Reddit reviews The Power of Two Workbook: Communication Skills for a Strong & Loving Marriage (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
We found 2 Reddit comments about The Power of Two Workbook: Communication Skills for a Strong & Loving Marriage (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook). Here are the top ones, ranked by their Reddit score.
The Power of Two Workbook Communication Skills for a Strong Loving Marriage
You've already received some great responses here, so hopefully you find mine just as helpful. As a fellow child of divorce, here's my experience:
I went into my adulthood determined to not make the same mistakes my parents did. I vowed that if I ever go married, I wouldn't get divorced. I just wouldn't let that happen to my family. One big problem with that theory: It assumed that I had control over the whole situation. Oops.
I got married, for all the wrong reasons, to someone I didn't love, didn't really know, and was wholly unprepared to be married.
Not only did I make the same mistakes my parents did, I refused to admit that I was making the exact same mistakes. The final bullet to the back of the head for my marriage was the fact that I married an addict.
"If I knew then what I know now..." I would never have married my first wife.
Here are my suggestions on how to best prepare yourself to prevent the same mistakes from happening to you:
What are the weeds, animals, and insects that can harm your garden (your marriage)? Infidelity, insecurity, selfishness, materialism, workaholism. What are the fertilizer and sunlight you need to help your garden? Great communication, making your marriage a priority in your life, investing in your marriage like any other important asset in your life.
Above all, make sure that your SO feels the same way in all of these areas. If she doesn't agree (wants to be in a open relationship, likes partying, doesn't like spending time with you, avoids confrontation, is insecure, whatever--these are all red flags that you should NOT ignore) then talk to her about the areas of disagreement. If she's inflexible, consider it a dealbreaker. Trust me when I say this, if she's not on board now, she sure as shit won't be on board 10 years, 2 kids, and 20 lbs from now. You both need to be in the boat, and willingly and enthusiastically rowing in the same direction ON EVERYTHING.
Good luck.
The Power of Two Workbook. https://www.amazon.com/Power-Two-Workbook-Communication-Marriage/dp/1572243341/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1542778149&sr=8-2&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=the+power+of+two&dpPl=1&dpID=416T4cEnyTL&ref=plSrch