Reddit reviews It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single
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My favorite was It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single. As someone who tends to get depressed about still being single in my late 20's, it's a very relevant book.
It goes through all of the "reasons" people beat themselves up over for being single, such as "I'm too picky," "I'm too needy," "I'm too busy," etc, etc. It debunks all of those and basically says that the reason you are single is simply because you haven't met the right person, and you should stop worrying that you are doing something wrong. It also has lots of reassuring statistics about why it is so much better not to marry super young.
I'm 36 and have never had a committed relationship. I read this book and it was just what I needed. I stopped thinking it was me, and realized it's really just a matter of luck. I'd also rather be by myself than with someone just to be with someone. Might be a good time to take a break (especially from OLD) and work on your confidence. Make some female friends that might have some advice.
RE: sex I agree with the comments below that every person is basically a blank slate. Just communicate and be attentive to what they like and it will be great.