A4X4/ref=sr_1_9_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1461460034&sr=1-9&keywords=doc+johnson+dildo
  
  
• http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-James-Realistic-Flesh/dp/B009SPSDY8?ie=UTF8&dpID=31un6xwBHKL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_SL500_SR100%2C100_&refRID=309ZHCREXFKAGKSRSEM5&ref_=pd_aw_sim_121_of_16&ref_=redir_mobile_desktop
  
  
• http://www.amazon.com/Jeff-Stryker-0272-02-BX-Ultra-Realistic/dp/B000CD00T6?ie=UTF8&dpID=31fKZ%2BrGfRL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL100_SR100%2C100_&refRID=KN49N4JGRYRCNAQXQRW9&ref_=pd_aw_sim_121_1&ref_=redir_mobile_desktop

I heard this is a good cheap alternative but I havnt tried it.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00120WDRK/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A1MD6J1KVR2O2V

My guess is Doc Johnson Crystal jellies
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000293EFC?pc_redir=T1

With doc Johnson vaculock suction cup
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00162S422?pc_redir=T1

No recommendation at the moment, but one thing to try is combining a desensitizing gel with your chastity cage.

something like this:
https://www.amazon.com/Not-Yet-Gel-5-Ounce/dp/B000BIDF9O

Should keep your clit numb to any manual stimulation.

I 100% recommend this dildo. It's thick but it has give. It will help stretch your ass out more so you can stuff more cocks into your asshole in the future. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B016OPZPK4/

Also some fishnets https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000GISJRC/

surprised no one has said this one. it's thick as hell, long enough to hit the g spot, and it fucking SQUIRTS. I bought a bigger syringe/hose on amazon and make my own fake cum, get it nice and warm, and cover myself. it's insane.

https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Squirting-Realistic-Cock/dp/B004G87EMY