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1. Where's MY Book? A Guide for Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Youth, Their Parents, & Everyone Else
Sentiment score: 3
Number of reviews: 1
The book The Transgender Teen by Stephanie Brill is your new bible, seriously. Read it, then give it to your parents. There's also a new book out for Trans teens and their families, called Where's MY Book? by Linda Gromko, MD. I haven't read it yet, but it looks well worth a look.
Check out http://t-vox.org/ and http://camparanutiq.org/ . You'd love Camp Aranu'tiq.
Watch this great video too. It's about Trans kids and it's really good. (Ignore the line from one mom about how blockers are "brand new". They aren't. They've been used for decades. The books I mentioned above explain a lot more about all that.)
Your parents should run, not walk, to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/tyfa_talk/ and join it when they're ready. It's a wonderful parents-only group specifically for parents of Trans and gender-questioning kids who are 18 and under. There's a lot more to it than "you should support your kid". There's lots for them there, even if they think they're already supportive. On Facebook, they can join these great groups for parents of Trans and gender-expansive kids: here and here. And here on Reddit, they can check out /r/cisparenttranskid.
Trans Youth Family Allies, Gender Spectrum (and their fantastic conference), and the Trans Health conference, among other resources, will help your whole family a lot.
To find a therapist who gets Trans issues (most don't, and are unhelpful at best and actively harmful at worst), see http://t-vox.org/medical and http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/ . For the second link, enter your location and then select Transgender from the Issues list on the left.
The nice folks at the Genecis clinic at Children's Medical Center Dallas, the Gender Development clinic at Lurie Children's Hospital in Chicago, the Gender Management Services (GeMS) clinic at Boston Children's Hospital, The Center for Trans Youth Health and Development at Los Angeles Children's Hospital, the gender clinic at Seattle Children's Hospital, BC Children's Hospital in Vancouver, and/or the Trans youth clinic at SickKids in Toronto can help your family connect with more providers and support networks in your area for Trans children and their families, including the ones that aren't near you. They do a lot of networking with groups and providers across North America and around the world.
Come chat in Yay for Queers too if you want. I think you'd like it there. It's mostly Trans guys and questioning people. It's not a bustling hive of constant chatter, but if you talk, people will respond and be happy to chat with you. :)
GLAAD has a comprehensive list of trans resources here: http://www.glaad.org/transgender/resources
HRC has some great ones, too: http://www.hrc.org/resources/topic/transgender
Keep in mind, many of these are very long lists that range from crisis hotlines to educational programs to local outreach efforts. But they're great links to have.
For parenting, I suggest the following (maybe include these first, as they're directly aimed at parents):
Gender Spectrum also offers parenting info: https://www.genderspectrum.org/explore-topics/parenting-and-family/
TransYouth Family Allies has good helpful info too: http://www.imatyfa.org/resources/parents/
If you want info specific to schools, workplaces, etc, let me know. But this should be a start. Above all, be kind and understanding. You've been inside your own head all this time, but it might blindside your parent to learn of your desire to transition. Give them a little time as they adjust, answer questions honestly (even if they're asked awkwardly - some people genuinely want to learn but don't know how to ask the right questions), and be consistent. Don't fly off the handle if your mom misgenders you a week after you come out; as long as she's trying and open to gentle correction, that's progress.
If she reacts badly or you need other resources, PM me. Good luck!