Reddit reviews Yes, Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission

Hopefully she'll be able to check it out soon, it really is a great site. Getting in with like-minded people will help a lot, I think.

I'm not sure about it being any easier for doms, just different. You know how you want to be pleased and served but still have teach, and correct if she doesn't pick it up right away, and a lot of times doms don't necessarily know how. Granted, it is different for everyone - my Master is usually pretty gentle on me, but He'll put down the hammer if He has to, particularly because I should know better. BUT, He had to learn that that was what it took to get me to listen sometimes ( :p ) But to some it comes naturally, sounds like it did with you but you're just not sure how to proceed with her specifically.

In the end, she has to learn somehow, and its not worth getting frustrated at her just yet. My advice is have her get in with fetlife when she's got time, talk to her friend, and either get her a couple of books or take her to see someone else scene. This book is one of my personal favorites. And remember, even though you are the dom, its not just about you - there's got to be a little give and take for her to be happy too. You may have to give in and lead her around a little even though it's against your instincts. Hopefully the other methods will be enough for her to learn but she still has to learn your needs from you. :)