Reddit reviews The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners

'The Sexually Dominant Woman' contains lots of information.

https://www.amazon.com/Sexually-Dominant-Woman-Workbook-Beginners/dp/1890159115/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542216938&sr=8-1&keywords=dominant+woman

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Also, doing a BDSM checklist together can help you figure out things you both might be interested in. Here's one you can download on scribd.

https://www.scribd.com/document/163631556/BDSM-Checklist#logout

Mark, male half of the hkc

You could check this book out...

There's a bunch of good books about how to Dom. Maybe check out http://www.amazon.ca/The-Sexually-Dominant-Woman-Beginners/dp/1890159115

You should also check out a subreddit that's about BDSM, as people who like rapey porn aren't necessarily into BDSM, nor do they necessarily know anything about it.

So, I don't know if what I have to say is at all helpful, and mostly I wanted to comment because I'm a little jealous at your willingness to server, lately it feels like my "puppy" is just along for the ride...but enough about me.

As far as being a new dom and books... I read a wide variety of both informational and fantasy books. I think a mix of both gave me many more ideas and options to think about and it was easier for me to pick things I liked that way. BUT The number one thing that helped was getting online and watching/reading information from other doms and subs. Asking questions and so on. I'm sorry I don't have actual book names for you. (If I think of specific ones I will get back to you!)

http://www.amazon.com/The-Mistress-Manual-Female-Dominance/dp/1890159190/ref=cm_lmf_tit_3

http://www.amazon.com/The-Sexually-Dominant-Woman-Beginners/dp/1890159115/ref=cm_lmf_tit_7

http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=cm_lmf_tit_9

Just a few to look into. :) ALL great for just getting started, and learning more about herself, her wants/needs, her sexuality...so on. Good Luck and Kink ON! :D