Reddit reviews What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal
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There are a lot of pop psychology books that cover at least the social psychological parts of what I learned:
The Person and Situation by Lee Ross and Richard Nisbett
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini
Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
What Makes Love Last by John Gottman
Nudge by Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein
(Caveat: I've only read Thinking, Fast and Slow and Nudge, but the others are from well-respected authors/leaders in their fields.)
I'm really sorry to hear about all of this.
I would strongly recommend (as others have said) looking into DBT. I'm somewhere where I can't get access easily to this kind of therapy, so I'm working with a therapist remotely and mostly doing the hard stuff on my own.
The things that have helped me most are these two books: The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook and Mindfulness for Borderline Personality Disorder.
As far as marriage goes, I also strongly recommend reading What Makes Love Last?, which goes into a lot of detail about trust in relationships and how to rebuild it when it has deteriorated.
If you like to use apps, there's a few I can recommend:
I hope this helps some.
This will require good professional help. I suggest starting with this book.
http://www.amazon.com/What-Makes-Love-Last-Betrayal/dp/1451608489/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1462462546&sr=8-1&keywords=john+gottman+betrayal