Reddit reviews The Arc of Love: How Our Romantic Lives Change over Time
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Those butterflies will inevitably dissipate in any long term relationship anyway. The fact that you never had them could possibly be a good thing. You've made it ten years. So I see two questions: 1) Why get married now? What will change? 2) Why not get married? If you've made it ten years then what will change by getting married?
So question 1 and 2 are essentially the same question: What will change by getting married? Answer that question and you will hopefully have your answer.
While you're mulling over the answer, perhaps you could benefit by reading Aaron Ben-Ze'ev new book The Arc of Love: How Our Romantic Lives Change over Time
Here's a review:
> “Aaron Ben-Ze’ev’s new book The Arc of Love is an enthralling account of why so many people today end up in a series of meaningless short-term relationships, hoping that one day they will meet their perfect match. But Ben-Ze’ev doesn’t settle for identifying the root cause of why we are having trouble finding profound long-lasting love. Throughout the book he offers practical advice that can help you get rid of your unrealistic ideals and show you how you can come to experience the magic of being able to grow old with the person you love.”
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>(Berit “Brit” Brogaard, author of On Romantic Love)