Reddit reviews How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You

Just start doing it.

You'll notice in the video that the best reaction he got from his compliments was for a VERY SPECIFIC thing and not just generalizations.

In other words instead of just saying "you look nice today" or "nice shoes" he complimented specific characteristics. So, not just a nice hydro flask but that he liked the color of the hydro flask.

Th.ere's a book (How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You https://www.amazon.com/dp/0809229897/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_XOy1DbPA8SA98) that explores things like this.

Edit 1 :. Hi ! Thanks for reading this older comment. It means a lot to me. Wow! That's a great looking watch.. Did you get it for yourself or was it a gift? Really? She got you this for your birthday? You must mean a lot to her.

https://bigthink.com/ideafeed/how-to-fall-in-love-36-questions-and-deep-eye-contact

Some more reading material.


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Oh - also, this may seem ridiculous, but there's a good book "How to make anyone fall in love with you." I had a friend who had romantic anxiety for all of his 20s who recently got engaged in his early 30s. He told me I had recommended this book to him once (I didn't even remember recommending it to him) and it had totally changed his ability to flirt with women.

It has a ridiculous title (and doesn't actually tell you how to make ANYONE fall in love with you) but it does go in depth about the romantic social cues people give each other. Don't take it all too seriously, but there's some good advice in there.

http://www.amazon.com/How-Make-Anyone-Fall-Love/dp/0809229897

My best tip is this: When I want to yell at them, it is so much more effective to get my face down at their level and just ask for their help. They aren't so short these days, but they still appreciate being a partner in solving something rather than the guilty party being scolded. I mean, who wouldn't prefer it that way.

Story time:

I was a stay-at-home mom of a newly blended family. I am type-A. I like lists, and I like order. My children... not so much. I got tired of trying to herd these kittens into doing chores, especially the dishes. I thought it would be so much simpler if they could just check off a list. So I spent half a day working out the most efficient order of tasks (e.g., obviously clean dishes must be put away before dirties can be washed, and obviously the table and counters should be wiped off before the floor is swept), and then printing up a clear, concise, pretty, colorful list of tasks for doing the dishes. I taped it to the fridge at their eye level.

I gathered my children. I explained to them the purpose of the list ("Yes, Mommy," they said). I went over each item with them ("Yes, Mommy," they said), and asked if they understood each ("Yes, Mommy," they said). Did they have any questions? "No, Mommy," they said. Okay, run along and play while I make lunch.

So, lunch was lovely, and I went to another room to do my own chore. Pretty soon, sounds started coming from the kitchen that sounded more like whacking each other with brooms and dishcloths than actually doing dishes or any part of the dishes list. "Are you doing the dishes?" "Yes, Mommy!"

The sounds became less and less dish-like. I went in to see what was going on.

Not dishes, I'll tell you what.

"Guys, guys, guys!"

"Yes, Mommy?"

"Are you following the list?"

Three wide, innocent, doe-eyed faces turn to me, and in all seriousness they ask, "What list?"

What list? What liiiist??!

I called my darling at work, and when I heard that greeting, all I could say - in a slightly hysterical voice, through gritted teeth - was, "They said whaaaat liiiist."

We laugh about it now.

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I hear you, buddy. I know it can seem hopeless sometimes, but there just might be some things you haven't tried yet.

Being "a nice guy" is cool, but by itself, it's not enough to be attractive.

There are common behavioral traits that often pique curiosity & interest naturally among people. Learn more about the concepts that fuel attraction, and develop your own personal attractive qualities (beyond & in addition to just being "a nice guy").

You don't have to change your core values, and you don't have to be rich, or a chiseled model, or "a pick-up artist," or "a player," or a misogynist. You just need to learn how to behave (genuinely) in ways that naturally make people more attracted to you.

A lot of "nice guys" complain that they always hear women say "I wish I could just find a nice guy" while those same women seem to date nothing but jerks. The "jerks" that some women date simply display other attractive traits that most "nice guys" don't - things like confidence, sense of humor, fun, mystery, emotional independence, masculinity, etc. (...and unfortunately, those "jerks" can also be selfish, dishonest, unfaithful, abusive, etc.)

Being a nice guy gets you a "hello" and a handshake.
Being attractive gets you a date.
Being an attractive nice guy gets you a whole lot more.

If you haven't already read them, you might find some useful info in books like:
"The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene
"Love Tactics" by Thomas W. McKnight & Robert H. Phillips
"How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You" by Leil Lowndes

...And avoid online dating websites/apps - I could endlessly list reasons why, but that would be a whole separate topic.

Best of luck.