Reddit reviews AskMen.com Presents The Style Bible: The 11 Rules for Building a Complete and Timeless Wardrobe (Askmen.com Series)

Flip through GQ and Esquire at the bookstore sometime. They tend to have good advice each month.

Also, try a book like The Style Bible. There's also one by Details.

books:

http://www.amazon.com/Details-Mens-Style-Manual-Ultimate/dp/159240328X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1318604822&sr=8-1

http://www.amazon.com/AskMen-com-Presents-Style-Bible-Building/dp/0061208507/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1318604822&sr=8-6

Here are some fashion references that I used and helped. It was also the style bible not fashion bible. lol

http://www.amazon.com/AskMen-com-Presents-The-Style-Bible/dp/0061208507/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1372205417&sr=8-3&keywords=details+men%27s+style+manual

http://www.amazon.com/Details-Mens-Style-Manual-Ultimate/dp/159240328X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1372205417&sr=8-1&keywords=details+men%27s+style+manual

http://www.amazon.com/Esquire-The-Handbook-Style-Looking/dp/1588167461/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1372205417&sr=8-2&keywords=details+men%27s+style+manual

Dealing with conflict and having long relationships was something I had to build over time, and most of that will come with just working toward being the ultimate man woman desire. Having confidence, good direction in your life, lots of friends, good hobbies, good manners, being gentleman, having boundaries and standards. Don't be insecure or clingy. I didn't just read one or two books I read about 40 and at one point it became an obsession to be this ideal man woman desire.

Nothin wrong with how you look, man. But I would suggest workin on your style. I would recommend this book: http://www.amazon.com/AskMen-com-Presents-The-Style-Bible/dp/0061208507/ref=pd_sim_14_6?ie=UTF8&refRID=0K3SNGZ77Y465XNJH3H0

Or you could just start checking out some mens style website like AskMen.com, Mens Health or something. Ladies love a guy that dresses well. I also think its easier to be confident when your outfit is on point.