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I had this same problem what I did was add an extra snap closure to my pads so i can do them up more narrow across the gusset of my underwear. It does mean paying out for the tool to do it and the snaps but it does mean you can adjust any pad you buy to fit better.

I brought this set

https://www.amazon.co.uk/ilauke-Buttons-Fasteners-Poppers-400/dp/B01FVSPUQY/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1549071566&sr=1-2-spons&keywords=snap+button+set&psc=1

(I don't know how to link so I hope that works)

I'm sure you can find something similar the US if that is where you are from. I watched a video on youtube on how to use the tools and stuff it was really simple one I saw someone do it.

I know a lot of pads come with two snap closures anyway to adjust to different underwear sizes it might be worth looking at pictures of those to get an idea of placement.

I hope this helps and I hope you find a solution

1. Picking the right size can depend on how much you want the pads to absorb. I have a couple of different sizes, you can get a variety for overnight, heavy flow, med flow, or light flow.
   
   
2. I got my first cloth pads from Amazon because they were cheap and great as a trial run. I'm in Canada, but these are the same ones I have on Amazon.com: Link to variety pack and Overnight size
   
   
3. You change them like you would disposable pads, depending on your flow. They will feel damp but they absorb really well and are superior for wicking away moisture in comparison to disposables. I'd suggest paring them with period underwear or a menstrual cup if you are worried about leaks, some people wear two pairs of underwear to keep them in place. They don't have a sticky backing so it can take some getting used to. Overall they're way more comfortable than disposable pads.
   
   
4. A decent price to pay depends on what you're looking for. The ones on Amazon are cheap but they function well. When you want to upgrade consider if you want something made from organic materials, cotton, bamboo, hand-made off Etsy, etc. They will affect the prices.

I personally wash my cloth pads hot, and use mostly unbacked pads or pads backed only with fleece or microfleece. I wash them with my towels (and dish rags and other such items) in a heavy hot load. If they are PUL lined this may shorten their lifespan, although quality PUL should withstand normal hot washing for quite some time. If you use PUL, you might find that using a shield and insert type system (like Lunapads has) works for you because the PUL-containing shield becomes soiled less frequently, or you might decide to use something lined with microfleece or windpro fleece (or nothing, if your incontinence is light) as an alternative.

There's also cheap underwear [just lined with PUL]
(https://www.aliexpress.com/item/2016-Physiological-Briefs-Leakproof-Sexy-Menstrual-Period-Underwear-Women-Broadened-Foral-Health-Female-Panties-Calcinha/32704057437.html) available. [Another example on Amazon.]
(https://www.amazon.com/Anigan-StainFree-Seamless-Hipster-Menstrual/dp/B00KC3A9P6/) And here's [another.]
(https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Portal-Period-Underwear-Purple/dp/B01LD4QYWY/) This can be combined with 100% cotton pads or liners that will clean easily.

If your pads contain synthetic toppers and absorbent materials like bamboo, microfiber, etc be aware that these are harder to thoroughly clean than something that is pure cotton or cotton and fleece only.

Okay, if we've addressed what you're using, we need to look at how you're cleaning them:

• Do you have [hard water?]
  (http://www.fluffloveuniversity.com/how-to-wash-cloth-diapers/dealing-with-hard-water-and-cloth-diapers/) If you do, using calgon or borax in the wash is likely necessary for pads that have urine on them.
  
  
• Are you washing them sufficiently? Regular or stronger laundry cycle, sufficient agitation (put other stuff in the load like towels), the right water level (not just floating around in there, but not stuck to the washing machine dry), and most importantly using PLENTY of a good [detergent?]
  (http://www.fluffloveuniversity.com/how-to-wash-cloth-diapers/detergent-index/) A lot of brands unfortunately recommend washing routines that are far too mild. You want strong, standard detergent in an amount suitable for a heavy load.
  
  
• Since they already smell of urine, you may need to [strip]
  (http://www.fluffloveuniversity.com/troubleshooting/solving-stinky-diaper-problems/how-to-strip-your-cloth-diapers/) your cloth pads. Once you do this and get into a good washing routine you should never need to do it again.
  
  
• If your pads are substantially soaked, you may want to prewash them. While you can do a prerinse (use detergent and if needed softener!) in the machine, the cheaper option that only takes a minute of extra work is to just dump them in the sink with cold water and detergent, swish and soak for a bit, and then dump them into your laundry.
  
  Let me know how it goes and if there's anything else you need to troubleshoot.
  
  
  
  

I use these and I highly recommend them for someone just starting with cloth pads. They've very absorptive, stain-resistant, and comfortable. The stain-resistant fabric is quite smooth and might tend to slide down your underwear, but the pads will come with little adhesive strips to keep them in place. I haven't used the adhesive strips. I find that I don't need them if my underwear is tight enough.

The downside for me is that with the dark color, I don't get to see the amount of flow. Also, true for all pads anyway, the potential for nighttime mishaps.

Dritz 981T Heavy Duty Snap Fasteners Tool, Metal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DV8YBS0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_xamNDbN3EWA2Z

You should be able to pick it up at any Joanne’s. That’s where I got mine. It came with snaps. I think there are different sizes, so you’ll want to pay attention to the size of your snaps. You also definitely want something hard to hammer it on, too. It’ll make dents in something soft like wood.

ALVABABY 2pcs Cloth Diaper Wet/Dry Bags |Waterproof Reusable with Two Zippered Pockets|Travel, Beach, Pool, Daycare, Soiled Baby Items,Yoga，Gym Bag for Swimsuits or Wet Clothes L2933 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075CYYJCK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_7mkmDbB1AXQ53

RMS Ultra Soft 4-Layer Washable and Reusable Incontinence Bed Underpads, 18"X24" (3 Pack) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MUEVH9X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_EV35CbFT9ENXR I used these when I had an older cat who didn't always make it off the bed to the litter box. I also use a different set on my heavier days for reasons.