(Part 3) Top products from r/creepyPMs

I'm assuming you've read Nelly Dean? I thought it did a good job! And I haven't seen all the movie versions but I do love the Tom Hardy one haha

1. I'm ex law enforcement, and I worked in Legal for over 15 years. You can try filing a police report, but he hasn't broken any laws. So there is nothing they can do for you.
   
   
2. Your primary supervisor and your HR department are who you should notify. This should be done in writing, either by email or by typed letter.
   
   In this report you should include:
   
   

• Times and date of contact.
  
  
• What was said, verbatim. Type out clearly and concisely what was said. Write it in a format that it easy to read/follow.
  
  
• If possible, include hard copies of the text conversation.
  
  
• Retain copies of everything you give them.
  
  Purchase a notebook. A lot will happen, many conversations, and so-on. You will never keep it all straight in your memory.
  
  
• Record the name, job title, and their relation to you, of each person you give documents to.
  
  
• List what documents you give to who, and the date and time you did so.
  
  
• Keep detailed notes of any discussions with anyone regarding this. HR, supervisors, dept. managers, coworkers. (Make these notes after the meetings/conversations. Not in front people while it's taking place.)
  
  
• Never, never give that notebook to anyone except your attorney. It may sound ridiculous, but if you willing relinquish control/possession of that book, they can keep it. (And yes, there is case precedence for this.) If it comes down to supplying something, make photo copies, and redact from them anything not pertinent to what your providing.
  
  
• Do not tell anyone but your attorney about the notebook.
  
  
• Do not speak to this person in any way. If he approaches you, leave. If he follows you, go to a manager's or HR office. Keep notes of the time and date, and the outcome.
  
  
• A little too late for this one: But never tell anyone what your going to do. You're giving them your game plan. I guarantee you this guy is working on a story, and it's going to make all of this your doing. And believe it or not it often works, or at least muddies the waters enough that they'll do nothing.
  
  This may seem like a lot of work and trouble to go through. It is. But it's nothing compared to the stress and nightmare you could go through if you don't.

So I started a summer job at an Amazon warehouse and shipped a book titled "Why Men Love Bitches" the other day. Apparently this shit goes both ways and people believe it enough to write and read books about it. So I'm not surprised if OP's creep saw a random video and was inspired.

Thanks! I have a swashbuckling rogue character for Pathfinder, and I go to Renaissance faires as a pirate. I got a copy of this for Christmas a couple of years ago, and use it for ITLaPD and tabletop quite a bit. It's an awesome read and consult for piratey jabberin'

I dated this guy, too. Or his astral twin or something.

It's called Borderline Personality Disorder. Everything is black or white. The one they love is an angel sent from heaven. And then, out of the blue, for no reason whatsoever, the one they love is suddenly a demon sent straight from hell. I'm glad you got away. Never engage him again.

http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901

In addition to a drinking game, I feel like there should also be a Creepy Indian Guy on the Internet Magnetic Poetry Kit.

I'm just gonna assume this is what he was talking about.

Ask and thous shalt receive.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000VHH5DW/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8

You should play along and make him pay, then send him this

Most of us non creepy guys hate these creeps as well

This shit right here is the bomb: Thayer's Rose Witch Hazel

I grow roses and make my own, just buy witch hazel in bulk and add tons of rose petals to it.

You'd think someone would actually review the actions and literature of a movement before attempting to speak authoritatively on it.

You'd think so, but this is the internet... so you'd be wrong.

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I'd dare you to read Bad Feminist and Women & Power but it's been my experience that people avoid information that makes them uncomfortable so I already know you won't bother.