(Part 2) Top products from r/NonBinary

Yeah, Im currently single, but ive definitely thought about what relationships i might miss. What ive decided though, is that if i find someone that really loves me, they will love me no matter what i do, and anything else isnt worth it. (Ik thats so oversaid, but i really think its the right idea)
That being said, it doesn't make it suck any less.

If you haven't talked about it with her yet though, i wouldn't count it out just yet. One of my friends recently went through a similar experience with his girlfriend, and she was totally accepting.

For tucking, i don't have a whole lot of experience, and dont really know what youre referring too haha. but what works for me is using this gaffe with some boyshorts under it because its assless lol.

And yeah, i have mild anxiety so i def understand.

What's your measurement? Hard to gauge what a tiny trans body means.

Indochino would do whatever size customized but with shipping is going to run you upwards of $100 a shirt. Sounds like you are not looking to spend too much.

What about a boys shirt? Like this or this.

May I also suggest you look into a nice pair of goodyear-welt oxfords like these with a nice toe shape? Goodyear welts are not the cheapest but they are solidly built and you can replace the sole but keep the leather upper, meaning you can literally wear them 5-8 years minimum.

Edit: BTW the suit looks nice

Always My Child: A Parent's Guide to Understanding Your Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered, or Questioning Son or Daughter - Kevin Jennings

The GENDER Book - Mel Reiff Hill

The Gender Creative Child: Pathways for Nurturing and Supporting Children Who Live Outside Gender Boxes - Diane Ehrensaft

Gender Diversity and Non-Binary Inclusion in the Workplace: The Essential Guide for Employers - Sarah Gibson, J. Fernandez

Helping Your Transgender Teen: A Guide for Parents - Irwin Krieger

The Transgender Teen: A Handbook for Parents and Professionals Supporting Transgender and Non-Binary Teens - Stephanie Brill

Transitions of the Heart: Stories of Love, Struggle and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children - Rachel Pepper

yes it is, good eye!! i got it at a local shop, but i found this listing! there’s another listing on a website called inked goddess creations, but it’s sold out.
and thank u so much!!

In Germany we have a brand called ANITA. Can't vouche a 100% for them for being the best brand for a large chest, also I am not sure if you can buy their products everywhere. Ever since i discovered two or their models fits me more or less, it is my to-go brand. I posses now like 6 bras of two models and usually wearing them every not-binding day. the ones i have are pretty neutral in their design and I like the support and kind of light binding function. every now or then for very short trips I wear one of my very old bras and realise the huge difference. But I also gotta say that this brand doesn't fit me perfectly. My body changed quite a bit over the last few years (a difference of about 35-40 kilo less). I bought the 75-H modells, it is the only option that fits me more or less. I would need a smaler size (probs like 70ish) but in that case would also need a bigger cup which is not in their product range. It might be worth a try for you

https://www.amazon.de/dp/B0039O1DPK/ref=pe_3044161_189395811_TE_SCE_dp_1

https://www.amazon.de/Anita-Active-5527-Sport-BH-Schwarz/dp/B001VH7TTQ/ref=sxin_32_ac_d_rm?ac_md=1-1-YW5pdGEgYWN0aXZlIHNwb3J0IGJo-ac_d_rm&keywords=anita%2Bsport%2Bbh&pd_rd_i=B004HZHNY0&pd_rd_r=6a9870a1-b506-4627-8402-03931116a51d&pd_rd_w=esEZb&pd_rd_wg=j98Fq&pf_rd_p=2618eca9-4ff7-41d3-b46f-51aebb297467&pf_rd_r=58FSX1MN10FDCA0J6F7R&qid=1568644045&s=gateway&th=1&psc=1

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Those are the two I have

My husband and I decided to forego traditional rings entirely, and got tungsten spinner rings with a band you can rotate. I've always loved worry rings like that, he thought it was a neat idea, and we both found something similar we liked. I went for a thinner one that reads neutral to feminine, he went for an 8mm one that was more masculine.

A lot of it is just how you feel internally. I'm amab, but don't usually present in a feminine way in public due to how many assholes are out there. When I do, I make sure that I'm armed.

This book would probably answer all of your questions, and it does so in a very user friendly and easy to understand way, even for people who are straight and cis: How to Understand Your Gender https://www.amazon.com/dp/1785927469/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_txISDbVPY8001

Yessss!

Good for you!!!

If you need some reinforcement, tips, etc - highly recommend this book:
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

YESSSSS! I saw an article online back in September about these coming out with a slight negative slant to the story, and me being fresh on the self-acceptance train and brimming with enthusiasm said WELP, GOTTA HAVE THAT! I picked up this one and was utterly delighted! I've had fun swapping out their clothes to different looks, and to be completely honest, I feel personally empowered as a grown ass adult having a doll that matches the way I feel.

I almost want to get another one just to have more clothes to swap out with, but just as with my own wardrobe, there are bills to pay before we can get to that!

Ok so I can’t paste a picture here - I’m still learning reddit sheepish. The link that has the image is https://www.amazon.com/Funtasma-Pleaser-Womens-Gogo-300-Stretch/dp/B0018NCUEC/ref=asc_df_B0018NCUEC/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312487462035&hvpos=1o5&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16548211012477571817&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=t&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9016105&hvtargid=pla-339978493377&psc=1&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=65865895167&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312487462035&hvpos=1o5&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16548211012477571817&hvqmt=&hvdev=t&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9016105&hvtargid=pla-339978493377

Hanes Men's Pullover EcoSmart Fleece Hooded Sweatshirt, Black, Medium https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JUM2V8I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_7lB8CbZSE4FHM

This is a recent and well-acclaimed book on the subject, although I have not read it myself.

Search Amazon for seamless men’s boxer briefs and there’s a number of options that come up. They’re usually around $15 for a 6-pack. Since they’re seamless there’s no extra crotch pouch (it would just stretch to accommodate). I’ve bought these ones specifically before.

6pk Mens Seamless Athletic Compression Boxer Briefs Shorts Underwear OS KNOCKER Waistband https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KSCF366/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_9N.hDb4D24SN6