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Act Like Men: 40 Days to Biblical Manhood
https://www.amazon.com/Act-Like-Men-Biblical-Manhood/dp/0802457193

As a husband who has played his share of video games, I know how it's easy to lose track of time in them. Try to make a compromise with him and his time on them. Tell him you want to spend time with him while he's not distracted. Have something in mind to do. My wife would often say she wanted me off the games, but I would get off and literally sit there with nothing to do.

Right now his priorities are out of order. He needs to be off the couch and making sure the house is taken care of. Let him know in a loving way that you can't be expected to work all day and come home and do all of the household chores also. If he wants to be a home maker he actually has to do the job. It would probably be best of he went out and got a real job, but you need to wait for the end of your enlistment so you can take over at home. Your GI Bill is transferable to your spouse so you may be able to get him to start school when you get out.

Don't give up on him. It may take a long time for him to change. I always was the one with a job but I spent most of my time drinking with friends or playing games. I still do both, but now it's once or twice a month instead of every night. One of the things that helped me was reading a book called Act Like Men. I will post a link. I know when I was at that stage I did not want to read anything, so I will put the authors YouTube on here as well. Don't be surprised if he rejects all of it, I would have. He may need to find all this out on his own. It took me over 10 years of marriage.



Act Like Men: 40 Days to Biblical Manhood https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802457193/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_C11XAbGXT6FGV

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