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u/reality_tester · 1 pointr/BPDlovedones

Yes, she was very self-aware. Also told me she could not hold onto the feeling that I loved her for very long. That she was like a well with a crack in it. Told me she was a runner. That she had fear of abandonment. Told me she could not find the person inside her that I needed. Let me know when she was about to dissociate. She also apologized multiple times for her 'fucked-up-ness'. I supported her in trying to divorce her family of origin.

I was repaid with betrayal and abuse on a massive scale. Such a mind fuck. This is part of the hook though, they are aware of their problems but can't do anything about it:

https://youtu.be/TNQQIRKLPHs

I think that is why many counselors and therapists hate working with them.

But if I look at her actions they tell me who she is.

She had been in a DBT program and I would imagine the research would have said she was in remission when I met her. She continued to improve during the 3 year friendship before the relationship.

I am working through this book now, it is really awesome IMO:

https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Narcissists-Nightmare-Narcissist-Supplying/dp/1536668583