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Up top: standard issue plunge/push-up bra with a tank or whatever over it. Depending on the bra and rave in question, the word "nothing" should be included in the concept of "whatever" :D ). I say standard-issue, but if you've got one of the hard-to-find sizes that are all so typical 'round these parts, you might well look for something by Lula Lu https://www.lulalu.com/t/category/bras/

For the bottom, your answer is to be found in the shapewear section of your favorite physical or online womenswear store:

• if you want to hold a tuck, something like http://www.amazon.com/Jockey-Womens-Skimmies-Slipshort-SMALL/dp/B011YKMITA/ is in order.
  
  
• if you want to avoid a tight tuck yet minimize/eliminate distinctive bulges (and plan on wearing a dress or skirt), then look at this kind of thing: http://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sexy-Shaping-Skirt-Black/dp/B019774XBI/. Sometimes these things have seams that make them suitable only for underwear, but many just look like a bodycon skirt and can be worn straight up (particularly in situations like raves)
  
  It's going to be up to you to figure out where the compromise between the desired level of control and the desired level of comfort is. :D

Sorry, I ment to post these yesterday, but got busy.

I ware these on regular days. (I use to ware suits and ties.)

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00RDOWA7C?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o09_s00

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CQ3DRAO?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s01

I ware these with jeans on casual days (I use to ware polos and dress shirts with jeans or slacks.)

http://www.target.com/p/women-s-short-sleeve-v-tee-mossimo-supply-co-junior-s/-/A-17263827#prodSlot=medium_1_17&term=mossimo+v+neck

http://www.target.com/p/women-s-fair-isle-cardigan-charcoal-gray-heather-combo-u-knit/-/A-50023769#prodSlot=medium_1_27&term=sweater

http://www.target.com/p/coatigan-gallery-white-mossimo/-/A-17147446#prodSlot=medium_2_20&term=sweater

I hope these help.

FYI: Blouses suck, the dam things are see through and you have to ware tank tops under them, so I just ware nice shirts with dress pants or skirts.

PS: I ware a lot of Cardigans, because I need pockets. lol

So I live in Texas where we get maybe 2 months of actual winter weather, but my big wish for next year when I can hopefully somewhat pass is LONG COATS. I love the one cosplay long coat I have and have always thought that tailcoats were the only piece of mens fashion that was worth a damn in history. Looking forward to them so much. Don't so much have outfits but I'll post a couple cute/cool ones. My fashion sense is "peppy goth" so ymmv.

https://www.asos.com/us/asos-design/asos-design-hybrid-coat-with-padded-underlayer-in-black/prd/12764702?clr=black&colourWayId=16480165&SearchQuery=&cid=2641

https://www.asos.com/us/oasis/oasis-long-padded-coat-in-black/prd/13828055

https://www.asos.com/us/moon-river/moon-river-mixed-check-trench-coat/prd/13861334?clr=taupe-multi&colourWayId=16572138&SearchQuery=&cid=2641

https://www.asos.com/us/missguided/missguided-pocket-detail-coat-in-black/prd/13525170?clr=black&colourWayId=16480575&SearchQuery=&cid=2641

https://www.asos.com/us/asos-design/asos-design-brushed-utility-coat-in-khaki/prd/12651882

https://www.asos.com/us/asos-tall/asos-design-tall-tux-maxi-coat-in-black/prd/12620927

https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/kenneth-cole-new-york-fencer-melton-wool-maxi-coat/5040952

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HRPGRR6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_iOoZDbVAH1ZX6


https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G9D6H5C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_1OoZDbQ7XZ5CD

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073XMCF5P/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_6PoZDbTK473AQ
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MQ21DH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_rRoZDbY96ASKX

https://www.chicwish.com/prairie-grid-rabato-coat-in-black.html

https://www.justfashionnow.com/product/brown-pockets-vintage-faux-suede-solid-outerwear-4620807.html

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M1GEIV6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_jZoZDbPMV5JKW

Yes, of course. You just have to buy the right ones. These Maiden Form boy shorts are my go-to. I buy them by the bushel.

A good cotton thong with also hold everything in place securely for all day wear.

And over time HRT will make the question much easier to answer. :)

There's a bunch that aren't tights like these https://www.amazon.com/Tribal-Womens-Flatten-Capri-White/dp/B072HJC141/, and there's jean ones too. I love capris, super cute.

I have this hoodie that looks great with skinny jeans
Tom's Ware Women Slim fit Zip-up Hoodie Jacket TWHD1003-BLACK-L https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HIILIO4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_mO0FxbD93ENTW

Try bottoms with some flare to them, to give yourself the illusion of hips, and tops with relatively low necklines. (It takes the focus off your shoulders-- wear a necklace and it'll help with the lack of boobs too.) Personally I always feel like I girl better in a dress than anything else. Sleeveless and strappy tops can draw undue attention to your shoulders, so I personally avoid them. Finally, define your waist somehow-- if the outfit doesn't nip in at the waist, get a belt or scarf and tie it around.

I don't own this dress, so I can't comment on fit or quality, but a lot of dresses in my closet follow this basic style:
https://www.amazon.com/MsBasic-Womens-Sleeve-Unique-X-Large/dp/B01N9E04TT/

Thanks for the comments! I went for this in the end - http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00JUQZBQ8 - bit more unisex and cheaper too, so I can afford to splash out on a woman's bag when I transition. :D

Oh, one more thing: try searching for tunics, shirt dresses, and tank dresses. They handle the length and may be sleeveless. Over jeans, leggings, or capris, they can work very well. Some things I recently bought that aren't terrible on me (though I don't feel like I've really found my style yet):

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01CYA8L6S/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B017NF3SHQ/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01F5ULCX8/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0161AA1GU/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B010E89RBU/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DEBEMRI/

Here is what I wear to work. I wear skinny jeans or bootcut. And appropriate shoes, but always from the women's side of the shelf.