Reddit reviews Modern Romance

Ah close - Modern Romance. Thanks for jogging my memory! I was at work and couldn't really look.

Yeah, it is a thing here. It happened to me many times. I asked my Japanese friends about it and they told me the same. I once asked a girl about but she kind of evaded given a concrete answer.

The Introduction of Modern Romance tells a similar story so maybe it's not exclusive to Japan (click Look Inside to read).

Holy fuck dude why'd you hit her up so much?

I know if I went to a wedding, on a saturday night too the next day I probably would be all over social media on sunday, posting pics, looking back on vids, etc.

Imagine if instead of texts and fb messages you left her messages on an answering machine back in the 90s. If you came home and some chick you made out with a few times called and left 2 or 3 messages in a row all in ONE DAY. You see where i'm going with this? This is what texting and messages are in OUR era.

I think by sunday night she probably already was turned off by that, and then you sealed the deal with calling, and even more messages. We ALL want what we can't have, so being slightly allusive, i'm not talking bullshit games high schoolers play but just a liiiiiiiiitle out of reach makes us want it even more. So you being so insanely available and desperate for her responses took all the chase away from her.


Honestly I would definitely recommend reading the book Modern Romance, it's partially funny, partially dating advice, just overall a good read, and I guarantee if you read it you'll completely see where you went wrong on this situation.

He mentions it a lot in his stand up and in Modern Romance