Reddit reviews The Pagan Book of Living and Dying: Practical Rituals, Prayers, Blessings, and Meditations on Crossing Over

I'm sorry for your loss and hope you find some peace for yourself after the funeral.

You might find a prayer you like here. Alternatively there is a book called the pagan book of living and dying which has some good information in it.

Failing that sometimes the best prayers are just heartfelt words, so a eulogy from a child trying to honour their parent would I have no doubt make your mother proud.

This is supposed to be good, but I've never read it: The Pagan Book of Living and Dying.

A. Determine whether or not there is in fact a spirit or a past life memory or whether your spirit self is travelling to other planes/worlds/dimensions wtc.
B. If there is determine what they need. Then to the best of your ability do what needs to be done to do that.
C. Like any other ritual call your corners, cast your circle and ask for the Lady and Lord to join for the purpose of helping her spirit to cross.
*If you are psychic and have the ability to communicate with your guides/angels for help in directing you in what needs to be done ritually for this specific spirit and when directed say/do release said spirit through the veil.
**If you are not psychicay awakened do C. and then ask for either the Lady and Lord or archangel Michael to take the spirit through the veil and protect the spirit until it reaches the otherworld/summerlands etc.

I often use prayers that are suitable to the spirit's situation from The Pagan Book of Living and Dying. http://www.amazon.com/The-Pagan-Book-Living-Dying/dp/0062515160

I am sorry for your loss, if you need any support PM me, I am here.

The best advice I can give you right now is let everyone know that the coven will go on and the cycle will continue as it always has. Next you need to deal with the emotional loss, (the pagan book of living and dying)[http://www.amazon.com/Pagan-Book-Living-Dying-Meditations/dp/0062515160] can give you ideas for a rit in the group but I suspect you've been in long enough you could write a rit standing on your head. Long term you need to look at who to start training as a high priestess, look for someone who felt the loss, let it hurt, then moved on and started taking a leadership role naturally, without trying to supplant you, she will most likely be your best bet.