(Part 3) Best baby diapering products according to redditors

I have a three-week old. Here's my very fresh advice.

A swaddling sleep sack is awesome. It's a straightjacket for newborns. Makes it easier to feed (hands don't get in the way), helps calm him/her down, and sleep longer. You can swaddle with just a small blanket, but our baby breaks out in no time. The sleep sack keeps her swaddled for much longer.

Don't buy a ton of newborn clothes. If you have lots of family, you may need to buy none. Put a hint in your announcement on facebook, or the email or whatever, that some baby clothes would be greatly appreciated. You'll get quite a lot. Send a family member to the local swap or big yardsale, and get even more cheap.

For a bassinet, we have this pack and play. It can be folded up in ~3 minutes, and it transforms to a crib later, so it will last a while.

Our hospital sent us home with some extra diapers, enough for 2 days. If yours does the same, that gives you time to run to the grocery store and buy a couple of packs of the same size. Don't go overboard, they grow quickly. This changing pad is cheap, and you can use it on the floor, table, bassinet, etc.

Don't be afraid to blatantly lean on any close by relatives for support. Cleaning, food, etc. They want to spend time with the baby, and they will help you out.

If the hospital has a lactation consultant and you're going with breastfeeding, try to make sure they stop by for at least one feeding. They're very knowledgeable and helped us out alot.

You're probably pretty terrified. I had 9 months to prepare and I wasn't sure I wanted to be a dad. It's amazing how quickly you will fall in love with your little poop machine. I can't stop staring into her little chubby face, and I can't wait until we get to the interactive stages. The care is time consuming, but it's not hard, you'll do fine.

We got this car seat and are happy with it easy to get into the car, easy to remove, you can buy extra bases for multiple cars. They make strollers that the car seat snaps into, so you don't have to take the baby out to swap.

My baby wants to be bouncing when she's awake. Constantly. The swing is only sufficient sometimes. A baby carrier is just the the solution for us. We wear her around and bounce on an exercise ball, or just walk around doing chores.

Before you leave the hospital you will need the carseat. Send a relative out to toy's-r-us to get it. You'll probably want the bassinet immediately too. Everything else you can acquire in the first two days. Save receipts and don't be afraid to return if the baby doesn't like it.

this one's getting some serious consideration right now

https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Signature-Diaper-Black/dp/B00J4J243Y/ref=sr_1_19_s_it?s=baby-products&srs=2600671011&ie=UTF8&qid=1502929133&sr=1-19

edit:

Actually more likely the grey one because I am constantly covered in pet hair

https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Signature-Diaper-Heather/dp/B00J4J2CLS/ref=sr_1_3_s_it?s=baby-products&srs=2600671011&ie=UTF8&qid=1502929133&sr=1-3&th=1

So I had planned to finish this setup and post pictures during my two weeks off before my due date.. but then I went into labor on my second day off and here we are 8 weeks later!

We live in a 2BR/2BA apartment, but the other bedroom is for guests (in laws are here ATM) and my work from home office, and we definitely wanted to cosleep. The bedrooms are irritating small - 10x10 feet, but we managed to squeeze the essentials in.

I know a few people have commented about wishing they had space for a dedicated nursery, so I hope this gives you some ideas to show how it can work in a tight space!

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The Ikea Hemnes dresser holds our clothes with the exception of one of the small drawers which has LO's current clothes that fit. All the other sizes are in a storage box in the closet.

On the dresser top we have:

• Taylor Salter 914-WHLKR Baby Toddler Scale : only accurate to the 0.5oz, but worth the $45 to me in the early weeks to check his weight once a week. I'll use it for eBay packages afterwards (the top part can come off)
  
• hiccapop wipe warmer: LO cries hysterically during diaper changes, but half as much since we got this wipe warmer. Spoiled little guy! It's not perfect though. The Costco Kirkland wipes don't fit until you use up 15 wipes or so even after you take off the green dispenser part, and sometimes the wipes don't always dispense and you have to open the top to get them going again. We don't use the nightlight function
  
• Keekeroo peanut changer ("Vanilla", but seriously just tan really): I got this for $90 instead of $130 from a sale I stumbled upon (I posted about it here when I got it). Easy to wipe up.
  
  Behind the door, I got an organizer from the Container Store: I store our Muslin swaddling blankets and burp rags in the top four compartments, and the hamper for just LO's laundry. Has an odour out of the box, but it's fading.
  
  We have the ubbi diaper pail in grey. We originally thought we could go without a dedicated diaper pail, because our kitchen garbage is literally three feet on the other side of the door in the kitchen, but after a few days we realized it was much easier to have the diaper receptacle closer to the changing area (esp with LO screaming bloody murder during his changes). We went with Ubbi because you can use regular garbage bags and its steel instead of plastic (so will not retain odours). It's not completely airtight, but it hasn't been a problem with breastfed baby poops (they don't smell bad even when we forget to close the latch).
  
  Over by our queen bed, we have the Halo Bassinest and Dockatot. Yes, we put the Dockatot in the Halo (I added a picture that shows how closely it fits, since I was curious about it before I bought them), but lately, we've been bedsharing directly with the dockatot between me and DH in the bed. We don't have the Halo set up to swing over the bed though (you can't see LO from that height if you use the dockatot inside), we just have it set up to move closer and farther from the bed.
  
  In front of my Ikea Hemnes nightstand, is a plastic tote bin and a basket with my Medela PISA breast pump and stuff. That area of the floor was not really accessible because of how we arranged the Halo, so it seemed like a good place to stash my pump. I pull up the basket onto the bed when I want to pump (just 1-2 times a week after a morning feed, if I feel like it).
  
  The nightlight is from Mr Maria Designs (collaboration with LINE) - the small size. I was torn between this and the Miffy lamp. Definitely a splurge purchase, but it brings me joy (holla Konmari!) and I didn't care for any of the lamps on Amazon or the one from Ikea. I ordered it from Albee Baby and the 20% off code worked on it. The dimmer is stepless, and I keep it on the dimmest setting overnight so I can see baby for nursing in bed and changing diapers over at the Keekeroo.

As of today I'm 39 weeks and our nursery is complete! The quilt was handmade by my husband's late grandmother, the crocheted blanket and punch needle embroidery piece was made by me, and the orange abstract print was made my husband during his time in undergrad BFA.

I've loved seeing everyone's nurseries come together over the last few months while I've followed this sub. Good luck to all those still working on theirs :)

A few more pictures here: https://imgur.com/gallery/5voftU2

Favorite products

1 Second hand Dutailier glider from FB marketplace

2 Skip Hop changing mat Skip Hop Changing Pad: Nursery Style, Easy-Clean Cushioned Foam Diaper Changing Pad https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075X8TPMN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_SrhADbSY6FZH5

3 Hatch Baby Hatch Baby Rest Sound Machine, Night Light and Time-to-Rise https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XMRCC94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_pshADbCQMSXRM

4 Happiest Baby Snoo Sleeper https://www.happiestbaby.com/products/snoo-smart-bassinet

5 Alex Rug Pottery Barn https://www.potterybarnkids.com/m/products/alex-rug/?cm_cat=Google&sku=505397&catalogId=10&cm_ite=505397&gclid=Cj0KCQjw753rBRCVARIsANe3o47y1AAzv1kgpN7lR_Sb2krorJOtrhjQ1JzlQNecbRutBSC0hAWtpWwaAmbeEALw_wcB&cm_ven=PLA&cm_pla=Rugs%20%3e%20Pattern%20Rugs

I found these for 65-100lb supposedly

HappyEndings Big Kid Pull On Reusable Cloth Diapers/Training Pants (XL, (Fits 65-100lbs), Tractors) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KQM2QXN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_FEDACbSSN80JK

Looks like they have 2 other sizes as well, a medium and a large.

Here's an adult size one

HappyEndings Teen/Adult Hook and Loop Closure Stain Resistant Reusable Cloth Diaper for Incontinence"White" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B012YDC3O6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_FHDACbCFXAX57


There it's also this style if as an adult pull up ones might be preferable

Adult All in One Diaper by Leakmaster – Reusable Adult Diaper, 2X-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0023ABQO4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_JLDACb6TR9PBD

Mancro Diaper Bag Backpack, Organizer Baby Back Pack for Mom / Dad with Stroller Straps, Changing Pad & Insulated Pockets, Water Resistant Anti-theft Travel Bags for Boys / Girls Care in Grey https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071DQSWS3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_SZdLAb9ABXAR3


Several friends IRL have recommended backpacks over shoulder bags. It's easier to baby wear with. I like that this one has a side pocket for wipes.

I got this one for my husband and I to use.

Edit: no idea if it's any good yet, but the quality seems nice.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JG43YPK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_sKJPCbR1VYVE5

HappyEndings Eco Diapers on Amazon has velcro style ones. I have some of the snap ones and like them. Link

And these are pocket style with PUL outer so they do not need an additional cover.

I'm not shilling, just a satisfied customer. Get this. I haven't had a magic trick happen during a shit diaper in ages. The plastic thing on top is weighted enough so you only pull one wipe at a time.

Top 5

Our #1 MVP baby item
The Doona stroller car seat - blow your friends minds as you fold this open and closed effortlessly! Never wake your sleeping infant yanking her in and out of the car. YOU’RE WELCOME

https://www.shopdoona.com/pages/doona-car-seat-stroller

In this photo: Babyletto Hudson crib (Hudson changing table dresser and night stand)

https://babyletto.com/products/hudson-3-in-1-convertible-crib-with-toddler-bed-conversion-kit

Someone recommended stocking up on these and we now have a dozen - love that these have held up to a ton of hot washes and keep my changing stations clean

https://www.amazon.com/Quilted-Thicker-Waterproof-Changing-BlueSnail/dp/B075ZMCBLG

In this photo - Moroccan shag rug

https://www.amazon.com/nuLOOM-OZAS04A-Renata-Moroccan-Shag/dp/B01HDWGZMY

In this photo Baby trend diaper pail (love this!) very simple design and I Love that I don’t have to buy any separate bags or liners. I use regular kitchen scented trash bags and this works great. I registered for it when it was on amazon but now it’s out of stock but you can find it other places online

https://bibibin.com/6909110538127/

We've been cloth diapering for over a year now, and here is what I've learned:

• it takes about 10 minutes average a day to launder diapers, washing every two days
  
• hooking up a diaper sprayer to the toilet is the way to go, rather than using disposable liners. The diaper pail will never smell, except of ammonia at times.
  
• the more expensive cloth diapers with removable inserts are worth it, and still cost much less than disposables
  
• managing buildups and smells from soap/minerals is not easy
  
• there is no such thing as one size diaper wrap that fits all ages. You'll need one size for infants, and another for toddlers.
  
  Here are all the products I use.
  
  I built my own diaper sprayer using these instructions:
  http://gidgetgoeshome.com/2008/08/25/diy-tutorial-make-your-own-diaper-sprayer/
  
  Thirsties Duo Diaper (size 1 then 2)
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002FB7FBO
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002YGSTKQ
  
  Nightime extra hemp inserts
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002FB7FLY
  
  Wipes and warmer
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0032AMM9M
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000CNOIQ2
  
  Diaper pail and liner
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000YCNLSC
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000H8CPYO
  
  Detergent
  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B003N0JXUW

This is actually exactly what we've done for our nursery. We repaired a broken dresser and added a mat on top. They make one that has little grippy feet on the bottom and 2 straps you attach to the back of the dresser so it doesn't move. Pretty sure it's not going anywhere.

We have this and love it. The pocket on the side for wipes is the best!
https://www.amazon.com/Organizer-Waterproof-Backpack-Changing-Stroller/dp/B01EW7ROTG/ref=zg_bs_166767011_27?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=9V36FRETXCB2HAKVSPZG

Would this one work?

I've found most Skip Hop bags to be sturdy-many of them retain their shape and can stand up on their own. Here are a couple options: Duo Signature Tote-type, Backpack, and messenger bag

Hi! So I was in the same pickle as you, really wanted to do cloth but with the washer/dryer situation I was worried it would end up costing us even more. So I investigating the most effective way to hand wash. I use a mobile hand washer with prefold diapers. The AIOs will not work with my method for several reasons but I don't like AIOs anyways, namely because you have to wash both parts every single time you use them. Prefolds + cover, you can reuse the covers a few times before washing. Plus, prefolds are much cheaper, softer, and I think the sizing lasts longer. You can also fold them many different ways to find the best (read: cleanest) fit because every baby is different!

I have 27 prefolds and 7 covers, I believe. This is just enough so that I don't completely run out of diapers by the time the clean ones finish drying on the rack, if I'm leaving the washing til the last minute (usually like every 1.5 - 2 days, but it's better to wash them every day). It takes 10 minutes of plunging in a 5-gallon bucket and maybe another 5-10 minutes of wringing out with cold water. I find it to be kind of meditative and if you get into the plunging it is a good work out, too.

After I bought the plunger I realized I'd need a better detergent solution, too, because I need roughly a cap's worth of detergent each time I do this, which is at least 5 times/week, plus our regular laundry. This is another reason AIOs won't work. The laundry soap I made contains Borax, which will mess with the elasticity of the diapers (the prefold covers, too, but that's okay because I usually just wash those with a bar of laundry soap, Felsnaptha, soak in cold, and throw them in the dryer during our weekly/ twice weekly wash of clothes). Very very cheap to make, 20 cents/gallon.

Oh yeah, and I just throw the prefold diapers in the washer & dryer with the rest of the laundry whenever we do that, whether or not they're dirty (actually, if they're dirty, I still give them a quick wash/rinse anyway, I don't want them yucking up our clothes). They take up almost no room and it keeps them softer.

Washer
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003SQ7I5S/ref=oh_details_o03_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Diapers:
4 packs of these -
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003AJXY1U/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i07?ie=UTF8&psc=1
1 of these (super deluxe, was a gift, sooooo soft) -
http://www.amazon.com/BabyKicks-Pack-Prefold-Diaper-Small/dp/B001NAAQPU/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1376071041&sr=1-1&keywords=baby+kicks+diapers
7 of these -
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003AJXY1U/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i07?ie=UTF8&psc=1
1 pack snappis
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004YWKWJO/ref=oh_details_o00_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1


Detergent recipe - http://theurbanfarmingguys.com/diy-laundry-soap-20-cents-a-gallon
Products -
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000R4LONQ/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0029XNTEU/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0063KXEIG/ref=oh_details_o01_s00_i01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

HapTim Multi-function Large Baby Diaper Bag Backpack W/Stroller Straps-Insulated Pockets-Changing Pad, Stylish & Durable with Anti-Water Material(Gray-5284) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MCWVQN1?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf. This is what I use for the exact same situation. Not sure if the insulation is exactly what you’re looking for.

I've used both. I actually hated the Huggies Natural Care wipes as they used to tear when I pulled them out of the packet which would drive me nuts! We now use Up&Up wipes (either unscented or sensitive) and love them, they stay moist and are much cheaper as you say.

Another brand that we really like are Amazon Elements, we got a couple thousand for next to nothing on their Black Friday sale, so are stocked up for a while!

Our LO has never had a problem with any brand though, we are lucky to have never had even a hint of diaper rash somehow!

Summer Infant Quickchange Portable Changing Pad, Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0038JE3R6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_mAd5AbHX6F91M

This works great for changing our baby on the bed or the living room rug. We have one in our room and the living room since they’re so cheap.

We bought a hose that attaches to your toilet line when we thought we were capable of doing washable diapers. We quickly learned that it would not work out for us, but the sprayer has been super useful for blowouts. It is way more powerful than a sink faucet and blasts the crap right into the toilet, where it belongs. After I spray out a blowout, I just leave the destroyed item hanging on the side of the toilet to drip dry, then run it with the regular wash.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00KSW970Y/ref=sxts1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1482811096&sr=1

It's usually $100 and comes in many colors and can be found other places. My wife's sister has one and they love it because of the material. Easy to wipe off a mess.

My first recommendation is to check to see if she has a baby registry. New parents need/want LOTS of stuff, and while all gifts are appreciated, having someone help cover the essentials always made us really happy! Some of my favorite gifts were for things we needed like extra bottles, bassinet sheets, and giftcards to Amazon.

Now, to your question - here are some top items we've used with our new baby:

• If she's breastfeeding then nipple balm, nursing pads (I like the Lansinoh disposable ones), cooling pads for your bra for when you're engorged, a Haaka breastmilk pump/saver, and nursing tank tops.
  
• An activity mat
  
• High contrast books and toys to look at
  
• Extra changing pad liners
  
• Dreft stain remover (GREAT for poop stains!)
  
• Burp cloths (you can literally never have too many. We love these from aden + anais.)
  
  
  With the exception of the activity mat, you can really never have too many of the above items!

MW transit arkiv when I'm seeing clients.

skip hop diaper bag for adventures with the twins. I'm looking to upgrade this from amazon registry tier to something a little more interesting.

Not stroller or car seat related but with my twins I bought this change pad that you just wipe down instead of having sheets that you have to change. There were a lot of accidents on that mat...multiple a day some days and I was so happy I could just spray some vinegar and water solution and wipe instead of changing sheets plus adding to the laundry.
https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Nursery-Wipe-Clean-Changing/dp/B075X8TPMN

I love my diaper bag backpack

Baby Diaper Bag Smart Organizer Waterproof Travel Diaper Backpack with Changing Pad and Stroller Clips (Black Dot) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EW7ROTG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_iM0oyb8G5977B

I’m 5’4 and 100 lbs pre-pregnancy and I just ordered this one and love it! I have a toddler and my old diaper bag broke - this one was super cheap but I love the look and it has great space: Diaper Bag by Miss Fong,Baby Diaper Bag Backpack with Changing Pad,Wipes Pouch,Diaper Bag Organizer,Stroller Straps and Insulated Pockets(Grey) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NASOI1D/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_1hy0Ab3ZNHRSH

I’ll be totally honest: it feels gimmicky. They claim they are “CONSISTENTLY RATED THE #1 DIAPER BACKPACK BAG BY ALL PARENTS WORLDWIDE!” which is a ridiculous claim. How would you even measure that? If you’re willing to give up the cell phone charger feature, you can find other bags that will offer the same or similar features for half the price. Here is the one that me and at least three of my other friends have. If you really like the style of the bag you found, here is one very similar for almost 1/3 the price.

I love mine. Here's an Amazon link for those interested.

There are few baby items that I enthusiastically endorse but I literally do not understand why everyone doesn't have this changing pad.
Skip Hop Changing Pad: Nursery... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075X8TPMN?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

It is waterproof so only ever needs to be wiped down. The amount of times we would have had to wash and change changing pad covers after our baby pees during a diaper change is ridiculous. It's a little pricier than a traditional changing pad but I think it probably evens out not having to buy or wash covers.

And get one of those silicone butt spatula things. Worth every penny.

https://www.amazon.com/Nuby-Silicone-Diaper-Cream-Suction/dp/B07MKYKHGC/ref=asc_df_B07MKYKHGC/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312197228575&hvpos=1o3&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15647963736019621049&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9030255&hvtargid=pla-838798913232&psc=1

I got 4 of these and two used covers from a local mom. I stuff them with these hemp inserts, but I've also used inserts that aren't as absorbent, and once I forgot to put an insert in at all... but still no leaks.

>Where the fuck am I supposed to change him, on the floor?

Take him out to the car, or carry a towel or blanket that you can put on the floor for him to lay on. You can even buy changing mats specially designed for travelling. I'm sorry, but if you think it is in any way acceptable to change your baby while other people in the room are trying to eat, then you're an asshole.

1. I never used AIOs, but my MIL just changed my son with one of our pockets for the first time (she's always gone with either prefold/cover or disposable) and was simply amazed at how it was exactly like a disposable.
   
2. We use disposables at night because I ain't got time for that sh. We also use disposables when we are out and about, and really my husband is way more likely to reach for a disposable than a prefold when he does a change. I absolutely don't have an issue with a combo of the two, you just have to have two pails and some extra storage. If your daycare doesn't accept cloth diapers though... you might not find it worth it to just use them on the weekends and/or evenings. But maybe you will. (I wouldn't)
   
3. I probably have 12 covers (and a boat load of prefolds) and 7 pocket diapers. Daycare has to change the cover with the prefold as policy and it's still plenty for us. I have sent 4 diapers to daycare every day since 12 months and I do laundry every 3-4 days (we keep a backup stash of disposables there). But as I said, we use sposies at night. Prefolds are great rags for lots of things, so you could always buy a pack of prefolds and a cover or two to have on hand.
   
4. It's been pretty easy for us to cloth diaper. My hubs was totally on board because of the cost and his sister used cloth with hers so it wasn't completely new to him. I'd say my least favorite bit is rinsing poopy diapers (which hubs "doesn't know how to do"), but my son is an erratic pooper, so it doesn't make sense to use a liner for every single change - at that point I feel like you might as well be using a disposable. But I spent probably less than $200 on my whole stash (lots of stuff on half price day at consignment sales) and they are all in good enough condition to use for Child #2. My last advice - and the most recent thing I purchased - keep more wet bangs on hand than you think you need. I used to have 4 and I felt like I could never find one. I hate the SkipHop bag I bought at BRU, and have been loving this cheapo set I got from Amazon. Useful for so much more than just cloth diapers! Highly recommend for poopy/spitup-y clothes, bathing suits, etc.

No problem, that's what we are here for. The only thing is that if you buy your diaper direct from china they can take about 2-6 weeks to arrive.

If you want cloth diapers for the very first few weeks there are quite a few options available on amazon prime. For a part time cloth during the first 3 months you'll want around 12 to 24 changes. I personally prefer prefold style diapers for the first bit as they are the absolute best at containing runny newborn poop. This is a great blog explaining how prefolds work

3 Thirsties duo wrap size 1 @ $12.99 each, 18 Osocozy prefold diapers @ $12.99 for 6. and 3 snappis @$11.98

For $89.92 you will have enough diapers delivered to your door by monday to use cloth the majority of the time for the first three or four months. The prefolds then can be used to stuff One size pocket diapers until your baby is potty trained, or used underneath the flap of an AOI diaper for added nighttime absorbency.

you will still need a laundry bag and plastic basket to hold dirty diapers and a waterproof wet bag or two if you plan on going out with baby in a cloth diaper (or going to the pool/beach with your toddler)

Those washable zippered wet diaper bags.. Useful for so many things.

We used this Munchkin one until LO outgrew it. Super easy to wipe down, never got a scratch or hole in it, and can be bolted down to the change table.

I went with a backpack because I figured if I had the baby in a carrier harness, it would make juggling a messenger/crossbody bag as well too difficult and uncomfortable. I'm not really a purse person, either, so a lot of the tote-style and "designer look" bags just really didn't appeal to my taste or needs. Plus, backpacks have shorter straps and top handles, which makes slinging them over various chairs easier.

I ended up going with one I found on amazon for $30, so if it turns out I don't like using it for baby gear, I'm not out a lot of money.

If you can swing it, I highly suggest getting a keekaroo peanut. It's the one thing I always recommend and will make life so much more enjoyable. No one wants to be changing a changing pad cover at 3 am. Cleanup is as easy as using a baby wipe.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KSW970Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_YPw0CbNNHZPVF

8 months into EFF and cloth diapers. We change him in his room and if there is poop we take it to the bathroom and spray if off with a diaper sprayer, this one we bought on Amazon. Then the diaper goes into the wet bag in his room, and we wash every other day. This has worked very well for us. If our bathroom and his room were not near each other (it's right across the hall) I would probably just have an additional hanging wet bag on the bathroom door.

Now that baby is eating a lot more solids I'd say 50% of diapers don't even need to be sprayed anymore and the poop can just be plopped into the toilet lol.

ETA: His diapers definitely needed to be sprayed, especially before we introduced solids lol I'm very happy some did not experience that but we sure did!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07JG43YPK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I bought this one and I love it. It fits everything we need plus some and it's really cute but not so girly that my husband won't carry it. Even my father-in-law carries it when he takes my son to the park. The front pocket will keep things cool for a little while if you need that function, as it's insulated. The zipper on the back helps if you need something from the bottom but don't feel like digging through everything. Lots of inside pockets.

I see. I actually have been using these for Stan Smiths for a quick wipe 2-3 times per week: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00M4M2ZSC/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1

I wonder if I can use the same wipes for more high-end sneakers.

I got this one from amazon http://amzn.com/B014V793E6

It's a game changer!! Not sure if I can link it here, but I'll try: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MKYKHGC/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_i_mYvKDbEPE26J8

We had a drawer of diapers in the dresser with a changing pad on top. I kept cloth wipes in a wipe box (this one) on top of the dresser next to the changing pad. Covers I kept in a diaper caddy hanging on the wall next to the dresser.

I tried one like what you linked (Halova or something like that on Amazon) and I would not recommend. That clasp top means the inside just becomes jumbled and the straps were flimsy and not comfy to wear with much weight in the bag or length of time with it on.

We got this a few months ago and love it. For overnight travel we do need a 2nd backpack (just use husband's Osprey) but for out and about this is great. The advantages over a regular backup are more pockets (like a perfect one right on top where store the pacifier/teether for fast access) and insulated pockets.

After trying a few different styles of bags and backpacks, we ultimately settled on using this backpack most of the time. Diapers in the small front pocket. Bottles in the front main compartment, along with other snacks. Clothes in the back compartment, perhaps with some small toys. Wipes on the side.

We had a big messenger bag style diaper bag, but it was too awkward to use. The backpack is a little smaller, but with careful packing does pretty well. When we were going out for a longer period of time, I'd sometimes just use a duffle bag.

Here is the mobile version of your link

I'm in the same boat. I would use prefolds but my baby spends 4 days a week with other caregivers who aren't as excited about cloth diapering as I am. Trying to find a compromise between cost and convenience for them isn't easy.

I'm getting these in the mail tomorrow. At $5 each they're not too pricey:

https://www.amazon.com/Thirsties-Hemp-Inserts-Pack-Small/dp/B002FB7FLY?th=1

We have the Hap Tim backpack and love it. My husband is a big fan because it looks like a normal backpack. I’ve travelled with it and it’s big enough for all of baby’s gear plus my own stuff for the flight. Skip hop has a similar one too.

https://www.amazon.ca/Multi-function-Backpack-Straps-Insulated-Pockets-Changing-Gray-5284/dp/B01M8LK3ET/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?keywords=diaper+bag+haptim&qid=1569815730&s=gateway&sprefix=diaper+bag+hapti&sr=8-7

Something like this? Soft, looks like it rolls up for storage in other rooms.

https://www.amazon.com/Quilted-Thicker-Waterproof-Changing-BlueSnail/dp/B075ZMCBLG/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1549036268&sr=1-2-spons&keywords=baby%2Bchanging%2Bpad&th=1

Nuby Silicone Diaper Cream Brush with Suction Base, Aqua https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MKYKHGC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_v-L0Cb5S7C1H6

Biubee 3 Pack Wet Dry Cloth Diaper Bags - Baby Waterproof Washable Reusable Hanging Diaper Organizer https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M6E2D7O/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_wnF7CbFXSRM5Z

This is what we use for daycare! Does great, has actually held up better than one of our planetwise ones. I also have some for my pump parts during work.

Ok so a mom I know suggested this. Buy one of those big squishy change pads with a scooped center.

Munchkin Secure Grip Changing Pad, White https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B00O64QJOC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_tTTACbVFMXS5F

Put it in your bed and put baby in it. Don't strap them in.

I have something similar to this.
Baby Diaper Bag Smart Organizer Waterproof Travel Diaper Backpack with Changing Pad and Stroller Clips (Black Dot) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EW7ROTG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_gWXdzbBRAHGP6

I love this HapTim diaper bag

It does have insulated pockets but they aren’t that great. Otherwise I love this thing. I also got the munchkin 360 cups in stainless steel. They keep things cool for a long time.

Not really when you can just buy 720 on amazon for $16.

My daughter was a normal-to-light pee-er (sp?) up until one year old, and was fine with the bamboo blend inserts that came with her Noras Nursery pocket diapers (rebranded Alva diapers). Once she hit a year old we had to add hemp doublers to the pocket diapers. And to be honest, I was surprised the single insert lasted as long as it did!

You don't have to invest in different inserts but maybe more inserts to add to your already existing inserts. I'm a fan of hemp, and I've found the best combo of cheap and reliable to be Green Mountain Diapers hemp doublers.. I've also had great luck with Thirsties hemp doublers and Blueberry Bamboo Cotton Doublers but they're pricier.

I also saw this one that I thought was cute too. Little more stylish and less unisex. Thoughts?

we use these covers and while we're still new to cloth diapering, I like them. Usually good to just re-use, or wipe down on a heavy diaper. Though on a really heavy diaper/blowout I've had some get on the elastic part at the legs that you can't wipe off and needs to be washed. We also always use a snappie with the pre-fold, though i haven't tried it with out one.

This one!!!!

It has a huge opening so that you can see everything instead of it opening just at the top and having to look down into darkness with tons of other pockets so that I don’t carry my purse anymore.

Husband and I both carry it comfortably with totally different body types as I’m a narrow 5’6 and he is 6’3 with wide shoulders.

My top five:

1. OXO perfect pull wipe dispenser - OXO Tot Perfect Pull Wipes Dispenser, Navy https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0771FFJ1J/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_mzPkDbJMKD4SF
   
   
2. Target storage baskets - https://www.target.com/p/y-weave-medium-rectangle-bin-room-essentials-153/-/A-53816617?preselect=14758453#lnk=sametab - used these in the dresser drawers to organize clothes!
   
   
3. Angel Care monitor - Angelcare AC403 Movement and Sound Monitor, White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00K5439FO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_wEPkDbTEKA6RS
   
   
4. plush deer bust - ADORE 13" Boone the Whitetail Deer Plush Stuffed Animal Walltoy Wall Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EVWX6A8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_kFPkDbPEAR0Y8 - His antlers are a fun way to keep the blinds cord away from the crib!
   
   
5. the low profile dresser and shelves my husband made that allow us to use the otherwise useless space under the sloped ceiling.

Buy extra carbon for the genie. Costco is the best place to buy the refills for the bags for Genie BTW. Here in Canada, it is ~$26 for a 4 pack of refills where most places it is $26 for a 3 pack. If you want to use other brands too, you can probably find better deals though.


Thyme maternity (Might be Canadian Only though) partners with a bunch of companies so if you sign up, you will get a bunch of free stuff.

If your wife wants this diaper bag, you can look at this knockoff. My wife absolutely loves it.