(Part 3) Top products from r/Swingers
We found 18 product mentions on r/Swingers. We ranked the 81 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the products ranked 41-60. You can also go back to the previous section.
41. My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Show Reddit reviews42. The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)"Happiness is a choice, and so is suffering."
Show Reddit reviews43. Saddle Style Reusable Waterproof Bed Pad - Will Absorb 10 Cups of Liquid - Made in America (34" X 36")
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
MADE IN USA: Every waterproof bed pad is quality made and inspected in the USATWIN SIZE: Built for a twin size bed, this 34" x 36" bed pad includes 18" tuck tails to hold the pad securely in placeFULLY ABSORBENT: This saddle style incontinence bed pad will absorb up to 10 cups of liquid ensuring you...
Show Reddit reviews44. Woods L13 Twin Head Work Light, Adjustable Tripod Up To 42 Inches Tall, 16,000 Lumen, 4-Foot 18/3 Cord, Cord Storage Bracket, Weather Proof Power Switch Per Lamp For Individual Control (Includes 2 500-watt Quartz Halogen Bulbs)
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Twin head lamps rotate 360-degrees and fixture telescopes up to 42-inches tallTripod stand uses locking nuts requiring 1/4 turn for quick adjustments, 4-foot 18/3-gauge cordAll metal construction with hinged face and UV protected tempered safety glassShadow fighter grill reduces shadows, one weather...
Show Reddit reviews45. How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild): Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 1
Show Reddit reviews46. Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Sentiment score: 0
Number of reviews: 1
Show Reddit reviews47. Sliquid Organics Lubricant Oceanics with Carrageenan, nori & wakame - 4.2 oz
Sentiment score: 0
Number of reviews: 1
Carrageenan offers the benefit of being one of the most effective lubricants found in nature, and has been shown in lab tests to help prevent the spread of hpv which is one of the most common std'sWakame is a red algae often used for its anti-wrinkle and skin revitalizing properties, as well as bein...
Show Reddit reviews48. ES412 Cleancut Personal Shaver, Silver
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Quality Product Made in Japan and instructional video includedFull One Year Parts and Labor GuaranteeDesigned and Engineered to be used almost ANYWHERE on Your BodyUse for Underarms, Bikini Line, French "landing strip" or even a Brazilian "take it all off" styleA Freedom Hill exclusive, Cleancut sha...
Show Reddit reviews51. NorthShore Champion, 35 x 47, 31 oz, Washable Underpad, X-Large, Each
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
LAYERED CONSTRUCTION: Cotton/poly toplayer, rayon absorbent lining and waterproof, non-slip vintex backing.NON-IRRITATING: Soft cotton/poly white quilted toplayer is comfortable against skin.MULTI-USE: Ideal for protecting beds, chairs, sofas and more from incontinence, spills, or pets.LONG LASTING:...
Show Reddit reviews52. mberry Miracle Fruit Tablets, 10-Count
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
MBERRY MIRACLE FRUIT TABLET - The new indulgence is practically magic! Turn sour food sweet by inhibiting your taste receptors. Truly transform foods you never thought could be so sweet and delicious.PERFECT FOR - Explore the many ways to use mberry tablets. Host “flavor-tripping” dinner parties...
Show Reddit reviews53. Forum Novelties 53500 Party Supplies, Multi
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Adult drinking gameThe first one naked winsA new alternative to strip pokerOther drinking games from Forum Novelties include: Shot Roulette, Bar Golf and Pass OutLook to Forum Novelties for all your Halloween, Bachelorette Party, Easter, Mardi Gras and St. Patrick's Day supplies
Show Reddit reviews56. Philips Norelco Bodygroomer BG2040/49 - skin friendly, showerproof, body trimmer and shaver
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Shaver needs to charge for 24 hours before its first use3 Dimension pivoting head allows the shaving head to closely follow your body's contours for the ultimate in skin comfort on your bodyHigh performance trimmer has rounded blades and combs to prevent scratching the skin. Select from from 5 lengt...
Show Reddit reviews57. JO Premium Silicone Lubricant - Original (16 oz)
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 1
SILKY SMOOTH: The silky smooth, buttery glide supplements the body’s natural lubrication and enhances the pleasures of intimacy. Never sticky or tacky.WATER RESISTANT: For more adventurous play in the shower, tub, or jacuzziGENUINE: Be sure that you select "Sold by System JO" or "Sold by Amazon" ...
Show Reddit reviews58. Capsule Connection 1000 Bulk Wholesale Empty Clear Gelatin Capsules,"00" Size,
Sentiment score: -1
Number of reviews: 1
Pure clear capsules with no preservatives or additives. Lowest price available. Save by buying bulk.Pure kosher and halal beef gelatin and waterNo preservatives, additives, GMO, BSE or gluten"00" holds about 730 mg. or 1/5 tsp.Packaged and distributed by Capsule Connection, LLC since 1973
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I don't need/expect full shave or wax, but it's just a drag to go down on someone who's got a lot of pubic hair--and I LOVE going down.
I have pretty sensitive skin also, and had issues with both waxing and wet shaving--given that nicks/rashes increase your risk of acquiring an STD, that is not cool from a casual play perspective.
I have been using a trimmer (a wahl) plus this close shaver for several months and am quite happy with that combo. The close shaver is not quick--it usually takes several passes to get all the hair off--but I have zero skin irritation and my skin stays really soft. The close-shaver only works on hair that's already very short, so using the trimmer first is a must.
Personally, I find that I have greater sensitivity (in a good way) when I'm completely shaved, which is why I do it. I also think it's considerate of anyone who might go down on me. :)
EDIT: Just adding this--I personally don't consider it a positive thing that pubic hair traps moisture--unfortunately, for many people, that also means that it causes odor. It would be nice if everyone were super-conscientious about hygiene, but not everyone with pubic hair is going to go wash right before getting down (I wish they would). My body chemistry is pretty sensitive & I avoid anything that increases moisture (e.g., synthetic panties, pubic hair, etc.) because I've found that helps me avoid yeast infections. But I get & stay wet very easily, so maybe I have the opposite problem your wife has.
I prefer silicone based but clean up is a pain. Its great for the pool too :) we use Joe h2o for most days
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https://www.amazon.com/System-H2O-Lubricant-8-Ounce-Bottle/dp/B002R5BE10?th=1
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We still need to re apply every 7-10 minutes, but dont find we need to with the silicone.
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https://www.amazon.com/JO-Premium-Silicone-Lubricant-Original/dp/B003CP14W8/ref=zg_bs_10786441_13?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=HP97HVYWGPM9KYNRTGDR&th=1
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>SILKY SMOOTH: The silky smooth, buttery glide supplements the body’s natural lubrication and enhances the pleasures of intimacy. Never sticky or tacky.
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Never sticky or tacky.<---
OMG you want 'miracle' berries!!! They temporarily mess with your sense of taste so that sour and bitter things taste completely different--sweetish!
Put a few on a tray with grapefruit, lemons, limes, and maybe a few cheeses and vegetables. Light (heh, just don't overdo the cheeses), finger friendly, clean, and super fun to do in groups. Perfect for a night focused on sensual experiences!
Amazon sells these chucs style pads like they use at hospital for post delivery. https://www.amazon.com/Saddle-Style-Reusable-Waterproof-Bed/dp/B0001YIB1A/ref=mp_s_a_1_8?keywords=waterproof+pads+for+bed&amp;qid=1558227333&amp;s=gateway&amp;sprefix=waterproof+oads&amp;sr=8-8. Definitely a great investment and easy to just wash and use and you need.
This was an awesome book:
Swinging from A to Z: A how-to guide from a full-swap Lifestyle couple for enhancing your relationship with recreational sex
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004E10W4A/
All our questions answered in a clear yet fun way. Also, points of view from both the husband and wife. I read a couple other books as well but this was was just awesome.
This makes sense. Even though I'm not really an avid user of porn (unless you count SLS and AFF profiles, which I rarely if ever use as masturbatory material. Most of that comes from my Kindle erotica readings 8^) ).
The reason I say it makes sense is that our friends like to keep the lights dim when we're playing. I've mentioned to my wife I would rather leave them on as I am a very visual person.
Possibly I should just bring a set of my work lights to the room next time. hahaha. something like this...http://www.amazon.com/Designers-Edge-L13-1000-Watt-Telescope/dp/B0007WJJFS/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1453766144&amp;sr=8-10&amp;keywords=work+lights
Sip and go naked. Each card said either strip, sip, kiss basically! Loved it. Good quick icebreaker to get us all tipsy and naked!
http://www.amazon.com/Forum-Novelties-Sip-N-Go-Naked-Drinking/dp/B001O5XJDK
I read a great book, "How to make love all night (and drive your woman wild)" in my early 20s and its helped me last longer and have multiple orgasms. A lot of good advice on breathing, muscle control, arousal recognition, and more in there.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000FC127S/
Other than that you could use condoms for BJs, numbing lube, cum before going, or just tell them to stop/slow down bc you don't want to cum yet.
Why not start by reading books and listening to podcasts? It's something you can do together to explore your fantasies and at the same time, educate yourselves so that if you do decide some day that you feel like trying swinging, you'll be caught up on the learning curve. There are podcasts linked to in the side bar of this subreddit, and let me go find you some books from my Amazon list. brb...
Here you go:
My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory
69 Shades of Swinging: A How-To Guide From A Full-Swap Lifestyle Couple For Enhancing Your Relationship With Recreational Sex
Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities
Plays Well in Groups: A Journey Through the World of Group Sex
Yes, tell the other couple.
Buy three of these so you have two ready to go while one is in the wash.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001IN46NU/ref=oh_o06_s00_i01_details
That is the same model that I bought
https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-Bodygroomer-BG2040-showerproof/dp/B0037HP9OA
The blade razor like head has yo be replaced but not too often, I have used it more than several times and its still the same
Be caution to read all review and make sure that its exactly what you need
A book that may help: Esther Perel - Mating in Captivity
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000UODXP0/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&amp;btkr=1
Apparently someone else had the same idea...
Just read up on it. Short answer -- I think Glycerin (glycerol) breaks down into sugar AKA yeast food.
... and I just stocked up on K-Y for our parties because the silicone lubes I was using stain like crazy. They also weaken non-latex condoms, which more and more couples are using and I personally prefer. Fuck! Time to throw that shit out. This glycerin-yeast infection thing is very off-putting.
I'm going to go ahead and spend the money and only by carrageenan-based lubes from now on.
But man, they're expensive!!
http://www.amazon.com/Carrageenan-Gently-Natural-Personal-Lubricant/dp/B0017QPOPW
http://www.amazon.com/Sliquid-Organics-Lubricant-Oceanics-Carrageenan/dp/B004ODQJUE/
This one, though, still contains glycerin... :(
http://www.amazon.com/Natural-Personal-Lubricant-Sensitive-Skin/dp/B00P0A2UU8
So this is a touchy topic but my wife and I have a TON of sex and sometimes I think it is the frequency that we do it (we don't use condoms when it's just the two of us) that can trigger this.
I am hesitant to post this because we have real life swinger buddies who read this sub, but anyways, here's our home remedy. Don't be grossed out.
Some first aid boric acid powder scooped into empty gel caps, inserted vaginally. If you have an exceptionally heavy play session might wanna douche it with peroxide first to nuke the bad microbes, then insert one of these after.
What causes BV? Imbalance in vaginal microbial flora. How does that happen? Lots of ways, could be hormonal imbalance, could be something is feeding the bad microbes (semen has a bit of fructose in it, and some lubricants might too, or who the fuck knows what kind of germs are on fingers or mouths) or could be a bacterial infection you need antibiotics for. However if it's something that reoccurs in reproducible situations I would say it's something throwing off your wife's pH and this might help.
Is it safe? My wife's gynecologist prescribed her these that were made by a compounding pharmacy in town. We ran out and started making our own. Seems to work exactly the same. Try at your own risk.
Do one at a time. If it doesn't clear up after the first one, do another one later that day, or the next day. Abstain from sex till you get it under control. If it doesn't work after a couple days, forget it and go back to the gynecologist . . . but this isn't an uncommon problem it's just not discussed openly because people think it's related to "bad hygiene" and women are ashamed of it.